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Why does the 11plus create so much trauma?

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sykes · 30/09/2008 23:48

I presume it's because there are less grammar schools? But when I passed it, years ago, you just did it. So, is that it? Less places? I do understand that but it seems worse than cramming for CEE.

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NotCod · 01/10/2008 18:04

no! have picked schools
test novemeber
results in.................................................................................................. .......................................................................................March!!!!

FioFio · 01/10/2008 18:03

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Cocolepew · 01/10/2008 18:03

We do a wriiten test on the 7 nov then another written one a few weeks after.

You have to pick your school in Feb.

You get your results in March .

Is it the same in England?

compo · 01/10/2008 18:01

dh won't ever ever move sadly

NotCod · 01/10/2008 18:01

oh lilo i knwo how oyu feel.
are takign him to see hairspray in london the week after as an incentive
he has 6 weeks to go including 2 mock tests( on sat mornings) and 6 more tutor sessions.

FioFio · 01/10/2008 18:01

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Cocolepew · 01/10/2008 18:00

I didn't pass.

compo · 01/10/2008 18:00

same as fio, come form e. midlands and no 11plus there either would love to move before kids hit secondary school but can't see it happening

lilolilmanchester · 01/10/2008 17:59

my birthday NotCod, I'll have a glass of wine for you and DS. Glad things are looking promising for you at the moment.

Ours is Saturday, so it'll soon be over... DD was running out of steam a bit (she does a little bit of work every night at the moment and fed up) but visiting the grammar school and seeing how different it was to the high school helped spur her on for the final push.

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NotCod · 01/10/2008 17:59

20 miles is nowt these days = they commute miles

NotCod · 01/10/2008 17:58

coco

its grammar mate

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NotCod · 01/10/2008 17:58

there are 120 places here

300 plus applicants

Cocolepew · 01/10/2008 17:58

Meet with DDs teacher this week and she said Dd was a "B1 or B" (we're in NI)but she would cope with Grammer work no problem as she's top of the class. She's making silly mistakes on the papers. I always said if she didn't get an A I wouldn't send her to GS, then I found out there is 1 mark between an A and a B1 .

There is a lot of pressure over here as it is still commonplace to do it, you have to opt out if you don't want to do it. So the schools are under pressure to keep their pass results up.

It is being scrapped maybe next year or the next, but with nothing put into it's place, it's turning into a disaster.

EachPeachPearMum · 01/10/2008 17:57

There are 20 applicants for every place here- you don't have to just be clever, you need to be more clever than all the other clever children

NotCod · 01/10/2008 17:57

all the king eddies ones!

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NotCod · 01/10/2008 17:54

22 nov
he came third in a mass test recently so haev reduced the work at home to try and de stress.

compo · 01/10/2008 17:54

in our area it's stressful cos the schools that aren't grammar schools are widely known as shit tbh

lilolilmanchester · 01/10/2008 17:51

when's the exam NotCod?

NotCod · 01/10/2008 17:46

we are working our nuts off
lookign promising THis week

NotCod · 01/10/2008 17:46

qm!

yes there is huge pressure
its hard ot present it as osmehting desirable wihtout doign down the second choice tbh

very very hard

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sykes · 01/10/2008 17:18

Yes, can see that. My nieces both failed to get in, both are very bright but the parents didn't do ANY extra coaching/revision/tutoring. Am sure they would have got in if they had which I find a bit sad but it is, obviously, none of my business and they are very happy at the high school. Just seems a missed opportunity.

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lilolilmanchester · 01/10/2008 17:12

Sykes, I think the stress factor depends on the other options available to you. We live in a selective area. If you pass, you go to grammar school, if you fail, you go to high school. We have a couple of excellent high schools in our borough but we are not in their catchment area. The high school we are zoned for is not that great. So it's not just about grammar vs high, it's about the relative quality of each school. There are a couple of high schools I'd be very pleased for my DD to go to, just not the one we're zoned for.

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