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yr7 parents evening - first for us

32 replies

roisin · 20/11/2008 21:36

OK, apparently we can choose which teachers we want to see
I have no particular axe to grind, no particular complaints, and just a few comments to make.
ds1 loves school and enjoy almost all his lessons and likes his teachers.
Now obviously it would be great to see all his teachers and tell them how fab they are, but life's too short.

50% of his timetable is taken up with Maths, English, Science, MFL and Humanities, so we certainly want to see them. But quite frankly have minimal desire to see anyone else.

Most other subjects just have 1 lesson a week, and presumably the teachers have several yr7 classes and won't have time to see everyone.

Ds1's strengths are certainly not in art, music, drama, or PE, and it's unlikely he will continue any of these subjects beyond KS3. I'm delighted he's at a school with such a wide and varied curriculum, but can't see a 5 min appointment with a teacher is going to make any difference to anyone.

I'm not aware of any problems in any of these subjects.

Do you think it's fine to just stick with the big 5 and ignore the rest?

The subject he enjoys least and shows least aptitude for is PE, but I can't see a parent consultation is going to achieve anything, is it? I'd love for them to do more fitness/activities/games rather than trad competitive team sports, but that's not going to happen is it? So why waste everyone's time?

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roisin · 21/11/2008 14:52

Oh that's a good idea bagsforlife. If it looks very busy we'll split up and do that.

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bagsforlife · 21/11/2008 07:56

Stick to the big 5. Teachers should be behind tables with names/subjects on. Appointment system does work to a certain extent but still have to queue and they are always running late! You could do half and half with DH, that's what we do.

southeastastra · 20/11/2008 21:50

yes, so they can tell you which teacher is which.

roisin · 20/11/2008 21:46

Aaarrgghhh... Don't say that. I may just send dh!

And do you take the child with you?

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southeastastra · 20/11/2008 21:43

we always have an appointment card, it doesn't make any difference

you'll be fine dont' worry, just focus on which teachers you need to see

roisin · 20/11/2008 21:41

I would hate that southeastastra - I'm not great with crowds and scrums at the best of times.

Fortunately he has an appointment card, which he has to take round classes this week and fill in appointment times with the teachers we want to see ...

Actually he doesn't have an appointment card as he was given it this morning in form and promptly lost it
But we have drafted up a new one for him, just wondering now what teachers/subjects to put on it.

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southeastastra · 20/11/2008 21:39

secondary parent's evening here is a free for all. you lurk round the teachers you want to see, then dive in if the seat is empty.

it's a sport

go to the teachers that are most important or the ones you want to see that are vacant