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Should I push my CAT4 138 DD to SPGS open day?

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swdd · 29/03/2026 12:21

My DD is in Year 5 at an independent school, with a CAT4 score of 138 (same Year 4 and Year 5). She really loves free play, doing her own projects, and is also into chess and video games. She’s more into brain stimulation stuff and I’ve been working with her on advanced competition maths.

However, she’s quite laid-back and not naturally self-motivated. Although she has achieved Grade 8 distinction in piano, she never practises voluntarily. Her English score is good, but not very strong largely because she isn’t an avid reader, and she lacks big interest in humanities subjects.

I don't think she fits the personality of typical St Paul's Girls at 11+. (I guess anything but laidback)Although given her strong logical reasoning skills, she stands a good chance of getting into SPGS if we applied. Also, she’s not at all sporty, and SPGS is extremely strong in humanities – both are definite weak areas for her. Obviously, SPGS is much more expensive than our current school, and as a modest family it would be further financial stretch. That said, we still could sit her for SPGS, partly to test her ability, and I’ve considered 16+ entry to SPGS further down the line, as she can choose a STEM-focused Sixth Form without too worrying about the humanities. And who knows, she might be more motivated in 5 years!

But my DD is completely against it. She’s being rebellious because everyone around her raves about SPGS, and she prefers a more chilled environment, partly influenced by my concerns about the pressure there. She would not even go for the open day.

My question is: should I persuade her to at least go to the SPGS open day, or should I just drop the idea altogether?

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swdd · 30/03/2026 10:45

domenica1 · 29/03/2026 22:44

Sorry but this is madness. You wouldn’t accept if offered but seem to have terrible FOMO? Let your DD walk away. It’s just a school. There are dozens of schools she’ll love and do well at. Why force her towards one just because of some prep test?

Yes you are right, it is just a school.

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domenica1 · 30/03/2026 09:16

A significant number of girls in schools like this are from wealthy international backgrounds and (as referred to above) are encouraged to play to their strengths at A level and presumably have relative freedom about choosing uni courses on account of this (disagree about “gaming the system courses” though, show me a teenager who cares that much about Oxbridge they will work very hard for 3-4 years on a niche degree they really aren’t interested in. Instead you’ll find young women without pressure of debt with freedom to make choices). Tiffin has a very different demographic and the sciences are pushed hard in many families as the only acceptable path with the girls steered firmly towards them.

BonjourCrisette · 30/03/2026 09:13

Are these concerns also atrificially constructed by me?

Yes. But as you are not planning to send her to SPGS I'm not sure why it matters to you.

swdd · 30/03/2026 09:04

I am not sure what you mean by SPGS's unnecessary focus on humanities at GSCE level, and going well beyond national curriculum. They don't.
As to the languages - there is NO special or innovative language teaching at SPGS. It's average to poor, in my expedience.
@Sashya

Thank you for sharing your direct experience of SPGS. I'm getting a bit confused now because you're contradicting two of the previous posters @BonjourCrisette and @Ubertomusic ). They both seem to know their stuff, and one of them is also a SPGS mum.

Are more of SPGS leavers go to study humanities - yes. It's a structural issue in the UK with girls. It's not different for any other school - private of state, except maybe the Kings Maths School ...and I wonder what their % of girls is.

Looking at a top grammar like Tiffin Girls, it seems far more leavers head into STEM rather than humanities. Even at GCSE level, the STEM subjects results look significantly stronger than the humanities—which is why my DD is actually most interested in this school.

But some sport of extra pressure on humanities that would somehow distract your DD from STEM is a really artificially constructed idea, that is simply wrong...

That’s so good to know! Perhaps I'm just overthinking it, but it’s really helpful to hear from someone whose DD is a similar STEM-focused type to mine.
Can I ask if your daughter is very self-motivated at Y5/Y6? I'm feeling a bit of pressure because mine isn't particularly proactive with her learning, at this moment. I know SPGS is famously liberal and they don't really have clear/strict rule as grammar schools do, so I'm worried she might struggle if she's expected to be an independent learner from the beginning, especially in her weak subjects. Are these concerns also atrificially constructed by me?

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HighRopes · 30/03/2026 08:50

Almost the entire year take A level maths. Given that, its hard to argue the school is tilted towards the humanities, but I would agree it has excellent humanities and language teaching, and clearly values those subjects as much as STEM. I think OP will be happier with a school that prioritises STEM.

At GCSE they have to study English and a modern language. The other four options are open - girls can avoid arts / humanities to a great extent. What I’ve seen happen is girls who are strongly encouraged into STEM by parents who have pushed maths from an early age, discovering through their fourth choice GCSE a love for music, or history of art, or drama. It’s part of the breadth the school offers, which is greatest in the first three years when they’re unconstrained by the GCSE syllabus (you end up in the silly situation that they study much more interesting and complex stuff in Y9, before GCSEs) but which they try to retain right through.

At A level, I’ve observed some girls whose parents would prefer them to do pure STEM A levels arguing to retain one art subject. And the school’s advice is to choose the subjects you love at A level. Which explains why there are quite a few doing arts and humanities degrees, without assuming it’s to ‘game the system’. If you’re taught well, and in an environment which values arts and humanitities as much as STEM subjects, then its not surprising you might choose to study them further.

Sashya · 30/03/2026 01:25

@swdd

I am not sure what you mean by SPGS's unnecessary focus on humanities at GSCE level, and going well beyond national curriculum. They don't.
Westminster does that with their boys - where they don't bother with the GSCE text for the 1st year of GSCE - they read and analyse whatever their teachers deem useful. And then cover the GSCE's English lit text in the 2nd year....
At SPGS - they do the curriculum, and practice for 2 years. And they have bright kids - hence the results.

Truth is - GSCEs are not that difficult for the bright kids. Mine are all STEM and hate humanities. Would rather do pages of maths problems than write an essay. But with practice - and this is what SPGS does - they learn what they need to do to ace those exams.

As to the languages - there is NO special or innovative language teaching at SPGS. It's average to poor, in my expedience. But given the generally low quality of language teaching in the UK - the level SPGS has is good enough for top grades.

Are more of SPGS leavers go to study humanities - yes. It's a structural issue in the UK with girls. It's not different for any other school - private of state, except maybe the Kings Maths School ...and I wonder what their % of girls is.

But my kids at SPGS were always STEM focused and not sporty. There is no one type of SPGS girl. And there were plenty of girls like them - going off to do engineering, physics, chemistry and medicine at Unis. Nor many went to do pure maths, true. But, again, that is not unusual for women in maths overall.

You don't need to force your DD to apply to SPGS, or convince yourself of anything. And there are plenty of things I don't like about the school as a parent who's been around it for many years now.

But some sport of extra pressure on humanities that would somehow distract your DD from STEM is a really artificially constructed idea, that is simply wrong...

swdd · 30/03/2026 00:05

the quality of teaching languages is notoriously poor in the UK and it's mainly rote learning without deeper understanding of how a language actually functions,

Perhaps the necessity of learning a language is what matters most. First of all, English is essential as a foreign language in many non‑English speaking country. Then, I think French is quite useful in Canada, and Spanish is helpful in the US. But in the UK, English alone is probably enough. I guess teaching language is also poor in Australia and New Zealand?

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Ubertomusic · 29/03/2026 23:49

swdd · 29/03/2026 23:21

SPGS has some really good ideas in how they do humanities and languages e.g approaching language studies from a structural linguistics point of view allows much deeper understanding than the usual rote learning done everywhere else

@Ubertomusic

Yes, if we're talking about languages, it's everywhere else. I think it's common knowledge that the quality of teaching languages is notoriously poor in the UK and it's mainly rote learning without deeper understanding of how a language actually functions, even for European languages, let alone other linguistic groups. That's why British school children struggle so much with German for example - it's really hard to rote learn German if you don't understand its deeper structure, and it's simply not being taught the right way.
Latin can help a bit but not with Asian languages or Arabic. You have to approach languages as systems/structures to gain transferrable linguistic skills. Then you would be able to learn Albanian, Hungarian that are in a world of their own, or artificial languages that don't have "conversational topics" at all, and understanding of artificial languages opens up comp sci and AI, or behavioural sciences as they're interconnected with the language, or emerging interdisciplinary fields and so on...
Studying languages is not about going on a holiday and being able to maintain a basic chat with the locals.

swdd · 29/03/2026 23:47

I wonder if SPGS use of this distinctive, university‑style structural linguistic approach is related to it being a girls’ school. Whereas at top boy schools like Westminster or St Paul’s Boys, their humanities teaching tends to be more practical.

So I think — and this is just my speculation — if a girl is very into humanities from an early age, SPGS’s approach would suit her extremely well. On the other hand, my dd is very into STEM and has little interest in humanities and I honestly struggle to see how much added value this kind of structural analysis would bring for her. What feels comfortable and natural for your dd at SPGS might create pressure for my dd and there is no contradiction in that. SPGS is obviously a great school, but it just isn’t right for everyone. (Again, just my speculation. Apologies if I have offended anyone.)

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swdd · 29/03/2026 23:21

SPGS has some really good ideas in how they do humanities and languages e.g approaching language studies from a structural linguistics point of view allows much deeper understanding than the usual rote learning done everywhere else

@Ubertomusic

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swdd · 29/03/2026 23:15

Ubertomusic · 29/03/2026 23:11

That's a strange question. I don't know every single school in the UK obviously (I doubt even specialist consultants know all of them).
I'm able to compare with some top schools in London that are accidentally also among the top schools nationally so roughly in the same league as SPGS.

I was referring of course to top private schools—those with sufficient resources and a highly selective intake, enabling them to deliver that kind of in-depth academic experience in language studies.

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Ubertomusic · 29/03/2026 23:11

swdd · 29/03/2026 23:04

Do you mean SPGS is the only school in the UK doing this kind of teaching?

That's a strange question. I don't know every single school in the UK obviously (I doubt even specialist consultants know all of them).
I'm able to compare with some top schools in London that are accidentally also among the top schools nationally so roughly in the same league as SPGS.

swdd · 29/03/2026 23:04

Ubertomusic · 29/03/2026 22:55

This I have no knowledge of as you can only live it to fully understand, but comparing homework and projects across a few London schools it is clear to me SPGS does many things differently and in many cases deeper than others. I don't necessarily agree with everything they do to structure knowledge in literature, for example, but I can understand what they're doing and why, and I find it very interesting even in earlier years. Even if I disagree on some points, I still find this type of education better for developing a well rounded and truly knowledgeable (not just exam-drilled) person.

Do you mean SPGS is the only school in the UK doing this kind of teaching?

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Ubertomusic · 29/03/2026 22:55

BonjourCrisette · 29/03/2026 22:31

Anyway, SPGS has some really good ideas in how they do humanities and languages e.g approaching language studies from a structural linguistics point of view allows much deeper understanding than the usual rote learning done everywhere else, in this respect I think it is actually a special school, but you could only get the benefits of such education if you join at 11+. 6th form is probably too late.

Agree with this. It's not only the linguistics content. It's a different educational style from most other similarly profiled schools and there is a different culture in the school and a different relationship to peers and teachers, if you are someone who is able to take advantage of this.

This I have no knowledge of as you can only live it to fully understand, but comparing homework and projects across a few London schools it is clear to me SPGS does many things differently and in many cases deeper than others. I don't necessarily agree with everything they do to structure knowledge in literature, for example, but I can understand what they're doing and why, and I find it very interesting even in earlier years. Even if I disagree on some points, I still find this type of education better for developing a well rounded and truly knowledgeable (not just exam-drilled) person.

domenica1 · 29/03/2026 22:44

swdd · 29/03/2026 13:22

@Smartiepants79 @TeaandHobnobs

We have already unanimously concluded that we will not accept an offer from SPGS for 11+ entry, even if one is made.
However, we are not fully convinced whether visiting the school would be beneficial/harmful/useless to her vision and her future (possible consideration at 16+).

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Sorry but this is madness. You wouldn’t accept if offered but seem to have terrible FOMO? Let your DD walk away. It’s just a school. There are dozens of schools she’ll love and do well at. Why force her towards one just because of some prep test?

Ubertomusic · 29/03/2026 22:40

BonjourCrisette · 29/03/2026 22:26

And here are leavers' destinations and courses for 2024 (took 30 seconds on google): https://spgs.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/09/University-Destinations-2024.pdf

That actually confirms what I thought would be the case, thank you for the link. History, MML, Classics, Theology have ~50-60% acceptance rate. No maths at Cambridge and only one plus one comp sci at Oxford, surprisingly (girls school? mathsy girls leaving for Westminster? SPGS is big on maths though so still surprised). Med is tough of course but I would've been surprised if SPGS had none, five accepted is a good result. Nat Sci is not easy either.
A few "game the system" courses at Oxford too, but I guess it's inevitable even at SPGS.

swdd · 29/03/2026 22:40

You seem to have commented negatively about SPGS on a number of threads without any actual experience of the school.
@BonjourCrisette

I have no intention of speaking negatively about SPGS, and I apologise if I’ve given that impression. Your take on the school has been really eye-opening and I’d love to hear more from you.

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BonjourCrisette · 29/03/2026 22:31

Anyway, SPGS has some really good ideas in how they do humanities and languages e.g approaching language studies from a structural linguistics point of view allows much deeper understanding than the usual rote learning done everywhere else, in this respect I think it is actually a special school, but you could only get the benefits of such education if you join at 11+. 6th form is probably too late.

Agree with this. It's not only the linguistics content. It's a different educational style from most other similarly profiled schools and there is a different culture in the school and a different relationship to peers and teachers, if you are someone who is able to take advantage of this.

BonjourCrisette · 29/03/2026 22:26

And here are leavers' destinations and courses for 2024 (took 30 seconds on google): https://spgs.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/09/University-Destinations-2024.pdf

https://spgs.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/09/University-Destinations-2024.pdf

Ubertomusic · 29/03/2026 22:25

swdd · 29/03/2026 22:18

Yes. I find it somewhat suspicious that they only seem to disclose information selectively. For example, SPGS only lists the main academic subjects on its GCSE table, while many creative options like art and design are not included.

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Some courses at Oxbridge have acceptance rates in the region of 50-60%. I would expect e.g quite a few MML in the actual unpublished data (I may be wrong of course).

Anyway, SPGS has some really good ideas in how they do humanities and languages e.g approaching language studies from a structural linguistics point of view allows much deeper understanding than the usual rote learning done everywhere else, in this respect I think it is actually a special school, but you could only get the benefits of such education if you join at 11+. 6th form is probably too late.

BonjourCrisette · 29/03/2026 22:23

Oh, don't be silly. GCSEs are not that tricky for children capable of getting into these highly selective schools.

The creative subjects are all on the school-directed courses info (these courses are very different to and designed to be more challenging than GCSEs).

If you want to know what girls go on to study, I'd suggest you ask the school.

But since you don't want your daughter to go there anyway, I'm not quite sure why all the angsting as it obviously is irrelevant to you.

You seem to have commented negatively about SPGS on a number of threads without any actual experience of the school. It's a sadly predictable pattern of behaviour for those of us who do have experience with the school.

swdd · 29/03/2026 22:18

Ubertomusic · 29/03/2026 20:00

Interestingly, SPGS doesn't publish leaver's courses :)
spgs.org/academic/results/

Yes. I find it somewhat suspicious that they only seem to disclose information selectively. For example, SPGS only lists the main academic subjects on its GCSE table, while many creative options like art and design are not included.

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swdd · 29/03/2026 22:10

schooleducation · 29/03/2026 21:28

If your DD gets a offer from SPGS that means she has ability to get those grades, OP! This applies to every school. If a child is not expected to achieve the required grades, they will not receive an offer from that school.

Top grades aren't the issue. What concerns me is that SPGS teaches at a high level to ensure nearly everyone gets a 9 in the main subjects. My daughter might end up among the lower-ranked students in English Literature — even though she would still get a 9 at GCSE, keeping up in daily lessons would require excessive effort. This could also take up time she could otherwise spend on her stronger subjects. I admit this concern may be unnecessary.

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schooleducation · 29/03/2026 21:28

If your DD gets a offer from SPGS that means she has ability to get those grades, OP! This applies to every school. If a child is not expected to achieve the required grades, they will not receive an offer from that school.

Ubertomusic · 29/03/2026 20:00

Interestingly, SPGS doesn't publish leaver's courses :)
spgs.org/academic/results/