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Yr10 DD's school closing - please help me think it through.

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TheCheeseTax · 23/04/2026 21:29

My girl is Y10 at an independent school. It's sadly closing at the end of the academic year.

DD has autism, diagnosed, but does well. She's academic, strong, stubborn. She loves hard and has friends. She is quirky, can come across as aloof.

We are considering school, both private and state. But here's the thing - we can't find anywhere which matches her current subject's boards exactly.

The school we'd like to send her to has her friends there and more will likely
join. But none, not one, of the subjects match the current board.

Our boys' school matches the subject spec for only 1 bit at least she'd have 2 friends there and her brothers (but she might not ever see those friends).

There's another school which matches the specs (not sure if all, but a lot of them) but she knows no one there at all.

There's a school which would be v diff to anything she's known which can match all but one and we'd have to take her through somehow (but we could make it work).

Does anyone have any insight on how damaging it can be for a Y10 to move schools and have to start her subjects again for the new boards? The schools are all confident (save for the last one) that they can manage her (and whoever joins her in the move) and they have the space, time and man-power to do so.

Help, please. I am so sorry for my lovely girl. She's putting on a brave front but the thought of moving schools is eating her up.

Thanks guy x

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Funkylights · 27/04/2026 23:22

Good to hear op! Tbh I’ve seen plenty of ‘save our school’s and non are a success

TheCheeseTax · 27/04/2026 11:03

PinkFrogss · 25/04/2026 17:52

Would you be open to online schooling?

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Hi PF, we did consider this and one of our DD's bestest friends is HS. We just couldn't make it work, but even if I did take a sabbatical - we think for DD (who has ASD) it would be two steps back. She LOVED school (still does) and there was never a fight to get her there, honestly, it was like her second fave place to be (first place at home!). When covid hit and they hopped to online (very well, by the way) they did a whole school sports day because it was outdoors and I think the regs were relaxed somewhat - she cried. She cried at the thought of GOING to school, and not being behind a screen. It was unprecedented. So whilst I did consider this, just to get her through, for her it just wouldn't be right. She is VERY comfortable behind a screen, too comfortable...

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TheCheeseTax · 27/04/2026 10:43

Hi all, thanks for replies, it has been a mad week.

We've viewed various alternates, mostly indies because the two state I applied for when the shit hit the fan a few weeks ago (with a very short notice whole school meeting which I thought might be a closing down now meeting!) and they haven't got back to me in any other way just to say they wouldn't be able to take her through her geography GCSE. They are still meeting with their GCSE leaders to see what matches and what they can provide, they also said that they have been "inundated" with requests since the news of the closure - so this already large school is going to have to find somewhere to cater for these refugees!

I did make an earlier thread about it, but someone doxxed where my DD goes to school and as it's so tiny, MN thought it best to remove and I would agree.

We've found somewhere which feels very home from home and it may be that she has a couple of friendly faces going there too. It's a nightmare to get to, and nearly 60% uplift in fees, but we will make it work - it is likely we'll have to pay for the summer term too, when we've already paid the current term's fees and I think most other local indies are waiving their summer fees, but again, this school is spot on for her so we will make it work.

Everyone is so angry and there is a group of pro-active parents trying to put together a plan to save it. I think those of us with students in Y10 and 12 are focusing on moving them asap to ensure an early slide into the new syllabi as possible (is that the word? Syllabi?). All the indies have said they will make it work in terms of subjects and boards and the current school has provided us with their subjects and timetable so the new schools can identify overlaps/gaps and then create bespoke plans for the student.

If I had a smaller child, I would be involved in the "save our school" but my concern is her being in Y10. Our youngest won't go there, he's settled elsewhere and so now it's just about damage control.

The local indies have been accused of being predatory - indeed, MC poached a load of girls when the Chinese took over and fair play, they're standing and we're not...if only our school had been a little more on the ball, commercially speaking.

I would say too that it's not just the VAT, but that was the nail in the coffin for my DD's best friend who had to leave - it affected those hard working families who cut back on other things to make it work. But before then, Covid absolutely decimated (in the true sense of that word's meaning) the cohort from abroad. It never did recover - put cost of living, rising employment costs, NI, pension, energy, VAT and so on - it would have had to have been standing in good stead to survive because there are so many options in our area for good indies locally. And it just wasn't. The rot set in some time ago.

Thanks for everyone's input, esp re: the boards. I am a bit of a catastrophiser about these things and I was having damaging circular thoughts about this area in particular, but I think that she will be ok.

She'll do her end of years, have a couple of tasters and then I guess we'll make the move once we've got over those and the uniform, train etc sorted. She's ASD and has never had to travel anywhere alone before - this will do her the world of good (even though I feel sick writing that down!).

I feel less horrible, thank you all. xxx

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drspouse · 26/04/2026 19:02

Shinyandnew1 · 23/04/2026 22:42

I’d look closely at the two schools which can match the specs/all but one, and not worry so much if she knows nobody. What do you mean by ‘We’d have to take her through somehow’ ? Through what?

I took this to mean the school is far away, and they are in Scotland where two cities are often said to be "through" as in "I'm going through to Glasgow".
OP I have nothing useful to add but wanted to send some sympathy as a fellow SEN mum who is looking at a school move (Y9 and probably to another specialist school if we can find one that will actually take DS).

Araminta1003 · 26/04/2026 16:00

If there is a state school that will take her which will support the boards mostly, I would move her now and not wait a day longer. Content in Maths and Sciences are largely the same and English language is not too different. English lit may be totally different texts. Languages she should be able to adapt too. Unless she wants to do Geography for A level, would either do it online or drop it. Whatever you do, focus on what she needs for A levels and beyond. It does seem horrible at the time, but once they have done their GCSEs, they really do just move on to the next stage.
Once she is at the new school, I would probably also get up to speed over the summer holidays.

PinkFrogss · 25/04/2026 17:52

Would you be open to online schooling?

PlainSkyr · 25/04/2026 11:14

I wouldn’t worry TOO much about the exam board mismatch. I’d choose the school that has the best possibility of continuity into 6th form. Get tutors for her key subjects who can tutor her to address the gaps/mismatch of exam boards.

my DD had an A level tutor who was a teacher at a school which taught board X while DD was doing board Y. Tutor was fine with it and did a great job. DD scored an A.
Exam boards are about topics & marking scheme. The content within the topic is likely a decent match.

LivingMyLifeWithKindness · 25/04/2026 06:02

If all the work is done in y10 can you move her now to preferred school rather than waiting until September then she’d get the focussed teaching towards exams from earlier.?

knitnerd90 · 25/04/2026 05:09

If it’s IC as mentioned above there’s apparently a rescue plan. Though their problem has been decreasing numbers from well before the VAT change, so it remains to be seen if they can stabilise that.

GoatsOfNavahoe · 24/04/2026 20:59

Legopotamus · 24/04/2026 20:02

I think it's naive to think they matter at all.
If it's the school I'm thinking of it changed from all-girls to co-ed at the start of this year. If they'd truly been thinking of the children it would have not allowed a whole new cohort of boys (and girls) to be lambs to the slaughter.

There’s just under ten a month closing so it’s possible you have the wrong school.

GoatsOfNavahoe · 24/04/2026 20:05

TheignT · 24/04/2026 19:14

So the kids don't matter. Great I don't think.

How do you get that? The schools didn’t implement the education tax, it was the government. The schools that are generally closing offer education at cost basis, they aren’t even allowed to keep large cash holdings that could be used to outlast a hostile government. Labour caused this.

Legopotamus · 24/04/2026 20:02

TheignT · 24/04/2026 19:14

So the kids don't matter. Great I don't think.

I think it's naive to think they matter at all.
If it's the school I'm thinking of it changed from all-girls to co-ed at the start of this year. If they'd truly been thinking of the children it would have not allowed a whole new cohort of boys (and girls) to be lambs to the slaughter.

GoatsOfNavahoe · 24/04/2026 19:58

TheignT · 24/04/2026 19:19

Doesn't sound like the OP had a years notice, if she had why wouldn't she have moved child for year 10.

Private schools were closing before Labour introduced VAT on school fees. The private school in my town closed under the Tories, so did the school in neighbouring tow, another neighbouring town had two private schools and now it has one.

Of course it's easier to blame Labour than accept the reality.

This is getting absurd . The reality is that Labour have introduced a 20% tax on children’s education and it’s shrunk the independent sector leading to school closures. Schools are closing at roughly double the usual rate since the education tax came into force at 100 a year rather than 50. This really isn’t anything controversial or new information, Labour’s own estimates are that it would be directly responsible for closure of 100 schools. Their estimates appear to be lower than reality by about a third.

The only new news is that taxing education in Scotland has resulted in a net tax loss, the results aren’t in from England yet. So tax money that could be used for any number of other things is being used to pay to close schools, limit education options and put people out of work ! Yes Its easy to blame Labour because Labour unequivocally caused it, there is nobody else to blame. They did it and they did out of spite aimed at children, the really sad thing is that they managed to manipulate easily influenced people to go along with it by simply appealing to their envy.

SlenderRations · 24/04/2026 19:36

Are you trying to mover her now, or waiting until September? Sooner would be better ….

TheignT · 24/04/2026 19:19

GoatsOfNavahoe · 24/04/2026 09:06

That would be every single small non profit independent school in the country. Any notice is given asap, the schools then spend months (or a year in my dd’s case) aiding the children trying to get suitable alternatives. There is no one else helping clear up the mess the Government created. Any immorality lies squarely on the people who supported the policies, not the teachers, not the parents and certainly not the children.

Doesn't sound like the OP had a years notice, if she had why wouldn't she have moved child for year 10.

Private schools were closing before Labour introduced VAT on school fees. The private school in my town closed under the Tories, so did the school in neighbouring tow, another neighbouring town had two private schools and now it has one.

Of course it's easier to blame Labour than accept the reality.

TheignT · 24/04/2026 19:14

TeenToTwenties · 24/04/2026 09:02

They can't really.
As soon as they announce a possibility there would be a hemorrhage of leavers turning possibility into certainty.

So the kids don't matter. Great I don't think.

Itwasntme101 · 24/04/2026 12:53

I think I would go with the school where she has friends as depending on the subjects there may be some knowledge overlap and if she's quite academic it might be less stressful catching up than trying to make new friends. Given her age though I would ask what her preference or thoughts are on where to go.

Stnam · 24/04/2026 12:31

BeAquaEagle · 24/04/2026 11:53

If Tax is the reason for closure, what was the reason for all the schools that closed over the last two decades?. The reality is that smaller stand alone private schools have been amalgamating with others or closing for the last two decades at least. Particularly in the primary sector. People do not send their sons to boarding prep schools in anything like the same numbers as they once did. That market has shrunk dramatically. Likewise the girls schools that the likes of Diana Princess of Wales attended are all gone as parents prefer schools with a higher academic standard or co-ed. This is the reality.

The examples I have given are London co-ed, mixed ability, secondary day schools and one prep school. They aren't particularly prestigious, they don't send pupils to Oxbridge. They cater for international students, SEND students who struggle to cope in large state schools but not on EHCPs and are happier in a smaller gentler environment, summer born students that want to repeat a year, students who want a quieter less rigid environment than state schools can provide, children who want to do the 11+ /13+ curriculum, children who want to do more sport or drama etc.

The thing with small businesses is that they are vulnerable to all sorts of changes. They start by having to make redundancies and then if too many things go against them, they can't last through the bad times and have to close. Not good for children, jobs or the economy.

The prestigious private schools are the ones that people hate because they envy their success. They are unaffected as they still have plenty of customers. A lot of them are boarding and have very international cohorts, so if they ever have to shut down in the UK, their customers will head abroad and take their money with them. Some countries even offer permanent residency if you pay for private education in that country for a certain number of years.

EasternStandard · 24/04/2026 12:24

Sorry to hear this op, such a bad policy.

GoatsOfNavahoe · 24/04/2026 12:20

BeAquaEagle · 24/04/2026 12:08

I think tax is one reason and one parents will be more sympathetic to. However there are small schools that will fail in any political or economic climate. Take one school near me, its a Grammar school county so parents whose children fail 11+ and dont like the non selective schools would send their children to a smaller private school. The six form was pitifully small because the brighter children chose to transfer to the six forms of the Gramnar schools and the parents were spared the cost of two years fees. The school was propped up financially by a reasonable.sized cohort of military barders and other overseas students. As soon as covid came, all the overseas students went home and none returned afterwards. Also with Brexit the number of Military serving overseas reduced dramatically ie the entire garrison in Germany closed. These factors led the school to be enviable and it closed. Absolutely nothing to do with VAT.

It’s caused a10% shrink in the sector with obvious damaging results. The evidence is that it is a net loss to the tax payer. The same people who introduced the policy voted to ban independent schools under Corbyn. The aim of the policy was to disrupt the education of a group of children because of their parents. With all the evidence, I really don’t accept that anyone genuinely thinks this wouldn’t result in school closures and disruption to children. It is pure spite and I know you know that, so please stop with the false naivety.

SaddieJRK · 24/04/2026 12:09

Where do you live? I know some schools (GDST) which allows girls to pick whichever GSCE they want

BeAquaEagle · 24/04/2026 12:08

GoatsOfNavahoe · 24/04/2026 11:59

Just to be clear, are you arguing that the education tax isn’t responsible for closing lots of schools because schools closed in the past?

I think tax is one reason and one parents will be more sympathetic to. However there are small schools that will fail in any political or economic climate. Take one school near me, its a Grammar school county so parents whose children fail 11+ and dont like the non selective schools would send their children to a smaller private school. The six form was pitifully small because the brighter children chose to transfer to the six forms of the Gramnar schools and the parents were spared the cost of two years fees. The school was propped up financially by a reasonable.sized cohort of military barders and other overseas students. As soon as covid came, all the overseas students went home and none returned afterwards. Also with Brexit the number of Military serving overseas reduced dramatically ie the entire garrison in Germany closed. These factors led the school to be enviable and it closed. Absolutely nothing to do with VAT.

GoatsOfNavahoe · 24/04/2026 11:59

BeAquaEagle · 24/04/2026 11:53

If Tax is the reason for closure, what was the reason for all the schools that closed over the last two decades?. The reality is that smaller stand alone private schools have been amalgamating with others or closing for the last two decades at least. Particularly in the primary sector. People do not send their sons to boarding prep schools in anything like the same numbers as they once did. That market has shrunk dramatically. Likewise the girls schools that the likes of Diana Princess of Wales attended are all gone as parents prefer schools with a higher academic standard or co-ed. This is the reality.

Just to be clear, are you arguing that the education tax isn’t responsible for closing lots of schools because schools closed in the past?

GoatsOfNavahoe · 24/04/2026 11:55

BeAquaEagle · 24/04/2026 11:46

Why does everyone blame the VAT as the ONLY reason schools are closing? In reality smaller private schools have been closing or amalgamating for the last 20 years. I can think of two private schools in my county that have been in the brink for at least the last 10 years. One closed last year, the other thought they'd be saved by joining a group but in reality is being asset stripped and will close in its current form in the next few years. I just wish people would accept that VAT or not, some private schools would have gone to the wall anyway.

Nobody says it’s the only reason, it’s just obviously the major reason.

BeAquaEagle · 24/04/2026 11:53

Stnam · 24/04/2026 11:06

I know two private schools that have closed down and another one is closing at the end of this term. It is very sad for the children and the staff. We are the only country in Europe that taxes education.

If Tax is the reason for closure, what was the reason for all the schools that closed over the last two decades?. The reality is that smaller stand alone private schools have been amalgamating with others or closing for the last two decades at least. Particularly in the primary sector. People do not send their sons to boarding prep schools in anything like the same numbers as they once did. That market has shrunk dramatically. Likewise the girls schools that the likes of Diana Princess of Wales attended are all gone as parents prefer schools with a higher academic standard or co-ed. This is the reality.