London Oratory complete mobile phone ban even on long commutes

Even Michaela Community school aren't this draconian - phones stay in the bag and as long as they are not seen or heard there's no issue and they manage to get this to work. Seems a bit heavy handed to have no phone at all when a large cohort use public transport. But they obviously have enough applicants so have been able to enforce this policy.

“5.* *Mobile phones and personal computers
A pupil may not bring a mobile phone or a personal computer (smartphones, laptop, notebook, Kindle, tablet etc.) to School, without the explicit permission of the Headmaster. Permission from the Headmaster will only be granted should your child fit the criteria; SEN or Exceptional Medical grounds.”

So if the DC attends but gets anxious with no phone etc due to long commute - you send a letter to the headmaster explaining the need for it. By law, SEN is needs based. So there you go.
It’s not about “giving two shits”.

Op isn’t even a parent at the school. She’s just whining that she’d like to apply for a place but doesn’t like their policies. I can imagine how many shits the Oratory will give about that.

A legal letter that works within the school policy with the SEN exception is perfectly possible. SEN is widely defined under statue and case law and a stressful commute with no phone may well qualify. So whatever, I am sure if a parent with an anxious child needs an exception, they have a strong claim to get it.

Be realistic
OP, be realistic: there is nothing you can do about it. Right or wrong, the policy will not change. Other schools have the same policy. The country will become a Republic before you manage to overturn this policy. No amount of strongly worded "legal letter" (whatever that means!) is going to change that.

If you like everything else about the school, apply.
If this is one of the many things which don't sit right with you, don't apply.

It's as easy as that.

Take Mossbourne Academy. There was an outcry from hundreds of current and former students and staff about its policies of isolating kids in corridors and shouting at them. There was an inquest. The school confirmed the policies. They basically said: "suck it up, we're not going to change that, and there is nothing you can do about it".
Our great system allows schools to basically abuse and harass kids.
If you think you have any chances of changing a phone policy you don't like, think again.

On the school
The Oratory is very marmite, hate it or love it. How do you feel about everything else?
Out of the gazillion reasons to love or hate the school, I would see this as one of the least important, but to each their own.
I mean, let's not forget that this was the school which had in its admission criteria vague bs like participation to Christian life, which included financial donations to the Church, and that it took a fierce legal battle to rule that illegal. I am not religious but, even if I were, that would certainly put me off, Of course, if instead a socially selective environment is what you want, go for it (the Sutton trust and other studies have repeatedly confirmed that state-funded faith schools tend to be more socially selective).

On the policy

I personally think the policy has its place in a city like London. In Crapford-on-shite kids may need the phone to pay for public transport or to look up the bus timetable at an isolated bus stop. Not so in London.
The rationale can be that, with no phones at all, kids won't use them in the bathrooms, and, outside the school gates, they will be more likely to socialise and less likely to waste time on screens. This may also reduce the potential for inappropriate behaviour on electronic devices.
I get it that not everyone agrees, but at least there is some rationale, it's not pulled out of a dark body cavity.

What sort of emergency are you talking about? Because in an actual emergency you’d presume there’d be adults in the form of police / ambulance personnel, etc on the scene who’d be happy to do any contacting necessary.
Missing the bus isn’t an emergency.

In the past there were phone boxes everywhere and in an emergency, kids could still call home if they had coins on them. So yes, this is taking it too far.

Agree. They’re better off without parents like this.

I wouldn’t send my child there

I very much doubt the Oratory’s crying into its chalices TBH.

Totally agree. These kids are living in the world as it is, not as it was.

I wouldn't send my child there - the arrogance and presumption is huge.

Is there any evidence that an adult in the past had come to harm that could have been prevented or reduced if they or their friend had had a mobile phone ? There have always been plenty of adults with long commutes to work and who may even (shock horror) not be going straight home from work? Are there any adults that have ever called emergency services for something they have seen? Are there any adults that don’t live in the station they are travelling from?
what exactly are the concerns ?

This faux pretence that it js inconceivable to think of a single situation where access to a phone could help is tiresome. Schools don’t live with the consequences of oversteps -families do.

Is there any evidence that a child in the past had come to harm that could have been prevented if they had had a mobile phone ? There have always been plenty of kids with long commutes to school

what exactly are the concerns ?

Waterproof bag for cheapest brick phone you can find and child can hide it switched off SIM removed in vicinity of school.

@Hegglepig valid comments about long commutes. Same in many ways applies to the world of work, hence my support for sensible levels of hybrid working and people being managed, not travelling to an office for the sake of it.

I wonder if the school have done it, in part, to try and cut down on the number of applicants with long and complicated commutes. I know it's normal in London, but asking children to travel an hour or more each way does have consequences for the school. It's harder to get kids to participate in after school activities like plays, and music and sport practise. It makes sanctions like detentions more complicated to administer if parents are relying on kids traveling with other children. They'll have to deal with a lot of kids being late or failing to turn up when there are public transport SNAFUs or they lose/forget their wallet (and probably in the past with a lot of kids ringing the school because parents are in work and expect the school to magically deal with it somehow). Kids have less time and energy for schoolwork and homework, which will affect their results. And dealing with sleep deprived, exhausted kids is no fun for teachers. Kids also do get mugged for phones, and schools then have to deal with the fallout.
Some private schools won't accept children with too long a commute for this reason, but it's harder for state schools to change their admissions policies. I wonder if they're hoping this rule will make parents think seriously about whether a long commute is really best for a young child.

@Twistingoliver - out of interest, does that not actually make the DC more likely to want a smart phone in the future as some sort of banned substance? At some point, whether it is 13 or 16 or 18 they are going to have to learn how to deal with it. I agree the longer you can hold out, the better, but at some point education around the dangers, addiction, manipulation absolutely has to happen and if it is not going to happen during the school years, then when? Once they are at uni they have to handle it all themselves.

Our school would still sanction for this. They’d probably station a teacher next to it! I wish I was joking.

I'm surprised a local person hasn't rented out lockers to kids to pop their phones into. Secure storage.

£5 per week. Assume 50% take up. That's quite a tidy sum.

Side hustle.

Based on your sarcastic and belittling response, I’m hoping you’re not the one they approach.

OMG how can they survive ?

I swear on my teddy bear that should any child ever have a transport emergency I will phone any number they ask for and ensure they get home safe

its such a sad sad world that you would trust to tech over humans

Nah it is not that. For those of us who are more liberal modern Catholics it is just too old fashioned to deem modern forms of communication the coming of the Anti Christ. What are we now, a new form of Waldorf/Steiner/Mormons? Besides, yes, phones can be detrimental but they also enable when used properly a lot of peer on peer communication and learning and understanding of modern life. And partly they also enable questioning of authority, including Church Authority. Whilst I am a practising Catholic with DC who have all been altar servers and choir singers etc, the bit about overstepping and authoritarianism doesn’t sit right with me. And clearly I am not the only one.

Concerning? Are you having a laugh?

Oh I don't know. I was half hoping someone one here was going to get so worked up they would petition the Holy See about it!
Since some parents seem to think phones have some supernatural quality that offers safety and protection to their children (rather than being a lump of plastic with some electronics) I thought they could convince the Pope to pass a Canon Law that any phone blessed by a priest actually transfigures into the Holy Ghost! I agree bloody ludicrous.

Just choose your local school!! This is a bloody ludicrous thread.