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Please explain your deletion

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EhricLovesTheBhrothers · 17/01/2015 17:53

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/_chat/2284010-Just-got-married-how-do-I-legally-change-my-name?msgid=51959653#51959653

On this thread. User marionhaste posted warning the op to be careful about changing Her name bcause it can be hard to change back if you get divorced. OP didn't like this but there was no personal attack in it, no offensive language, it did NOT break talk guidelines yet it has been deleted. Op says because it was hurtful. Is this your policy now? To delete different points of view when the OP finds th em hurtful? I'm furious!

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EhricLovesTheBhrothers · 18/01/2015 08:13

Any response? I see you've posted on the thread and told everyone to be nice to the op. Since when has mumsnet functioned like this? Deleting a post for offering an alternative perspective? Is marriage suddenly sacrosanct and above debate? Is this actually you and your wedding dot com where the only response allowed is 'hugs Hun aren't you a lucky bride'? You don't agree that mumsnet has become sanitised and anodyne then you delete a post that broke no talk guidelines just because it upset a bride's feelings Hmm

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