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Help - between us we are messing up DD's education

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castille · 02/03/2010 21:33

DD is 12, in Year 8 equivalent (we live abroad). We moved her after her 1st year of secondary for various reasons but now we are wishing we hadn't.

The teaching is nothing like as good as we were lead to believe, not as good as the previous place, apart from in a couple of subjects. And she has fallen in with a "cool" crowd of overindulged girls who distract each other in class and think it's nerdy to get good grades. At times she displays a horrible couldn't-care-less attitude to school and us. She is capable but her grades are slipping badly she is doing the absolute minimum of work.

I know some of this is her age and not just the school, but we are fast running out of patience with both her and the school. I have made an appointment to see her class teacher, but i'd be grateful for any other wisdom.

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senua · 02/03/2010 21:57

It is so difficult when you have changed schools once. You can't keep doing it again and again.

Has she fallen in with this bad set because she is desparate to fit in with someone/anyone at the new school? Can you try to get her some 'better' friends (do the equivalent of playdates?).

They are horrible at this age but most seem to settle by the time that they get to the GCSE years.