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Unsuccessful grammar school appeal

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Will2 · 03/05/2026 09:21

Good morning all,

I'm looking for further advice from people who have found themselves in this situation, or any advice from ex panel members which may prove beneficial please.

We got the awful news that my we didn't win my son's grammar school appeal on Friday, with my son being devastated.

We felt we put a compelling argument together;however the panel we had must've felt the schools case was heavier considering our of 39 cases only 1 case was upheld!

My main argument was around a rare medical condition he has and how this impacted him on the day of his first test. He scored above the pass mark on his verbal reasoning test but didn't perform to the best of his ability, citing how he was struggling to focus and concentrate which connects to his condition (NHS diagnosis letter of his condition was provided as evidence) - this is the main reason why he didn't achieve the historically high entry score because he achieved a brilliant score in his spatial reasoning test.

We are waiting for feedback; however the panel didn't ask us one single question about his condition during our individual appeal hearing which my wife thought was quite strange. I just thought they must've researched it and understood how this could've affected him.

The other point I felt was strong in our argument, was how our son is musically gifted and what the school we were appealing for could offer him. He has a grade three certification from the trinity college in London (soon to be 4) and this particular school has a recording studio (his allocated school doesn't have this) as well as opportunities to represent the school in this field.

We highlighted other points during our appeal and I'll be honest, I came away from our appeal quite positive, boy was I wrong!

Any advice from this point forward would be much appreciated. I'm waiting on the feedback which I hope will give me closure. Such an awful process to go through. Thanks in advance!

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Araminta1003 · 03/05/2026 17:44

Sorry but I think it is completely out of order to bring up pupil premium kids, or armed forces kids or out of area kids. The oversubscription criteria are clearly published well in advance and you know what category your DC falls into, if you bother to read it.
Every year there are people who do not do the amount of prep required or do not ask for extra time and then try and blame other kids for taking their places. The effort should have been put in before the tests.
You do not need to pay an external tutor if you are educated yourself and can clearly write on MN. CGP books and time invested well in advance has exactly the same outcome. If you do not prepare in advance, then best to blame yourself, not pupil premium kids!

OUB1974 · 03/05/2026 17:28

I think it's absolutely fine to be disappointed when some or all of the following are true:

  1. if they were a girl with the same score they'd have got into the girls' grammar.
  2. if they'd have lived in the next town they'd have got into that grammar.
  3. if they'd got the same score at any point over the last 10 years they'd have got a place.
  4. children scoring 20 marks less on pp have places.
  5. non local children have around a third of the spaces.
  6. children whose parents can afford tutoring but are of lower ability have places.

There is absolutely nothing any of us can do now and nobody wants the disruption of moving a child mid year even if places did come up, which they won't to that extent. But it's OK to smart from the unjustness of it even when the rules have been followed. We just need to dust ourselves off and move on to the next appeal.

OUB1974 · 03/05/2026 17:22

OneTimeThingToday · 03/05/2026 17:15

Op if none of your sons school friends got School 2 it is likely you all live too far away. They cant penalise you for listing the Grammar. School "Last Distance Offered" areas can be very tight in highly populated areas.

Its too late now, but you need to look at Entrance criteria before applications to understand the reality of getting a place. Iknow you probably were countibg on the Grammar place... but Grammar school is never a guarantee. Especially at the moment when more pepple are choosing State over Private.

Your best bet now is researchimg all the schools in the area and getting on various waiting lists.

(As for PP places... these exist as the families are less likely to be able affird tutors, music lessons, extra maths etc.)

I know the 2nd school and it doesn't go on distance but uses zones. There are over 50 kids within a mile of the school that also didnt get a place. It's a lottery and exacerbated by the numbers not getting into the grammar.

Phineyj · 03/05/2026 17:17

Will2 · 03/05/2026 10:11

The panel were made aware beforehand when I submitted his diagnosis letter and I discussed it during my speech. They never mentioned it once to us afterwards when they asked us questions.

Other children gained entry with a lower score (229 being the lowest) under the pupil premium category. My son's friend got a place under this category having scored the exact same as my son-235.

That's the point of that criterion though.

Grammars as I'm sure you're aware, have much lower PP percentages than their surrounding schools.

Not having to live on such a low income will benefit your son.

Lampzade · 03/05/2026 17:16

PygmyOwl · 03/05/2026 10:23

Hi OP, you went through the appeals process and you've had your answer. I know it's hard but honestly the best thing you can do for your child now is to put this behind you and start looking forward in a positive way.

This .
Dd2 got a place at a grammar school and her best friend at primary school didn’t and went to the local secondary school
They both achieved very similar GCSE results 8s and 9s. Dd2’s friend joined the 6th form at a grammar school
Both dd 2 and her friend are now at the same excellent university studying the same competitive course and are both on their way to achieving a first class
What I am saying in a roundabout way is not to dwell on this and focus on the school he has a place for

OneTimeThingToday · 03/05/2026 17:15

Op if none of your sons school friends got School 2 it is likely you all live too far away. They cant penalise you for listing the Grammar. School "Last Distance Offered" areas can be very tight in highly populated areas.

Its too late now, but you need to look at Entrance criteria before applications to understand the reality of getting a place. Iknow you probably were countibg on the Grammar place... but Grammar school is never a guarantee. Especially at the moment when more pepple are choosing State over Private.

Your best bet now is researchimg all the schools in the area and getting on various waiting lists.

(As for PP places... these exist as the families are less likely to be able affird tutors, music lessons, extra maths etc.)

ccccccccc · 03/05/2026 17:06

Sorry@Will2, but your son certainly is not musically gifted and obviously didn't do well enough in the exam to get a place in the first cut. What do you expect them to do, they have limited places and they go to the children who they consider will do best at their school? They are the experts, I'm sure that you're not the only parent to be disappointed, but there is nowhere else you can take this.

MarchingFrogs · 03/05/2026 17:00

SheilaFentiman · 03/05/2026 16:46

@maudelovesharold in the case of OP, his child has a score which is above the qualifying score - so I think he would “hold” that score on any ongoing waiting list rather than sit a later test. I may be out of date though.

No, you're correct for any state school, at least until Christmas; waiting lists have to be held in oversubscription criteria order (and places offered) until December 31st in the year of entry. After that point, the school may choose to carry on with this, or in the case of a grammar school, hold mid-year extra ce exams to fill any places which become available.

Iocanepowder · 03/05/2026 16:48

Lots of people go to schools where they don’t already have friends. He will be fine

SheilaFentiman · 03/05/2026 16:46

@maudelovesharold in the case of OP, his child has a score which is above the qualifying score - so I think he would “hold” that score on any ongoing waiting list rather than sit a later test. I may be out of date though.

OUB1974 · 03/05/2026 16:44

Are you in Zone 1 for the 2nd appeal @Will2 ? We are and I'm just planning an appeal. I do think they have a more flexibility than the grammar so hopefully we will win. I suspect we got the school you put as 3rd choice - which seems a lovely school but no 6th form and more vocational subjects and definitely not right for my boy. We were only just within the last place offered in terms of distance. I suspect you may live fairly near us (or the same side of town at least) and it makes it very easy to fall between the cracks as the two closest schools don't go on distance but the schools that do go on distance can be a bit too far away.

The panel suggested we go to the grammar in the next town... until I pointed out the cost of bus passes and that we wouldn't get transport funded as you're expected to choose a more local school. You can't win! I'm looking forward to and dreading reading the letter to see where I went wrong.

I am just getting myself fired up to work as hard so I can to win appeal number 2...good luck. 💐

maudelovesharold · 03/05/2026 16:41

Our local Grammar school runs what they call an ‘In year’ entry procedure, at any point before year 11. As well as boys who have never taken the 11+, this late entry procedure may be used to re-assess boys who, under a previous selection procedure (11+ or Late Entry), have been found not to be of grammar school ability. There are not a huge number of places, but if a child passes at that stage, then they are placed on a waiting list, if there isn’t an available place immediately.

You could see how things go with your ds’s allocated school in yr 7, as to how well he settles in and whether you consider the school is meeting his needs, and maybe he could take the late entry exam, if you still think the Grammar school would be a better fit? I imagine there will be information in the online prospectus as to whether, and how, late entry admissions are run at the school in question, and what the format is. Just to say, though, I would think most candidates will undertake tutoring before the exam, as is the case with the 11+.

SheilaFentiman · 03/05/2026 16:37

DuchessofStaffordshire · 03/05/2026 15:53

Honestly, if he's scored fairly well below the cut-off then it may well be that he'd struggle at a grammar anyway. The PP point you made is irrelevant as it doesn't apply to your son.

At the school in question, it’s more that the lowest admitted score is very high this year vs many prior years. 220 is the minimum standard so 242 is very high above that, indicating a really competitive year.

DuchessofStaffordshire · 03/05/2026 15:53

Honestly, if he's scored fairly well below the cut-off then it may well be that he'd struggle at a grammar anyway. The PP point you made is irrelevant as it doesn't apply to your son.

Students2 · 03/05/2026 15:46

Our local grammar system is different in that a pass is 121 and over. I knew of a child who got 120.5 and still missed out on appeal as they had not achieved certain grades in their previous sat tests. did your son do well on his last sat tests?
I think you would be surprised how many other kids got grades between your son's at 235 and the pass at 242 - and then again the number that got more than 242. 7 points under is not a near miss. That said I think all parents with hopes for kids to enter a particular school can be sympathetic to you and your son's disappointment. It so much pressure for the kids and its not a fair system.

SundayMondayMyDay · 03/05/2026 15:09

Will2 · 03/05/2026 10:40

We provided plenty of evidence as to why this wouldn't hold him back.

His particularly condition being rare is triggered by stress. The crux of it is it did affect him on the day of his first test. He knew straight away when I picked him up, he immediately told me he was struggling to focus and concentrate, with this affecting his timing and having to rush, guessing a large number of questions towards the end. He overcame this on his second test, having been more familiar with the test situation and environment. Like I mentioned in an earlier post, his score was higher than others so we now as parents he'd thrive and embrace a grammar school environment.

I think as parents we just have to move forward now.

Just as an aside, had you applied for accommodations for the entrance exam for him? If he has a medical condition that is likely to impact on performance during things like external exams, then it may be the case that he would benefit from accommodations - maybe a rest break during the exam, so he can calm down / re-focus, or even extra time, if his processing speed may be affected.

Obviously this is no help to you now, but may seriously be worth considering when they are at secondary school, and also for external exams? It would be worth speaking to the SENCo about it.

How far away from your house is the allocated school, and how far away from your house is the grammar school that you appealed?

A shorter journey, and the ability to have friends close by can make a massive difference.

The option is always there to apply there for sixth form - if you / he are really keen on that. You sound like very engaged parents, so could potentially buy in support in years 9, 10, 11, to supplement the learning at his allocated school, and make sure that he achieves at the highest level possible at 16, which will open up options for him for sixth form.

I also agree with a pp - that it really doesn’t follow that those who achieve highest at 11 in selection tests go on to achieve the highest at 16 / 18… I have known several cases like this (where the highest performer at age 11 didnt do so well at 16 or 18, and where mid-level performers at 11 did really really well at 16 & 18).

SuddenlyBecoming · 03/05/2026 15:06

I teach at a girls grammar and to be honest it's incredibly rare a place is won at appeal. Any places awarded are in addition to those already offered a place, so imagine if all 30 won their appeal the school would be over subscribed by 30.

Pp scores are often significantly lower due to the lack of opportunity for a child from these backgrounds to be tutored.

PinkPoppies2025 · 03/05/2026 14:59

I know which school you are talking about as my son goes there. How about the non-oversubscribed grammar school in another town in the same county which is about 30mins away by train where a score of 220 would gain your son a place? I have a few friends with children there and they seem to be thriving.

olympicsrock · 03/05/2026 14:58

He will be ok from a friendships POV - a blank canvas is a great thing .
DS went to a new school in year 8 knowing no one , he had been bullied at the old school. He is now a popular boy with a wide friendship group . Hopefully you can build him up over the summer .

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 03/05/2026 14:51

All schools are supposed to cope with dc with a medical need. Not just grammars. ECHP won’t necessarily name a grammar either if dc hasn’t qualified.

Will2 · 03/05/2026 14:44

StormySam · 03/05/2026 14:39

We lost our appeal on Friday too. We had specific medical need with all the paperwork from professionals and my DD had met the qualifying score (it then goes on distance only which is why we didn't originally get a place).
We are pretty upset and I really do sympathise with you. I honestly can't imagine how she will cope at any other school but she has her second choice which starts transition next week. If it doesn't work our we will be applying for an EHCP which I presume you could for your son if the medical need meets the criteria?

Sorry to hear that. I hope your daughter settles into whatever school you decide on.
The sympathy is appreciated! Shame so many people are quick to attack rather than to listen to what you have to say in this day and age.
We are in the process of appealing for the most over subscribed non-grammar in our area which will be tough.
The EHCP is something we are going to explore.
Thanks for you kind words.

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StormySam · 03/05/2026 14:39

We lost our appeal on Friday too. We had specific medical need with all the paperwork from professionals and my DD had met the qualifying score (it then goes on distance only which is why we didn't originally get a place).
We are pretty upset and I really do sympathise with you. I honestly can't imagine how she will cope at any other school but she has her second choice which starts transition next week. If it doesn't work our we will be applying for an EHCP which I presume you could for your son if the medical need meets the criteria?

SheilaFentiman · 03/05/2026 14:25

It's almost as if it goes against parents when putting this school down as second choice.

It doesn’t, and cannot.

The algorithm sorts all candidates for all the places they list by the admissions criteria, whatever they are.

If Katy is the younger sister of Jodie, and Jodie goes to Blue School which has a sibling preference, but Katy smashes the 11+ test for Red School, it is possible that Katy is near the top of the algorithm’s list for both Blue and Red.

Then, and only then, is Katy’s preference taken into account. If she put Red School first preference, she is given it, and everyone in the Blue School list moves up one place. And vice versa if she put Blue School first.

Katy also vanishes off the list for third preference, Yellow School, where perhaps she was in place 100 as that is a distance criteria school. Nonetheless, everyone at 101 and below moves up a spot when Katy gets her first preference.

However, some children don’t come high enough up the lists for any of their preferences and hence are given a place at the nearest school with a space.

LIZS · 03/05/2026 14:19

Will2 · 03/05/2026 14:13

I'll be honest, I'm not entirely sure how they treat each child's application for places; it seems completely alien to me.

All I know from speaking to other parents in the past who missed out on the grammar school place due to score, is that they all haven't got their second preference choice, when putting the overly subscribed second best school in town down. It's almost as if it goes against parents when putting this school down as second choice.

I've got no idea whatsoever why my son's friend missed out considering this school we are now appealing for is seven doors away from his house!

No that would not be the case, preference is not taken into account on assessing eligibility for a place, all applicants are ranked for each school according to its Admissions criteria and the highest preference for which a pupil qualifies is offered. If none are qualified for it is usually the nearest with a space available that is offered. Your lack of understanding of the process suggests that neither 2 nor 3 were realistic options for your dc as a back up plan. Have you checked the Admissions criteria for those schools and the offer letter to see why you missed out?

Will2 · 03/05/2026 14:13

MarchingFrogs · 03/05/2026 12:57

I don't understand how the local authorities allocated the places.
I know certain children who put our 2nd choice school as their second school choice and got it.

This really should be explained (and almost certainly is)
on your home LA's website. In a section which ours, and our neighbouring LA, asks parents to confirm that they have read and understood before submitting their CAF.

However...

Each school which you name as a preference on your CAF considers the application with no knowledge of where else you have applied and ranks your DC purely according to the school's oversubscription criteria.

Your LA collates the responses regarding each of your preferences and allocates either

  • the highest of them which can be offered, where more than one can, or
  • the only one which can be offered, if that is the case, or
  • the nearest school to your address, in your LA, with a place still available once all those who have it as their own highest effective preference have been accommodated.

The third scenario appears to be the relevant one here.

So the DC you know whose parents put the same school as second preference as you did were ranked high enough against that school's oversubscription criteria to be offered a place, and could not be offered their first preference. Your DS, simularly not able to be offered his first preference, was not ranked highly enough by this school, either, nor, it seems, by your third preference.

Was there actually a local school less inconvenient / less undesirable than the 'nearest undersubscribed' school you got, which you would have been offered, had you named it as a preference (and if so, have you now applied for it)?

Btw, if you have a genuine reason to suspect that for either of your non-selective preferences, places were not allocated as they should have been, then you should make this known immediately to the admissions team.

I'll be honest, I'm not entirely sure how they treat each child's application for places; it seems completely alien to me.

All I know from speaking to other parents in the past who missed out on the grammar school place due to score, is that they all haven't got their second preference choice, when putting the overly subscribed second best school in town down. It's almost as if it goes against parents when putting this school down as second choice.

I've got no idea whatsoever why my son's friend missed out considering this school we are now appealing for is seven doors away from his house!

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