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Didn’t get into any choices, placed into Catholic School - help

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morozova89 · 10/03/2026 09:21

Hi everyone, I’m really hoping someone might be able to offer some advice about secondary school appeals in London.

My son has been allocated a place at a Catholic secondary school, which we did not put on our application list. We are a different faith and not Catholic, so being placed in a faith school that isn’t ours feels very upsetting and uncomfortable for our family.

I’m also a single mum and have had to navigate this process on my own, and unfortunately my son’s dad hasn’t been helpful with any of it. I’m originally from Ukraine and not very familiar with the UK school system, so I did what I thought made sense at the time.

We listed four schools, three of which we genuinely believed were realistic choices based on distance and admissions. Sadly he wasn’t offered any of them. I realise now maybe I should have listed more, but I honestly didn’t know.

What has made it even more shocking is that all of my son’s close friends were offered places at our number one choice school, which is in our catchment area and part of the same federation as his current primary school. I know friendships aren’t a ground for appeal, but it has made the outcome quite difficult for him to understand.

My son was born in the UK, is in Year 6, and is doing well at his current primary school, so this has been a really confusing and upsetting situation for us.

I understand that appeals are usually made for a specific school rather than against the one offered, but being allocated a faith school that isn’t our faith and wasn’t on our list feels particularly difficult.

If anyone has experience with appeals, waiting lists, or what steps I should take next, I would be incredibly grateful for any advice. Thank you so much. 🙏

btw we are in London.

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SheilaFentiman · 11/03/2026 22:10

@morozova89 I am really glad you are going to see the allocated school and have got some assurance and information from this thread

SheilaFentiman · 11/03/2026 22:09

IANAL so bow to prh, but I like reading this stuff 😀

The Office of the Schools Adjudicator raised the points in 2014 about the London Oratory’s admissions code being out of line with Diocesian guidelines in some respects. My understanding is that some deviation is allowed from those guidelines if it’s still fair under the Schools Admissions Code.

A judicial review (2015, sought by LO, as prh says) found that the OSA had overstated its case in some places (my interpretation on skimming the judgement), but that the LO still needed to make changes to their policies.

AFAIK no specific discrimination case was brought against the LO under the Equality Act or similar.

I can well believe that any other school that hadn’t already ditched such policies quietly changed them after the publicity around the OSA report or - at the latest - after the judicial review.

ParentOfOne · 11/03/2026 21:52

@prh47bridge It was actually the school that took the Schools Adjudicator to court with the British Humanist Association (which is now Humanists UK) joining as an interested party. The National Secular Society weren't involved at all.

Thank you for clarifying the details.

I don't know how far back you are going when you refer to the "old system", but that kind of thing has not been allowed for at least 20 years, if not more. I'm not sure it was ever allowed

I meant before the London Oratory was defeated.
This happened 10 years ago, not 20.

After it happened

The British Humanist Association (BHA) and the Fair Admissions Campaign (FAC) said their efforts had forced all schools to drop such criteria from admissions policies
https://www.theguardian.com/education/2016/mar/01/faith-schools-admissions-church-flower-arranging-eradicated-england

So these associations implied that the London Oratory was not the only school with such an abomination of a policy. However, I do not have details on how many other schools

Faith school 'admissions by flower arranging' eradicated in England

Campaigners say they have brought end to admission arrangements prioritising places for children whose parents help at church

https://www.theguardian.com/education/2016/mar/01/faith-schools-admissions-church-flower-arranging-eradicated-england

prh47bridge · 11/03/2026 20:25

Late to the party but just to confirm that, as others have said, not wanting a Catholic school is unlikely to win an appeal. It doesn't matter what faith you are, there is no right for your child to be educated in a school of your chosen faith nor for your child to avoid being educated in a school of another faith. You do, however, have the right to withdraw your child from religious education and attendance at assemblies.

I note that you are going to see the school. That is good. Many faith schools aren't very religious at all. Indeed, some faith schools are less religious than some community schools (which in theory are not aligned to any faith). It is highly unlikely they will turn your child into a Catholic. Indeed, judging from posts on here from people who have been to Catholic schools, they are more likely to turn your child against Catholicism!

prh47bridge · 11/03/2026 20:19

ParentOfOne · 11/03/2026 19:20

@Spirallingdownwards that faith schools tend to be more socially selective is not a generalisation but a conclusion backed by tons of research, as I had said and linked.

If you disagree, maybe you could challenge that research and explain why believing that a priest turns a wafer into the body of a deity would make the students "better"?

As for the London Oratory, I do not know how representative its case was. But I do know that the old system allowed that kind of blatant discrimination (donate to the church and get priority) and I know that it took a legal fight to defeat that abomination. Tell me, which of these well-documented facts do you disagree with?

I don't know how far back you are going when you refer to the "old system", but that kind of thing has not been allowed for at least 20 years, if not more. I'm not sure it was ever allowed.

The London Oratory was unusual amongst faith schools in trying to give priority based on grounds that were clearly prohibited by the Admissions Code. They got away with it for as long as they did simply because no-one referred them to the Schools Adjudicator. Once they did, the Adjudicator ruled against them.

And @ParentOfOne is wrong about the court case. It wasn't the National Secular Society and Humanists UK taking the school to court. It was actually the school that took the Schools Adjudicator to court with the British Humanist Association (which is now Humanists UK) joining as an interested party. The National Secular Society weren't involved at all. The school span the outcome as a win, but the reality is that they lost on all substantive points.

TheBlueKoala · 11/03/2026 19:33

In my DS catholic secondary school I would say less than half are catholic. I'm atheist and so is DS (told him to be open and think for himself so as not to be influenced by me or school). The reason I wanted him to go to that school is it's outstanding reputation for good behaviour and results. DS is happy and has learnt about all religions not just catholicism. @morozova89 look into the school before you dismiss it

SleepingStandingUp · 11/03/2026 19:21

morozova89 · 11/03/2026 17:02

It doesn’t look bad academically, it’s true. I guess we will have more of a feel for it when we visit - not entirely sure what to expect, but hopefully they will be able to address my concerns.

My eldest is going to a catholic school, he definitely doesn't bleeive in God. He knows that when they do prayers, he bows his head and keeps quiet. He doesn't have to pray. He does have to be respectful. I'd expect the same if he went to a Jewish school etc.

Their ethos and culture is about being a good person. There's nothing in their daily life at school where they'll be trying to turn him into a bad person or someone with a abhorrent cultural norm.

Keep appealing and go and visit but I would try not to stress about what sort of child they will want your child to br

ParentOfOne · 11/03/2026 19:20

@Spirallingdownwards that faith schools tend to be more socially selective is not a generalisation but a conclusion backed by tons of research, as I had said and linked.

If you disagree, maybe you could challenge that research and explain why believing that a priest turns a wafer into the body of a deity would make the students "better"?

As for the London Oratory, I do not know how representative its case was. But I do know that the old system allowed that kind of blatant discrimination (donate to the church and get priority) and I know that it took a legal fight to defeat that abomination. Tell me, which of these well-documented facts do you disagree with?

Spirallingdownwards · 11/03/2026 19:02

ParentOfOne · 10/03/2026 14:14

OP, where in London are you? Some councils and schools publish how much the waiting lists moved between March and August in the past. That is no guarantee but gives you an indication. Some don't.
Eg maybe you are 1500 metres from the school you want, and the maximum admission distance was 1300 in March but 2000 by August. It can happen. Look into it

@Spirallingdownwards
From my experience many of the Catholic schools are better and there are usually plenty of non Catholic parents seeking places in them because of that.

Nonsense. There are good faith schools and awful ones. Just south of the river from the very coveted London Oratory is St John Bosco College, also Catholic, which has been undersubscribed for as long as I can remember, because no one wants to send their kids there. You cannot generalise. You need to consider the specific school

Faith schools tend to be more socially selective. That explains most of the "better" results you allude to. Plenty of research on this, eg https://www.secularism.org.uk/faith-schools/faith-school-facts

The National secular Society and Humanists UK fought the London Oratory in Court, and won, because their old admission policy gave priority to obscure criteria like participation in Church activities, which ranged from flower arranging to donations. This was ruled discriminatory and illegal.

That may well be your experience in London but isn't in other parts of the country. So perhaps don't generalise yourself.

Rosecoffeecup · 11/03/2026 18:28

Here is the oversubscription criteria - random allocation, which would explain why your neighbour got a place but your son didn't (if both were considered under criteria v)

http://www.mvpa.mossbourne.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/Admissions-Arrangements-2026-2027.pdf

SheilaFentiman · 11/03/2026 17:17

Ah, that 'only 42 places for Riverside across all bands, including siblings, LAC, staff kids etc' makes it much more tricky to figure out.

morozova89 · 11/03/2026 17:02

MmeWorthington · 11/03/2026 16:12

I had a look at the CP website - it looks very strong academically and the Ofsted is good.

The religious content looks quite intense. I am an atheist but know I have 'Christian values' in terms of ethics if not faith, and I wouldn't think Catholic values (much talked on on the website) would be very different.

It doesn’t look bad academically, it’s true. I guess we will have more of a feel for it when we visit - not entirely sure what to expect, but hopefully they will be able to address my concerns.

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morozova89 · 11/03/2026 17:01

Another parent explained it to me as - There are only 42 spaces for MRA kids in total including siblings. So the first 20 or so MRA spaces fill up with siblings. Then they reach the last 20ish using distance - so those spaces go to the MRA kids who don’t have siblings who live closest and presumably there are 20ish people who attend MRA who live closer than you.

I guess there is some dispute into how these get allocated.. will be calling the council (again) tomorrow to clarify.

anyway, thank you all for support and words of wisdom!

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MmeWorthington · 11/03/2026 16:12

I had a look at the CP website - it looks very strong academically and the Ofsted is good.

The religious content looks quite intense. I am an atheist but know I have 'Christian values' in terms of ethics if not faith, and I wouldn't think Catholic values (much talked on on the website) would be very different.

morozova89 · 11/03/2026 16:03

MmeWorthington · 11/03/2026 15:55

  1. I would ask them to check whether he was put in the Riverside category for Band A
  2. Visit CP and see what you think
  3. Look through the Hackney schools and put him on the waiting list for any additional schools you would consider over and above CP
  4. Look at any schools in neighbouring boroughs that are within reach that you would prefer over CP and get on their waiting lists
  5. Make sure you accept the CP place - it won't disadvantage you on any waiting lists or appeals to accept , and you don't want to end up with no school!
  6. Keep your fingers crossed - the population of London is v mobile and waiting lists move fast.

I don't really understand the Haggerston table - they have a PAN of 180 and have offered 146 places of which 4 were offered on 'no preference; - which I presume means people who didn't list it and it is therefore undersubscribed?

I also don't understand their distances.

thank you, I will do all this 🙏

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MmeWorthington · 11/03/2026 16:00

SheilaFentiman · 11/03/2026 15:54

No - cut off was that IF the child doesn’t attend Riverside. Yours does and so should be in the category above distance.

@morozova89
I agree - this!

reenon · 11/03/2026 15:58

FWIW - My DDs are both at a Catholic Secondary. Despite being baptised Catholics they are both now firmly atheist (as is my DH). They love their school, religion is not rammed down their throats and RE is their favourite subject - as it challenges the way they think and gives them the opportunity for lots of debate. Yes, they do get invited to mass but none of it is compulsory.

MmeWorthington · 11/03/2026 15:55
  1. I would ask them to check whether he was put in the Riverside category for Band A
  2. Visit CP and see what you think
  3. Look through the Hackney schools and put him on the waiting list for any additional schools you would consider over and above CP
  4. Look at any schools in neighbouring boroughs that are within reach that you would prefer over CP and get on their waiting lists
  5. Make sure you accept the CP place - it won't disadvantage you on any waiting lists or appeals to accept , and you don't want to end up with no school!
  6. Keep your fingers crossed - the population of London is v mobile and waiting lists move fast.

I don't really understand the Haggerston table - they have a PAN of 180 and have offered 146 places of which 4 were offered on 'no preference; - which I presume means people who didn't list it and it is therefore undersubscribed?

I also don't understand their distances.

SheilaFentiman · 11/03/2026 15:54

morozova89 · 11/03/2026 15:53

Never mind I think I understand it now - cut off for Band A was 0.454 miles. So yes clearly they are just too oversubscribed.

No - cut off was that IF the child doesn’t attend Riverside. Yours does and so should be in the category above distance.

morozova89 · 11/03/2026 15:53

Never mind I think I understand it now - cut off for Band A was 0.454 miles. So yes clearly they are just too oversubscribed.

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PatriciaHolm · 11/03/2026 15:35

I agree - if he's Band A, and attends riverside (and you put than in his application) then it looks like an error has been made, as they admitted all children in Band A who go to Riverside and then moved on to distance.

Screamingabdabz · 11/03/2026 15:35

“I know friendships aren’t a ground for appeal.”

You can appeal on any grounds you feel are relevant to your child. Don’t limit yourself.

SheilaFentiman · 11/03/2026 15:34

I also think there has been an error and you have been put in the distance category of Band A instead of the “attends riverside” category.

If the error has been made by Hackney, you should get a place without appeal (or more or less automatically if they do make you appeal)

Rosecoffeecup · 11/03/2026 15:31

You need to check that he was considered as attending Mossbourne Riverside, if you had indicated this on the application form then it looks like there's been an error

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