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Wimbledon High School admissions

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CarshaltonMum · 10/10/2026 08:22

DD is in year 6 and we are considering secondary options. Our plan A is the grammar schools (Wallington or Nonsuch). She sat stage 2 but we don't know yet if she has passed and, even if she passes, will have to wait until offer day to see if she gets a place.

We have come very late to the world of private schools as an alternative route. Where we live, Sutton High is an obvious option and I'm pretty sure DD would get a place there. I recently visited Wimbledon High and absolutely loved it. For me, I liked that it was more highly selective than Sutton, as I feel that would suit DD.

I am know wondering about admissions. I know WHS has high competition for places. We have prepped DD in Maths and English, but not Verbal and NV reasoning. The school suggests doing 6-8 practice papers, which I'll happily do, but I suspect others targeting the independents will have worked on this for months. So far we have tried 2 NV free papers (NV likely to be harder than V for DD). She was quite good at them but pretty slow. I am trying to decide how much we push it. She worked hard for the SET and it feels mean to hugely slog again when she thought she was finished, but on the other hand it could be well worth it.

I know the 2nd round is a creative/problem solving group task. DD would likely thrive at this, if she gets there!

Also any general views in the school welcome!

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CarshaltonMum · 11/10/2026 14:49

swdd · 11/10/2026 13:53

I am @Breeze67 using another account . I did some research before the open day, looking into their exam results and academic provision via their website. On paper they looked excellent, so I went into the open day with high expectations. Comparatively, however, the visit didn’t quite live up to what I’d imagined — probably my expectations were a little too high. Their presentation was polished and refined, yet I got the sense the school focuses heavily on outward appearances. When we spoke to the student guides, many seemed clueless both about the subjects and the extracurriculars such as music and drama, and I didn’t see much passion or curiosity from them. I have also visited other comparable schools, including one grammar school. I feel WHS is nothing special and does not stand out above the rest. so I would only treat it as a backup option.

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The guides I had at WHS were great, answered my questions well and volunteered information. I agree it is so variable though. My friend was really put off one of our local comprehensives because the students she asked didn't know how long the lessons were and similar information. At another comprehensive I thought it was lovely and calm (open morning with pupils in school), DD thought they weren't very interested in their learning. So tough to know based on a few snapshots.

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JustAnotherView · 11/10/2026 14:34

swdd · 11/10/2026 13:53

I am @Breeze67 using another account . I did some research before the open day, looking into their exam results and academic provision via their website. On paper they looked excellent, so I went into the open day with high expectations. Comparatively, however, the visit didn’t quite live up to what I’d imagined — probably my expectations were a little too high. Their presentation was polished and refined, yet I got the sense the school focuses heavily on outward appearances. When we spoke to the student guides, many seemed clueless both about the subjects and the extracurriculars such as music and drama, and I didn’t see much passion or curiosity from them. I have also visited other comparable schools, including one grammar school. I feel WHS is nothing special and does not stand out above the rest. so I would only treat it as a backup option.

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Our experience of the school cannot be more removed from your perception. Not sure who you spoke with but I am, in years interacting with the school and its students yet to come about girls that I would refer to as "clueless about subjects and extracurricular", especially the "many" that you refer to.

We are all entitled to our views, of course and your pursuit of other alternatives. To be honest, given the view you have of the school, I don't think it makes much sense for you to have it even as a back up.

itwasallwrong · 11/10/2026 14:08

I’d always encourage to visit a school more than once. Pupils have to take tours and some are much better than others! We looked at Putney High 3 times and got completely different views each time! Although DD hated it every time!
The view you got of WHS is polar opposite of how it felt when DD was there. She would have been great as a tour guide but would have known bugger all about the sport past about Y8 but tons on drama, music, her subjects etc.
But I refused to let her even go round one all girls school I looked at because of the open day I went to without her so I’m
being a bit hypocritical! (Although niece is at that school and my impressions seem to be correct..)

swdd · 11/10/2026 13:53

JustAnotherView · 11/10/2026 12:35

@Breeze67 not sure of the basis for questioning the commitment to academic depth, practical skills and solid career preparation - their results, destinations, programme of extra and super curriculars and experience and feedback from alumni speaks of the opposite. As for the feminism and political engagement, I think (as somebody with actual experience of the school) that it is a girls' school that encourages the students to be aware of the realities of being a woman and of the wider social and political context, as well as to think critically and be ready to put forward their views - surely something to value.

I am @Breeze67 using another account . I did some research before the open day, looking into their exam results and academic provision via their website. On paper they looked excellent, so I went into the open day with high expectations. Comparatively, however, the visit didn’t quite live up to what I’d imagined — probably my expectations were a little too high. Their presentation was polished and refined, yet I got the sense the school focuses heavily on outward appearances. When we spoke to the student guides, many seemed clueless both about the subjects and the extracurriculars such as music and drama, and I didn’t see much passion or curiosity from them. I have also visited other comparable schools, including one grammar school. I feel WHS is nothing special and does not stand out above the rest. so I would only treat it as a backup option.

CarshaltonMum · 11/10/2026 13:24

Thank you @WhitneySpears I agree we are lucky to have a range of good options. I will discuss St Phils again with DH and decide our order in the CAF.

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WhitneySpears · 11/10/2026 12:40

We visited Nonsuch but I was put off by the huge pride display at the entrance. It all seemed too much for ten year olds and suggested to me that the school’s priorities were askew.

@Breeze67 i have heard similar about WHS with parents becoming increasingly weary.

OP, I am biased as am Catholic but liked the warmth of St Phil’s alongside the academics. I liked the facilities and setting too.

Ultimately I think you are in a strong position and have lots of good schools from which to choose.

Best of luck.

JustAnotherView · 11/10/2026 12:40

CarshaltonMum · 11/10/2026 12:33

Yes we are too far away. We are out of the Tiffin designated area, so focused on the Sutton grammars. Putney/Surbiton/Central London is all a bit too far IMO.

Your thoughts from the open day are interesting. In many ways I am drawn to the 'traditional academics' of the Sutton grammars. However what I liked about WHS is I felt there is an expectation to get involved in extra curriculars, more so than the state schools, where no-one worries if you just focus on academics. DD loves debating etc, so probably would thrive in that atmosphere. There's pros and cons to both (with a huge pro being the grammars are free!)

You are right about the encouragement of extra-curricular, which is definitely enriching. If your daughter likes debating, beyond the usual clubs, many other activities encourage a dialectic approach to learning. That is not to say that there is not learning done in a "traditional" way but it is definitely complemented with quite active /participative learning.

JustAnotherView · 11/10/2026 12:35

@Breeze67 not sure of the basis for questioning the commitment to academic depth, practical skills and solid career preparation - their results, destinations, programme of extra and super curriculars and experience and feedback from alumni speaks of the opposite. As for the feminism and political engagement, I think (as somebody with actual experience of the school) that it is a girls' school that encourages the students to be aware of the realities of being a woman and of the wider social and political context, as well as to think critically and be ready to put forward their views - surely something to value.

CarshaltonMum · 11/10/2026 12:33

Breeze67 · 11/10/2026 10:54

I am always put off by religious schools like your DH. Did you rule out schools like Tiffin Girls' and Putney High simply because they are a bit too far?

Yes we are too far away. We are out of the Tiffin designated area, so focused on the Sutton grammars. Putney/Surbiton/Central London is all a bit too far IMO.

Your thoughts from the open day are interesting. In many ways I am drawn to the 'traditional academics' of the Sutton grammars. However what I liked about WHS is I felt there is an expectation to get involved in extra curriculars, more so than the state schools, where no-one worries if you just focus on academics. DD loves debating etc, so probably would thrive in that atmosphere. There's pros and cons to both (with a huge pro being the grammars are free!)

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itwasallwrong · 11/10/2026 11:32

@Breeze67- they really don’t spend all day discussing feminism and politics!
I think what they are very good at is building ‘resilience’ which I would argue is exceptionally important. Lots of encouragement to give things a go, not to worry if things don’t go to plan etc etc. Consequently the girls are well equipped when not everything falls into their laps once they leave school and enter the real world. They don’t expect things to be handed to them on a plate. They also have a lot of fun, get great results and being slightly out of the central London area there are less uber wealthy and tiger parents. Much less socially competitive than some of the more central girls schools….

Breeze67 · 11/10/2026 11:13

Some thoughts on WHS after visiting their open day: I noticed a strong emphasis on feminism and political engagement, probably trickling down from the headteacher to the students. While I fully support raising confident, independent girls who understand feminist ideals, I feel that an overemphasis on political discussion can be distracting during these formative years. In my view, true independence for women is better fostered through academic depth, practical skills, and solid career preparation—areas I am not entirely sure they prioritize enough. While I am sure most girls would be happy there, I wonder if WHS truly equips them for the realities of the professional world.

boxofcrap · 11/10/2026 11:12

I have heard very good things about Glenthorne. You should try WHS, if your dd is grammar standard she will likely get a place.

Breeze67 · 11/10/2026 10:54

CarshaltonMum · 11/10/2026 10:42

A bit off topic, but those saying St Phils, what is it that makes it a good school? When I looked, I thought it's results were broadly in line with Greenshaw and DH was put off by the religious aspect of it. (Aware there is more than results to consider). It's been a vague consideration for us, mainly on the basis of admissions being a long shot. No-one from DDs primary seems to go there historically, although things do change.

I am always put off by religious schools like your DH. Did you rule out schools like Tiffin Girls' and Putney High simply because they are a bit too far?

CarshaltonMum · 11/10/2026 10:42

A bit off topic, but those saying St Phils, what is it that makes it a good school? When I looked, I thought it's results were broadly in line with Greenshaw and DH was put off by the religious aspect of it. (Aware there is more than results to consider). It's been a vague consideration for us, mainly on the basis of admissions being a long shot. No-one from DDs primary seems to go there historically, although things do change.

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CarshaltonMum · 11/10/2026 10:39

FlumePlume · 11/10/2026 10:26

I may be very out of date, but 7 years ago DD got Tiffin but was waitlisted for WHS. I was told they rank in order of performance on the VR/NVR papers, and then the creative second round bumps them up or down the list a bit. And that WHS was seen as more unpredictable than other schools in terms of who got offers.

My dd also came from a state primary, and so hadn’t done any NVR.

This is helpful thank you. We could potentially end up in a similar position.

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FlumePlume · 11/10/2026 10:26

I may be very out of date, but 7 years ago DD got Tiffin but was waitlisted for WHS. I was told they rank in order of performance on the VR/NVR papers, and then the creative second round bumps them up or down the list a bit. And that WHS was seen as more unpredictable than other schools in terms of who got offers.

My dd also came from a state primary, and so hadn’t done any NVR.

WhitneySpears · 11/10/2026 10:26

CarshaltonMum · 11/10/2026 10:13

I'm not convinced we would get a place here, as their criteria is based on religion. It's hard to find info as to how many places they allocated in each category. If you have any useful information then do share!

We will be filling up our choices below the grammars, and are deciding on the order of Greenshaw and Carshalton Girls, with St Phils and Glenthorne possibilities. I haven't ruled out any of these options, they are all great schools (we are very lucky!). It's more about keeping our options open at the moment.

St Phil’s would be top of my list personally. I wouldn’t let the Catholic requirement put you off - there are always places for girls of other faiths and indeed none.

CarshaltonMum · 11/10/2026 10:13

BrainCancerAwareness · 11/10/2026 10:06

Given your location, assume you must have discounted St Phil’s which is a shame. It’s a fantastic school especially for an academic girl.

I'm not convinced we would get a place here, as their criteria is based on religion. It's hard to find info as to how many places they allocated in each category. If you have any useful information then do share!

We will be filling up our choices below the grammars, and are deciding on the order of Greenshaw and Carshalton Girls, with St Phils and Glenthorne possibilities. I haven't ruled out any of these options, they are all great schools (we are very lucky!). It's more about keeping our options open at the moment.

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BrainCancerAwareness · 11/10/2026 10:06

Given your location, assume you must have discounted St Phil’s which is a shame. It’s a fantastic school especially for an academic girl.

PlainSkyr · 11/10/2026 10:02

@CarshaltonMum If the journey is doable then worth trying.
It’s an amazing school, good luck.

CarshaltonMum · 11/10/2026 08:21

Thank you @7winifred I was considering Atom, as I don't know much about the specifics of the paper, particularly timings.

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7winifred · 11/10/2026 05:36

I 100% agree with Breeze that it is not too late. The beauty of VR and NVR is that while you can be prepped to some extent(and some are prepped to death), once you know the format of the questions and are used to the timings of the tests, natural aptitude will get you a long way. You could get a 1/2 month subscription to Atom where you can input the school you are prepping for and and they will provide you with the relevant type of tests.
Good luck.

CarshaltonMum · 10/10/2026 22:35

@PlainSkyr thank you for your very helpful response. Yes we are within catchment for the grammars. I'm hopeful of a grammar place, although the numbers feel daunting. It's hard to know how many of those that pass stage 2 are within the catchment. The journey to WHS is doable - the Thameslink runs from Carshalton direct to Wimbledon, and we are not too far from the station. I do worry about the long days though. Sutton High is an option for us, but I strongly felt Wimbledon is more suited to my DD than Sutton.

@Breeze67 your post came in as I started typing. This is what I'm hoping - that DD can do enough to make it through round 1 (NVR and VR) and then do well at the next round, or at least give it her best shot. As you mention, the head suggested 6-8 papers, and we'd happily do a bit more than that. I'd be happy to do, say, 2 hours a week, just not 10 hours a week for example. DD is top of her class, articulate and calm in a test, which hopefully helps! I did hear others at the open day discussing WHS in 'backup' terms, but obviously a popular choice for many.

I reckon we'll probably give it a go. Whilst DD won't love the prep, it will probably be good for her to have an academic focus without the higher pressure (for us) of the SET/stage 2. If she doesn't make it through, then so be it.

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Breeze67 · 10/10/2026 22:13

PlainSkyr · 10/10/2026 21:45

@CarshaltonMum from your username I’m guessing you are inside catchment for the girls’ grammar schools. If your DD has sat stage 2 and is inside catchment then I’d say she has a significant chance of getting in - if not in March then def by Sept. If she’s autumn born she’ll likely have been bumped down but if she’s summer / spring then chances of an early seat are high.

if she’s never seen VR/NVR then I’d not bother at this point as you can’t get to the top 60 out of 700 applicants most of who are prepped by their prep schools for this exam for months and will likely have it as top choice.

also, if you live in Carshalton then the travel will be hard. My older DD went to Wallington and we had the opposite commute to you - it was brutal. Plus private schools have long days and a lot of extra curricular stuff sometimes in the evening & on Saturday.

given your high chances of grammar I’d say it’s not worth the half hearted push after having run the long grammar race. Keep Sutton or Reigate as backup.

Please feel free to DM me as I have used both schools.

If she’s never seen VR/NVR then I’d not bother at this point as you can’t get to the top 60 out of 700 applicants most of who are prepped by their prep

You do not need to be in the top 60 to make it through. A lot of students get through to the second round, and I expect WHS will massively over-offer as many who get offers will not take them up.

Breeze67 · 10/10/2026 22:07

Well, I thought half-hearted preparation for Wimbledon High would be enough to get through to the interview stage, assuming your DD's academic calibre meets their standard. WHS is not most people's top choice, and the most sought-after private schools focus primarily on English and Maths, with VR and NVR making up only a small part or nothing at all. And VR/NVR can only be improved up to a certain point—if you think 6-8 practice papers aren't enough, perhaps 12-14 will do. Besides, you have a huge advantage over other applicants since your DD has already finished her 11+ preparation for other schools while others are preparing for many schools at the same time, and I assume she doesn't have many urgent tasks over the next 50 days until the WHS exam day? WHS is also our backup; as a matter of fact, it is the backup of the backup. We think we will just try 6-8 rounds of sample papers.

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