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The lady whose waters broke at 18 weeks ...

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Theyvallgone · 27/12/2014 20:22

She delivered her baby at 28 weeks-ish ... I can't find her thread to see how her and baby are doing :( I posted on it, but can't see it in 'im on' and when I do a search it looks like it might have been deleted?

Can't stop thinking about this lady bless her! Can anyone help?

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StillinShockAhhhhhhh · 29/07/2015 23:56

:( this whole thread must have made her feel terrible

snarferson · 29/07/2015 23:48

That's so terrible if it was her and she was branded a troll. Poor couple Sad

StillinShockAhhhhhhh · 29/07/2015 23:34

From what I can remember I would lay money on it being her Sad

HerRoyalNotness · 29/07/2015 23:32

ollie that is it! Is it the same couple then?

StillinShockAhhhhhhh · 29/07/2015 23:29

This is horrendous :( poor couple!!!!

MsCoconut · 29/07/2015 23:28

I'm pretty certain it was Ollie James.

I was thinking that name before it flashed up on OBEM just now.

So sad. Sad

HerRoyalNotness · 29/07/2015 23:21

Iirc o think she named him James Peter? Could be misremembering though.

StillinShockAhhhhhhh · 29/07/2015 23:17

I think so its really hard to recalls it was December maybe some one from mumsnethq could recall?

Drivinghomeforchristmasornot · 29/07/2015 23:16

She did say she was going to be on obem didn't she? Sad

StillinShockAhhhhhhh · 29/07/2015 23:14

All we know is mumsnethq thought she was a troll no actual proof from what I can see? Just feel terrible if this is her that we all disbelieved her at a time of need

StillinShockAhhhhhhh · 29/07/2015 23:06

The poor couple on one born do literally fit the thread perfectly.....

DixieNormas · 29/07/2015 23:05

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StillinShockAhhhhhhh · 29/07/2015 23:03

Does anybody remember what she said the baby was called? Woman on one born this evening has remarkably similar situation? Same age same hospital same gestation when waters broke really sad outcome :( which could explain why thread was pulled

DixieNormas · 17/01/2015 19:26

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Babyh200 · 17/01/2015 09:37

Dixie: this has made me weary of posting on future threads. How anyone would do such an awful thing for attention is beyond me. It's just shameful it isn't it!

DixieNormas · 17/01/2015 00:13

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Babyh200 · 16/01/2015 22:25

I feel really gullible and posted often on the thread trying to support the OP.
I kept checking back for updates, especially since I believed she was in a hospital local to me. Anyway, It turns out one of my close friends colleagues had a premie baby and was in the NICU for 11 weeks (or thereabouts) and I was so worried about nobbly when she stopped posting that I asked my friend if she could find out anything about how they were doing. My friend came back to me and said her colleague definitely didn't recall them at all and I thought that was a bit strange. (I'm also good friends with one of the midwives because of my own loss and was going to message her too) Now I've found this update tonight it make sense why!

HerRoyalnotness, Im so very sorry to hear about your daughter. I'm sure the blanket you sent has gone to a good home. Thinking of you so much, please don't blame yourself for any decision you made you just wanted the best for your baby girl.

daholster · 08/01/2015 23:11

Wow well done. I hope it gets easier for you, and you get to enjoy some family time this weekend.

HerRoyalNotness · 08/01/2015 03:43

It went ok. I held it together until home time when i bumped into someone with a 7mth bump, cried at that, as that's where I should be with my DD.

I've managed to ask for all Fridays off and they're being very good, saying just do what you want for as long as you need. Also giving me easy, small projects that don't have deadlines so as not to get stressed out.

I do need to be in a team though and they don't have a lot of work so will start looking for something else with more busy-ness, hopefully at my old company.

SunflowerSmile · 08/01/2015 03:13

I'm so sorry this happened to you Royal

Hope your first day back went ok. Go easy on yourself.

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daholster · 07/01/2015 08:20

Hope it went well yesterday royal x

daholster · 06/01/2015 04:20

Good luck, I will be thinking of you.

HerRoyalNotness · 06/01/2015 00:53

Thank you both

I'm back to work tomorrow after being off for 4mths. I'm dreading it tbh. Will just think of how it benefits the family and try to get on with it as best I can.

daholster · 05/01/2015 23:01

Royal I couldn't possibly try to find the words to comfort you, I am so sad that your loss happened that way, as a mum and as a HCP. You did the best you could for her and I hope you can find peace with that. I want to give you a huge hug xxxx

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