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Bum. Bumety bum bum bum. All children who sat the local grammar school entrance exam have to resit!

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Havenamechangedtostayanonymous · 02/10/2008 13:10

Just a rant really!

As a tutor had a copy of the paper and they can't tell how many children might have seen it. DD was nervous enough before the first one and she will have to miss my sister's wedding. I am not happy!

(but I suppose its fairer than doing nothing...)

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Havenamechangedtostayanonymous · 07/10/2008 13:53

Me and DH ended up chickening out of asking i she could sit it an alternative day, didn't want to labeled as trouble makers so DH and DD are catching a later flight but should be able to make the reception!

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unknownrebelbang · 04/10/2008 20:08

Any joy with the school, namechanged?

unknownrebelbang · 03/10/2008 20:57

Apparently, there's four in DS3's class sat the paper.

(there's only 14 in their year).

mdrooney · 03/10/2008 13:34

To be honost I dont really blame the tutors, really it was the school in questions fault as it had the exame papers on roation I think 15yrs so only 15 papers and the tutors just got the girls to practice and practice with previous papers. Im not going into the whole selective school thing and what I think as Im past that stage dds in y7 and y8 and at a good school, they never sat for selective . but it just proves my point that the selection and test process in a lot of cases isnt on how bright the child is but what tutor they have had.

3littlefrogs · 02/10/2008 22:58

mdrooney - yes I know. How do these tutors get hold of the ACTUAL paper that nobody is supposed to see before the ACTUAL day????

My friend's dd did the exam at one of the schools in question last year, and heard some of the other children saying they had seen the paper and practised it the previous week. Outrageous. The tutors should not be allowed to get away with it. Doubtless the same people are up to the same tricks this year. The whole thing is a farce.

(Have just come in from another open evening at one of the selective schools, and feel very stressed).

Havenamechangedtostayanonymous · 02/10/2008 22:51

I have a completely unfounded inkling it might be NULS island!

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islandofsodor · 02/10/2008 22:20

I did have the heebie jeebies about our decision when all the hoo har about the ex principal and the sacked English teacher kicked off!!!!

Fingers crossed namechange. I totally understand. You've probably guessed where mine are.

Havenamechangedtostayanonymous · 02/10/2008 21:48

island, I hope you understand when I say I'd rather not say, but yes, it's one of those 3! I'm going to get dh to ring tomorrow to see about an alternative date so fingers crossed for us! I'll keep you posted...

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unknownrebelbang · 02/10/2008 20:56

Sounds fair enough, Islands. We all do what we think is appropriate for our own children. We made a cursory glance a few years back (for secondary, was never a consideration for primary) but it was never a serious option, really.

We're happy with both schools ours have attended, and consider ourselves quite fortunate, given some of the local schools.

I know some folk that have sent their children private, and they're happy with the choice they've made, although I do know one colleague has just pulled her daughter out.

islandofsodor · 02/10/2008 20:39

Namechange - Is your dd purple, navy, red then? I presume not tartan.

There must be some sort of system to cope with extenuating circumstances which I reckon a wedding in Barbados would be. I still can't beleive how this could have happened - who gives a tutor a copy of the paper???

Unknown - It wasn't a decision we took lightly, and to behonest I don't tell a lot of people in real life where they go in case they think we are snobs or something. I have family who are perfectly happy with their state schools. To be honest we couldn't get a nursery place locally when dd was 3 so went private for the nursery years and sort of fell in love with the school in a way.

Dh teaches in the state system (not locally though)

unknownrebelbang · 02/10/2008 19:41

lol - I thought that was a wink, and you were being sarcastic.

sorry.

(really do need my new glasses.)

unknownrebelbang · 02/10/2008 19:40

ah yes, but you've both taken a different route...some of us have children in the local state schools.

Oh joy of joys.

(quite happy though with the schools my boys attend).

Havenamechangedtostayanonymous · 02/10/2008 19:18

And yes islandofsodor, what fantastic schools we have in our neck of the woods!!!

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unknownrebelbang · 02/10/2008 19:17

Yes, I'd be upset about that too.

Good luck in sorting it out.

Havenamechangedtostayanonymous · 02/10/2008 19:16

yeah, you find out if you've passed before you have to apply now, we're c of e but go to church most weeks, at the moment dd is at a prep which sends most kids to Newcastle, tbh I'm not particularly worried about her passing it's the missing my sister's wedding I'm upset about! Dh might ring and ask if she can sit it on the Thursday... Wedding is in Barbados so dd and dh not going isn't really an option, having bought flights/accomodation etc!

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unknownrebelbang · 02/10/2008 19:06

I think they changed the time the exam was sat the year after DS1 could have applied - it used to be January, two months after the LEA forms had to be submitted, so you could really screw your chances of where you got if your child didn't pass.

unknownrebelbang · 02/10/2008 19:04

We looked at the school with DS1 and although not catholic, had a good chance of getting in, but we don't think the school would suit DS2, so chose against it.

DS1 may consider it when he goes on to A levels, some from his current school seem to transfer at 16.

Are you looking at DD staying where she is now?

islandofsodor · 02/10/2008 18:45

My own dd is only 7 but I know she hasn't got a hope in satisfying the Catholic criteria so we probably shan't bother when the time comes although I guess I could use it as practice as the entrance exam is a lot earlier than the other she will sit.

islandofsodor · 02/10/2008 18:43

This sounds awful but I can't remember her age. Her sister started there 2 years ago so she either started there last month (if she got in) or it is next year. I'll have to ask when I next see them.

unknownrebelbang · 02/10/2008 18:42

Would imagine she will be.

DS1 and DS2 both have friends there.

One of DS3's friends and her parents were considering St Jo's, so she may have sat the paper last weekend. Will have to ask tomorrow. Don't know of any others this year.

islandofsodor · 02/10/2008 18:32

Me either, but I get the Newcastle edition.

What a farce. To be honest I didn;t even realise they tutored for the St Jo's test. I know the prep and St Teresa's prepare the kids for the exam but apparently only about half the prep kids get in.

I have a cousin there and another hoping to go soon. Actually thinking about it, she may be affected.

unknownrebelbang · 02/10/2008 18:28

Not seen anything in the Sentinel Islands.

unknownrebelbang · 02/10/2008 18:26

Ooerr, Could easily have been DS3 sitting that this year.

Hope she goes on ok when she resits.

islandofsodor · 02/10/2008 18:12

Do tell your dd not to panic though. The exam for St Jo's isn;t as hard as for other grammars and they don't go by order. They set a pass rate and anyone who gets above that is then chosen by the normal criteria with being Catholic pretty high.

islandofsodor · 02/10/2008 18:10

Really!!!!!!!!!!

Has this hit the Sentinel yet, between that and Edensor's Marbella trip Stoke schools are really doing well arn't they?????