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What happens if they fail Y12

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Shinyredbicycle · 21/08/2026 12:27

My ds scraped through GCSEs by the skin of his teeth, athough has just failed maths for the third time. Very close to a 4 - he panicks in exams and leaves early despite being given extra time for to SEND.

He started sixth form doing 2 BTechs and 1 'A' level. I wanted him to look at extended Btech in the subject that he loves and excells in (drama) but he absolutely refused to consider going to a college. I did get him to an open day earlier this year which he stormed out of.

He has just found out that he received a U in a drama exam (he had prepared, just can't do exams), and a U in one of the modules in his other Btech. He's expecting to get a U in the 'A' level subject as well - likely, as he only had a go at answering half the questions.

I contacted the school early summer to say I was concerned about him and was reassured that he was doing fine. Obviously, that wasn't the case, and I've contacted the school today to see what his options are.

He's convinced that he won't be allowed to go into Y13. Ybh, that would be completely understandable from the school's perspective, but what then for him? He won't be able to get a job without a 4 in maths and I do not want him sitting at home with his self-confidence and self-esteem getting lower and lower.

Can anyone offer any advice or guidance please? Especially if he continues to refuse to engage with the idea of any sort of college course.

TIA

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TeenToTwenties · 21/08/2026 19:28

The sensible thing would be to restart at a college.

Shinyredbicycle · 21/08/2026 16:59

Thanks, all. He loves the social side of school and gets involved with a lot going on there but, yes, academics and exams are not for him.

He does have a part-time job which he loves, and I honestly think he'd be happier working, maybe doing some voluntary work than going through the motions of studying. His job is only term-time, and I don't know how possible it would be for him to get any sort of other basic job without level 4 maths.

It's not a lack of intelligence, or even his SEND, more his personality and character.

I'll have another look at apprenticeships. Thanks again.

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JehovasFitness · 21/08/2026 13:44

I had to resit year 12. I just didn’t take it seriously and got a massive kick up the arse which I needed.

Given the circumstances you describe I think you’re doing the right thing to explore some alternative paths.

itsrainingyay · 21/08/2026 13:27

Unless he’s fully on board to resit the year I think his options are college, apprenticeships possibly part time work with volunteering?! Not sure about that last one.

If there are special circumstances the school might consider dropping a course maybe a b tech and changing the a level to A/S. Or dropping the A level and focusing on more coursework based subjects? It’s still a lot of work though and lots of pressure in year 13. does he want to stay on and study?

There are some good apprenticeships about depending on his interests and school should support him In applications or advise
at least. Have a look at gov apprenticeships site
https://www.apprenticeships.gov.uk/

Shinyredbicycle · 21/08/2026 13:10

Thanks, clary. Yes, I went through all those things with him last year post-GCSE bomb.

He would have been much better suited to an extended diploma in performing arts but see my OP as to how far I got with that with him.

I've been looking at apprenticeships and encouraging him to as well. Anything drama related seems so competitive and would require him having the confidence to apply.

Have also spoken with him re L2 functional skills.

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Shinyredbicycle · 21/08/2026 13:04

Armed forces definitely out. College courses he has refused to engage with the idea of. Fed up of school, so motivation to resit Y12 non-existent. Hates exams and does poorly in them, so can't see that more exams will help him self-esteem.

I hope that the school do agree to a meeting with me, as I'd really appreciate some support navigating this.

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clary · 21/08/2026 13:03

yes he can start again in year 12 with a different course and maybe a different setting. Funding is in place until age 19 and it is not unusual. I can think of several of my DCs' peers who did this for one reason or another.

Can he take functional skills - L2 is an equivalent level to GCSE grade 4 so will help him in the job market. What sort of thing does he want to do? Would an apprenticeship (and doing FS maths at college perhaps) be a possibility?

TheeNotoriousPIG · 21/08/2026 12:49

He will have to re-sit Y12, or find an alternative educational route (e.g. college) or perhaps the armed forces, if he's interested enough, and able to pass their entrance exams.