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ds' singing lessons in secondary school

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MaryAnnSingleton · 21/09/2008 10:03

Ds has started singing lessons at his new school (in yr 7) -his school is a music specialist college and has massive music dept and is very well regarded.
They are in class time and he has to excuse himself to attend them once a week - all the children learning an instrument do this - his lesson is taken with a singing teacher and a yr 10 girl. He said the other day that he hadn't told anyone that he was having singing lessons specifically as none of the other boys seem to do them and I think he is a little embarrassed ! Does anyone else's secondary boy do singing and do they feel similarly I wonder ?
Incidentally,last night watching the X Factor we saw the 15 yr old boy singing and I think that perked him up !

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snorkle · 24/09/2008 11:15

Lots of choirs and male singers at dcs school (mixed). At the junior school they had separate boys choir which they found encouraged the boys into it. Ds doesn't sing, but would if he wanted to. There doesn't appear to be any stigma, plenty of his (male) friends sing.

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roisin · 23/09/2008 01:01

I think the teacher who runs it is young, dynamic and enthusiastic (and male). I think the group was new last year, and they also have another choir too (which I think is mixed).

On one of the taster days in July they had a performance by the Boys' Singers, which raised the profile for new students.

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roisin · 22/09/2008 21:23

Yup, tis a mixed school. Why?

Despite my thoughts on the book I did want to see the film. But living in such a culturally enlightened place as I do there is no sign of the film coming to either of the nearest cinemas. Aarrggghh!

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MaryAnnSingleton · 22/09/2008 18:24

oh wow roisin -that's fab !

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roisin · 22/09/2008 17:48

Oh fab! ds1 went to "Boys singers" today and he loved it. He said it was the highlight of his day and he was really enthusiastic. There were about 60 boys in the group with a fairly even spread across yrs 7-11, which is pretty fantastic for a state school I reckon.

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MaryAnnSingleton · 22/09/2008 12:09

don't think ds has been teased - it was more his thinking he was the only one in his year group doing singing lessons - everyone else might well think it's a cool thing to do too ! As it is a music specialist school then there is a big emphasis on music and lots of children have instrum,ent lessons that they leave classes to take - think it;'s more the excusing himself from the normal lessons that he might find difficult.

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rubyloopy · 22/09/2008 11:36

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MaryAnnSingleton · 21/09/2008 17:45

Winchester I supppose, but that'd be supplied by the Pilgrim's School there - there are local-ish youth choirs but he'd need to audition and really first of all I'd like him to see what he can do,try out his voice properly and see if it's something he really enjoys

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Beetroot · 21/09/2008 17:42

MAS is there a cathedral choir near you?

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MaryAnnSingleton · 21/09/2008 17:37

I love hearing boys singing, that's why I hope ds will continue and will enjoy it

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Beetroot · 21/09/2008 17:17

It is sad isn't.

My ds's both were/are cathedral choristers and they were never made to feel bad. They were special if anything.

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asdmumandteacher · 21/09/2008 11:54

I teach all girls now and my whole school choir has over 250 girls in it (we have 3 choirs in school)We have done West End theatre stuff so its all good at mo and we hook up with local boys grammar to do SATB stuff

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MaryAnnSingleton · 21/09/2008 11:50

and well done to your boys getting into the choir

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MaryAnnSingleton · 21/09/2008 11:50

Celia - hope so !

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Beetroot · 21/09/2008 11:49

you had better start one then asdmum

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asdmumandteacher · 21/09/2008 11:12

Yes my pupils told me about this

Beetroot · 21/09/2008 11:12

My boys sing.

age 11 and 14

but at a specialist music school where the Barbers are the creme dela creme.

Perhaps they need tp start uo a cook choir

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MaryAnnSingleton · 21/09/2008 11:10

have just found A Whole New World on you tube - a young man singing both parts which is pretty amazing - this is the song ds is learning !

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MaryAnnSingleton · 21/09/2008 11:00

thanks ! We watched Boys Don't Sing and he has sung with a local junior choir (where he was among a few other boys but was the oldest of them all)
There is a school choir but it is mostly girls - am trying to encourage him as it will give him confidence and is a lovely thing to do anyway - he is very interested in music,which is good. It occurs to me that I would have been very shy about singing in front of anyone and he might be feeling that about singing on his own in front of the teacher (and yr 10 girl !) but he hasn't expressed any anxieties about that. He is not one to follow a crowd either so hope that will propell him. He does have a sweet voice so am not flogging a hopeless cause where he'll feel bad. I hope !

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