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Moving to Steiner for Secondary School from State Primary

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WKMum · 21/04/2010 11:05

Hello!

Advice sought from all you very knowledgeable Mums and Dads out there!

I realize I may be opening a can of worms with this post, but I have tried to make my way through the various other Steiner threads on MN and, despite their being very long and rambling, very few of the posts seem to address my particular situation, so please forgive me for starting up another debate.

I am posting this in the Secondary School thread, because I am not interested in the whole Steiner Early Years 'To Read Or Not To Read' debate.

My DD is eight years old and in Y3 at our local state primary school. She is strong at the more 'creative' subjects, such as writing and drama, but her maths is poor and she is in the 'lower set'. (Personally, I have an issue with the idea of 'streaming' children as young as seven, as I think it gives their confidence a terrible knock, and only serves to dint their interest in the subject even further - but that is another discussion!)

We live in a GS area, and a large number of the children at DD's school will go on to GS. My daughter's teacher has indicated, however, that she is unlikely to pass the 11+. (Information I was given, rather than requested.) Although I appreciate it is early to make this call, and nothing is set in stone, I am nonetheless currently exploring the other options.

The one aim I have for my DD is that she is happy in her secondary school. Academic achievement is not the 'be all and end all' in my opinion, and I am not inclined to have her intensely coached to pass the 11+, as I know a lot of people around here do, just so she can then be at the bottom of a very large pile of very bright/pushed kids, which I think would just undermine her confidence.

My preference for her would be a small, non-selective indie, in which she can feel comfortably average in most subjects and have enough one-to-one attention to be encouraged to reach her full potential in the subjects she enjoys.

With this in mind, DH and I went to see our local Steiner school. I was impressed by the ethos and the way the children seemed happy and engaged with what they were doing, and the teachers seemed relaxed but in control. The facilities were also good - theatre, sports hall, library etc.

As I understand it, Steiner schools do vary a lot, but I would be very interested to hear from any Steiner parents or pupils (former or current) who have experienced the transition from state primary school to Steiner school at age 11 (i.e. mid-way through the Steiner 'Lower School'). Was it a difficult transition to make - particularly given that you would be joining a class of children and teacher who have been together from the age of seven? Did the school feel very different from state primary? Better or worse?

Also, how did the school approach GCSEs and 'A' Level preparation within the Steiner methodology? Do you feel you had adequate help and encouragement without being pressured?

This will probably make me sound like a hippie - even though there is not an incense stick to be seen in my house! - but I am a great believer in 'the journey' being just as important as the destination, and I am worried about my DD's character being 'crushed' by what I see as the high-pressured environment of the current educational model favoured in most UK state schools.

However, should my DD wish to take exams when she is older and ready to make that decision for herself, I would want her to be adequately prepared. I'd love to know from anyone whether they think the Steiner method would work in this regard.

Thanks so much for reading this post. I apologise that it's rather long, but I wanted to try to make clear the sort of feedback/advice I am looking for.

Could I kindly ask everyone to please avoid posting potentially libelous comments on this thread, as I know this is a highly-emotive subject and do not want to get MN into any trouble.

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thecaty · 26/04/2010 17:04

Most Steiner Waldorf schools will let you send your child for 3 to five day trails.
So you could try that. I would personally be wary of PLANS but read it anyway they certainly set out to shock you. The problem with a lot of the critics is that they give you their point of view based on limited experience some admit they have just read blogs and have not been near a school. There is a lot of hear say and not enough substance. I have had my children at a Waldorf School for 10 years and though not perfect I am very happy how they are taught and looked after.

Tizian · 26/04/2010 10:35

A site that adresses most of the basic questions and myths about Steiner Waldorf education is Waldorf Answers.

OurLadyOfPerpetualSupper · 26/04/2010 10:08

Thanks so much for posting that link, RN - although I kind of can't bring myself to read in to all this thoroughly, too guilt-inducing.

I just wish I'd had access to all this information before uprooting my DCs and putting them among these people.

At least now there's another view available for people in the position I was then.

restlessnative · 26/04/2010 09:16

I notice that there's now a news section on UK Anthroposophy useful to anyone considering Steiner Waldorf education. Mike Collins invites 'interesting, funny or illuminating' items related to this theme, so it should be interesting.

Once again, imo there's no reason to fear that referring to or linking to UK Anthroposophy is potentially libelous in any way since the blog's legal adviser can be confident that its content is fair comment or honest opinion.

As are the comments of mumsnetters expressing their own opinions and reflections on their experience or impressions of Steiner Waldorf education, good as well as bad.

mathanxiety · 25/04/2010 23:32
restlessnative · 25/04/2010 13:35

UK Anthroposophy has certainly become a very popular site, I imagine with politicians as well as journalists. Mike Collins is a scrupulous researcher of anthroposophy in the UK and its relationship to Steiner Waldorf education. The site has its own lawyer and cannot fairly be accused of harbouring libelous content. Indeed it's difficult to know who anyone on mumsnet could be libeling, since it isn't possible to libel the dead (ie Rudolf Steiner) and there's no concrete international Steiner Waldorf Movement to own the brand, as there is with a multi-national company like Nestle or Shell or Mcdonalds. Mumsnetters have been careful not to mention individuals or particular schools, for the sake of the dcs and families involved as much as anything. Having said that, it's easy to understand mumsnet's anxiety.

As explanation, mumsnet supports libel reform and has been following the recent Simon Singh libel case, the conclusion of which is discussed by skeptic lawyer Jack of Kent here The case drew attention to the disputed claims made by chiropractors and to the behaviour of the BCA - in other words there were unintended consequences for those bringing a charge of libel. I can't imagine it would be in anyone's interests, least of all any Steiner school, interested individual or anthroposophical initiative to sue mumsnet with regard to comments made on this site concerning Steiner Waldorf education, even if they felt they had any reason to do so.

Imo the issue of libel in this case is a (Swedish) red herring.

WKMum - I really wish you luck. It's still early days, as you say and things could change by the time your dd is ready for her next school, particularly when we know what's happening after May 6th. It's absolutely right that gs is not for every child especially if it's a struggle to keep up with maths. I have a dd about the same age as yours and like you, I just want her to be happy at school. I've been the Steiner route some years ago and wouldn't want to go there again - there's been enough good, critical advice on this thread already for me not to need to add any more.

ChoiceOfReason · 25/04/2010 12:52

Australian article here

ChoiceOfReason · 25/04/2010 12:49

UK journalist writes here

ChoiceOfReason · 25/04/2010 12:05

Hope this link works

ChoiceOfReason · 25/04/2010 11:39

The arbitration pages (there are many) about Steiner waldorf on wikipedia are well documented
A user called thebee seems to have caused seeming incivility, deletions, personal attacks, moreover thebee's conduct was criticised by experienced editors and mentors. Thebee is criticised for using his own webpages as a definitive source of reference.
Wikipedia's information should be taken with a large pinch of salt.

ChoiceOfReason · 25/04/2010 11:03

Information which doesn't paint the perfect picture is deleted

ChoiceOfReason · 25/04/2010 11:00

WKMum
You may find the UK Anthroposophy useful

WKMum · 25/04/2010 09:18

Thanks so much to everyone who has contributed to this discussion.

I am certainly open-minded about Steiner, and I do feel I now have more of the tools I need to reach a decision either way.

I have already visited the Steiner school I am considering and have spoken at length with a couple of the teachers. However, I intend to go back with my daughter to see what she thinks about it, as well, and, thanks to the advice and links given here, will have a lot more questions to raise before we come to a final decision.

My DD is only in year 3 at present and we are still keeping an open mind about all schools.

Thanks again for your comments and thoughts.

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Tizian · 25/04/2010 08:13

Informed decisions, that are good, but can be more or less difficult to make when it comes to subjects where opinions can be very polarized for different reasons, takes also reading Waldorf answers.

The best way to make an informed decision beyond ideologically based arguments in one or other direction is to visit the Steiner/waldorf school you may plan to put your child in, and not only look at it, or listen to an introduction, but also invest some time in talking personally with the teachers, pupils and parents at the school to get to know it.

justaboutkeepingawake · 25/04/2010 07:13

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Tizian · 25/04/2010 05:55

Wikipedia is an Encyclopedia, not a discussion board. After an arbitration some years ago, the Wikipedia rules for good editing and use of sources are applied strictly. On possible controversial points, only non-Waldorf sources are allowed. It is very well sourced.

differentnameforthis · 25/04/2010 03:42

You have to be careful with Wiki, because it can be edited by anyone. There have been 'anti-Waldorf' posts removed, so you will not see a true account of Waldorf.

I do tend to worry about organisations like this that have an overwhelming need to silence their critics!

OurLadyOfPerpetualSupper · 24/04/2010 23:37

Ah, Tizian, would that be the same 'reliable source' who trawls the net threatening to close down any site containing anti- Waldorf material?

Tizian · 24/04/2010 22:35

Try Americans for Waldorf Education informing the public about PLANS Inc. too. The extensive Wikipedia article on Waldorf education is based on reliable published sources.

LauraIngallsWilder · 24/04/2010 18:19

I should have added (but I forgot!) that Home Educating my children is the best thing for them because ds in particular was very unhappy in his school (normal state school) He has aspergers which they couldnt really be bothered to help him with - so HEing is good for him because he no longer talks about burning the school down or killing himself.
I often feel that I dont have the skill set or patience to HE my children

I think the fact that steiner education causes such controversy should highlight to you that it is probably something to stay away from - unless you are happy for your child to spend A LOT of time learning about and taking in part in Anthroposophy ideas/rituals etc

WKMum · 24/04/2010 16:53

Thanks for the link, OLOPS: I will certainly have a good look at the site before making any decisions. Thanks.

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OurLadyOfPerpetualSupper · 24/04/2010 11:13

If you google PLANS, you'll find a forum for 'Waldorf Survivors' - one of whom is a Mumsnetter who I won't name as she'll probably come across this thread and decide whether she wants to join in or not.
I wish you the best.

WKMum · 24/04/2010 09:48

Thanks for sharing all your thoughts on Steiner: it's really useful to read about first-hand experiences.

We did check out with the school about our DD joining at 11 and they were fine with that. They also said that most children make a smooth transition from state to Steiner, but of course they would say that, wouldn't they, which is why I wanted to canvass opinion here.

I confess that both DH and I work in the arts sector, so when I saw all the paintings that were pretty much exactly the same as each other hanging up in the classrooms, I was a bit unnerved. But the teacher taking us round the school explained that the aim was for no child to feel left behind, which made a lot of sense. I wouldn't mind my DD developing the technical aptitude many of those children had, although I take the point about 'freedom of expression'.

We don't have a TV, so that part doesn't worry me, but I do let my DD use the internet, although she has a weekly time limit of two hours, so I suppose that might not be such a problem.

As for the gnomes, well ... I've got a couple in my garden, but I'm not sure they move around much! Maybe under cover of night, who knows? (Joke!!)

I'm sorry you had such an awful experience OLOPS: it's comments like yours that make me really worried.

I will look further into Anthroposophy, since I know it is all a bit strange, but I suppose I'm just at the stage of exploring all the alternatives to GSs in this area and trying to find the best fir for my DD.

LIW: I totally take my hat off to anyone who home educates, and I believe it can be a wonderful experience for children, but I know I don't have the skill set myself to do it - particularly at secondary level.

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OurLadyOfPerpetualSupper · 24/04/2010 01:00

What Laura said, apart from the home educating.
We moved our oldest aged 7 from state to Steiner and took him out three years later, when he was begging us not to make him go back - in spite of having made good friends there and settling socially.

< whole paragraph missing here as I remembered your 'libellous' comment - btw, why do you think these threads get pulled? >

I thank the Lord I don't believe in we did leave - can't bear to think what might have become of our family if we'd stuck it out to the bitter end, as so many do.

I seem to remember a website for survivors of this set-up, can't remember what it's called, but you might find reference to it if you search.
I'm off to bed now but will check this thread tomorrow.

Thediaryofanobody · 24/04/2010 00:28

WKMum I've looked into Steiner too but decided against it due to some of the beliefs that come with it.
Have you spoken to the School yet? I was under the impression that they don't always accept children into the schools at a late age but I could be wrong.
I must admit the one we were looking into had fantastic facilities and really excellent exam results.

But how would your DD react to a completely different schooling style?
The artistic subjects aren't always as free style explore your talent style more like this is how you do it copy the teacher type.

How would your DD cope with being expected conform to very different philosophy and play styles the other children will have been raised to believe is true. For example believing that Gnomes as really existing.

How would she cope will limited TV and computer time?
My children watch very little TV and only occasionally a DVD but even I was uncomfortable about the insisting that children should be very limited to almost no TV and computer time, it was even in the parents handbook along with a warning of that they can tell if a child has been watching TV. For me that was a step into my family private life and I wasn't comfortable with it.

If it hadn't been for the philosophy style and the instance that you buy into it then I certainly would have sent DD but instead we will home educate.

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