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Godolphin and Latymer or West London Free School Secondary

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Marie44 · 28/02/2026 09:30

Hi parents, desperate to know what other parents think about choosing between an independent Godolphin and Latymer school for girls or the state West London Free School? My DD got an offer from G&L, and she'll definitely get one from WLFS next week. Really don't know what to do and wonder what other parents are thinking. Of course, we are aware of the differences (fees against state, girls' against co-ed, etc.), but we would love to know what everyone else's view is. Also, is anyone here in the same situation?

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jsku · 15/03/2026 15:44

Marie44 · 15/03/2026 15:35

@jsku Thank you very much for your comment. Would you mind if I private message you, please?

Of course

Marie44 · 15/03/2026 15:35

jsku · 15/03/2026 15:24

@Marie44

I have two in selective private in this area. Plenty of my DDs friends ended up in G&L after 11+. Some, who didn’t manage to get into better schools went to WLFS.
So - there is that. It is going to be a different, less academic cohort. With less opportunities.

Recently - one of good friends moved her DD from WLFS to mid-level private school. Not so much for academics, but to get better support - pastoral and otherwise.

@jsku Thank you very much for your comment. Would you mind if I private message you, please?

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jsku · 15/03/2026 15:24

@Marie44

I have two in selective private in this area. Plenty of my DDs friends ended up in G&L after 11+. Some, who didn’t manage to get into better schools went to WLFS.
So - there is that. It is going to be a different, less academic cohort. With less opportunities.

Recently - one of good friends moved her DD from WLFS to mid-level private school. Not so much for academics, but to get better support - pastoral and otherwise.

Marie44 · 15/03/2026 11:01

swdd · 12/03/2026 11:48

For me, it’s all about the peer group—selectivity is the real deal-breaker. There’s such a massive risk with a bright DD being stuck in a non-selective set; they just end up feeling isolated or totally switching off because they aren’t being stretched. Whether the school is state or private is less of a priority. The main thing is finding that academic bubble where they can actually thrive and be happy. Of course, an academically strong girl can still do well in a non-selective school like WLFS, but it’s a much bigger gamble for her development than being in a selective environment as in G&L. @Marie44

@swdd , Many thanks for your comment. Can I ask if you have a DD at G&L or children at any of the independent schools? It's always great to have perspectives from parents with first-hand experience.

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swdd · 12/03/2026 11:48

For me, it’s all about the peer group—selectivity is the real deal-breaker. There’s such a massive risk with a bright DD being stuck in a non-selective set; they just end up feeling isolated or totally switching off because they aren’t being stretched. Whether the school is state or private is less of a priority. The main thing is finding that academic bubble where they can actually thrive and be happy. Of course, an academically strong girl can still do well in a non-selective school like WLFS, but it’s a much bigger gamble for her development than being in a selective environment as in G&L. @Marie44

DorisTheFinkasaurus · 05/03/2026 17:28

That implies to me that a student already attending the secondary with 5s in GCSE English Language and Math and five 6s overall will have priority over an external applicant with straight 9s. Is that not your experience?

Nope. Not my experience. Plenty of the WLFS kids bomb GCSEs and don't go onto the sixth form, many also leave out of choice because they want a new experience outside of the WLFS one. Remember, some of those kids have been in the WLFS family since primary school and it gets a bit insular. They want a new environment that's not associated with WLFS. That's a very common reason for the kids who breeze through GCSEs, obtaining 9s, not to stay on at WLFS Sixth Form. They just want a new experience, nothing more, nothing less. So anyone from the outside should not at all be deterred from applying.
Also, the secondary can be a bit hardcore, emotionally, and many kids burn out. It's not got great pastoral care and that adds to it. The Sixth Form is a different and much better story.

NaughtyParent · 05/03/2026 10:39

@DorisTheFinkasaurus

yes of course she'll definitely have the same chance of getting a placement at the sixth form as those who are already attending the secondary.

From their sixth form admissions arrangements:

c. Minimum Entry Requirements are Grade 5 in English Language and Mathematics, and five Grade 6s overall....

d. All students in the current Year 11 at the West London Free School who meet the Minimum Entry Requirements... will be given first preference to continue into the Sixth Form if they wish to do so....

e. Any remaining places will be filled by external applicants to the Sixth Form; final numbers will vary depending on the combination of courses, availability of spaces and the number of internal Year 11 students who decide to continue at the West London Free School....

That implies to me that a student already attending the secondary with 5s in GCSE English Language and Math and five 6s overall will have priority over an external applicant with straight 9s. Is that not your experience?

Springtoday · 05/03/2026 07:10

Marie44 · 04/03/2026 22:21

@Springtoday I'm so glad I posted my question on this forum - thank you so much for sharing. My daughter is always top performing in her class, very academic. WLFS secondary is a good state school, but I now don't think it would challenge her enough. Would you mind sharing what you are thinking for your children for the sixth form, please? I've heard that WLFS sixth form is very good. x

For now, think we will just keep them in their schools. They are happy there and no reason to move. Although maybe a chance dd would want to go coed, but doubt it as she loves G&L. DS is also very happy at his school. Of course you never know later down the line so we keep an open mind for both kids. But not sure if DS could change anyway bc LU dropping GCSEs.

Marie44 · 04/03/2026 23:23

DorisTheFinkasaurus · 04/03/2026 21:53

Hi OP, yes of course she'll definitely have the same chance of getting a placement at the sixth form as those who are already attending the secondary. In my own experience, I have found the sixth form to be fairly evenly split down the middle. About half of the sixth form pupils come from other schools and it's a great sixth form for those who have been in private education. The teaching standards at the sixth form are high, but it's a very nurturing environment. Mr. Tamizian is an amazing, amazing teacher (I believe he's the head of the sixth form now) and Mr. Bacchi-Andreoli runs the art department and is, again, an incredible art teacher. I regrettably can't speak too highly of the secondary itself (it's got it's great and not so great aspects), but the sixth form deserves heaps of praise. It really is consistently excellent.

@DorisTheFinkasaurus Once again, thank you so much for taking the time to explain all of that — it sounds really reassuring to hear from people like you who have first-hand knowledge.

What you’ve shared confirms my initial feeling that G&L is the right place for my daughter, where she can be challenged, she can grow and build her confidence.

Thank you again for being so generous with your time and advice. I truly appreciate it. We have confirmed the offer and are very excited now about it :)

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Marie44 · 04/03/2026 22:21

Springtoday · 04/03/2026 07:43

Yes, one at G&L and one at LU. Both had good state options, but I felt secondary private would suit them better. I wanted them with a more academic crowd and to be challenged. They went to a very good state primary and enjoyed it very much, but it did not challenge them enough. I don't know about WLFS so hopefully someone comes along who can better advise.

@Springtoday I'm so glad I posted my question on this forum - thank you so much for sharing. My daughter is always top performing in her class, very academic. WLFS secondary is a good state school, but I now don't think it would challenge her enough. Would you mind sharing what you are thinking for your children for the sixth form, please? I've heard that WLFS sixth form is very good. x

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DorisTheFinkasaurus · 04/03/2026 21:53

Hi OP, yes of course she'll definitely have the same chance of getting a placement at the sixth form as those who are already attending the secondary. In my own experience, I have found the sixth form to be fairly evenly split down the middle. About half of the sixth form pupils come from other schools and it's a great sixth form for those who have been in private education. The teaching standards at the sixth form are high, but it's a very nurturing environment. Mr. Tamizian is an amazing, amazing teacher (I believe he's the head of the sixth form now) and Mr. Bacchi-Andreoli runs the art department and is, again, an incredible art teacher. I regrettably can't speak too highly of the secondary itself (it's got it's great and not so great aspects), but the sixth form deserves heaps of praise. It really is consistently excellent.

Marie44 · 04/03/2026 21:52

poppybuttons · 04/03/2026 08:17

@Marie44, if you have a bursary offer, of course you must take this opportunity for your dd - the school want her. The bursary won’t be reallocated this year, if you don’t take it.

@poppybuttons Thank you so much. I have no experience with independent schools, and I am making this decision on my own for my daughter. So, I'm so grateful for all your advice. x

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Marie44 · 04/03/2026 21:37

SWLmama · 04/03/2026 10:25

@Marie44 we had a similar dilemma with the other options including a grammar school. If affordability wasn't an issue I would take G&L at a heartbeat. We chose the independent school and haven't looked back.

@SWLmama So good to know, thank you very much. x

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Marie44 · 04/03/2026 21:35

DorisTheFinkasaurus · 04/03/2026 12:14

G&L all the way. In my own personal experience (having had sons and a daughter at WLFS primary and secondary), I would absolutely have chosen a school like G&L if I had that opportunity in front of me. WLFS secondary is not nearly as good a school as it used to be (I've had kids attending the secondary since its inception with my youngest starting this past September and leaving by November- I've known that school and its staff for a long time).

The WLFS Sixth Form is a different story- excellent sixth form! In a class by itself, really. It's a sixth form I would chose over a private one all day long.

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@DorisTheFinkasaurus Thank you so much for sharing all of this. I needed to hear from someone with first-hand experience and offering such genuine advice. I’m making this decision on my own for my daughter and feel quite lost at times, so your insight means so much. I really appreciate you taking the time to write it.

May I also ask one more thing, please? If my DD goes to G&L for secondary, does she have the same chance as kids from WLFS Secondary to apply to WLFS for sixth form? Or do students already in the WLFS secondary have priority for the sixth form places, with fewer spaces for external applicants? Or is it purely based on the results they achieve?

I would be very grateful to understand how that works if you happen to know. Thank you again for your help. x

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DorisTheFinkasaurus · 04/03/2026 12:14

G&L all the way. In my own personal experience (having had sons and a daughter at WLFS primary and secondary), I would absolutely have chosen a school like G&L if I had that opportunity in front of me. WLFS secondary is not nearly as good a school as it used to be (I've had kids attending the secondary since its inception with my youngest starting this past September and leaving by November- I've known that school and its staff for a long time).

The WLFS Sixth Form is a different story- excellent sixth form! In a class by itself, really. It's a sixth form I would chose over a private one all day long.

SWLmama · 04/03/2026 10:25

@Marie44 we had a similar dilemma with the other options including a grammar school. If affordability wasn't an issue I would take G&L at a heartbeat. We chose the independent school and haven't looked back.

poppybuttons · 04/03/2026 08:17

@Marie44, if you have a bursary offer, of course you must take this opportunity for your dd - the school want her. The bursary won’t be reallocated this year, if you don’t take it.

Springtoday · 04/03/2026 07:43

Yes, one at G&L and one at LU. Both had good state options, but I felt secondary private would suit them better. I wanted them with a more academic crowd and to be challenged. They went to a very good state primary and enjoyed it very much, but it did not challenge them enough. I don't know about WLFS so hopefully someone comes along who can better advise.

Marie44 · 04/03/2026 06:05

@Springtoday Can I ask if you have a child in G&L, please, or any other independent? Just trying to see what other parents did/ will do if they have offers from both G&L or any other top independent, and let's say WLFS Secondary (great secondary). Of course, if the cost is not an issue for one or another reason (we're a bursary family) and can pay the remaining balance.

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Springtoday · 03/03/2026 20:40

Sashya · 01/03/2026 23:01

G&L is a lovely school, and not as completive or pressured as, say, SPGS.
As to where your daughter would be happier - it's impossible to say, as no one has a crystal ball. And in any school, no matter how supportive, etc - there will be happy and unhappy kids.

Facilities, sports and other opportunities do make a huge difference on kids day-to-day school experience, and hence, their happiness there.
And, even though GCSEs, A-levels and uni admissions seem far away for you - the time will fly really fast, and it'll be here before you know it.

School with better funding will give your kid the best preparation for her future life. Period.

Also - being with other smart kids would also help her develop in a different way than being in a mixed ability school with a lot less resources.

That said - you can also save money and go state, and then move at GSCEs, or even A-levels.

If anything, I would do the opposite. G&L prepares them very well for the GCSE's and I doubt state schools would do the same....so going to G&L prior to state would ensure higher GCSE scores instead of state and swapping.

Marie44 · 03/03/2026 18:06

Sashya · 01/03/2026 23:01

G&L is a lovely school, and not as completive or pressured as, say, SPGS.
As to where your daughter would be happier - it's impossible to say, as no one has a crystal ball. And in any school, no matter how supportive, etc - there will be happy and unhappy kids.

Facilities, sports and other opportunities do make a huge difference on kids day-to-day school experience, and hence, their happiness there.
And, even though GCSEs, A-levels and uni admissions seem far away for you - the time will fly really fast, and it'll be here before you know it.

School with better funding will give your kid the best preparation for her future life. Period.

Also - being with other smart kids would also help her develop in a different way than being in a mixed ability school with a lot less resources.

That said - you can also save money and go state, and then move at GSCEs, or even A-levels.

@Sashya Thank you very much for your perspective. Really helpful! Everyone I speak to about G&L says the same thing, and that it's the best school for girls.

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Sashya · 01/03/2026 23:01

G&L is a lovely school, and not as completive or pressured as, say, SPGS.
As to where your daughter would be happier - it's impossible to say, as no one has a crystal ball. And in any school, no matter how supportive, etc - there will be happy and unhappy kids.

Facilities, sports and other opportunities do make a huge difference on kids day-to-day school experience, and hence, their happiness there.
And, even though GCSEs, A-levels and uni admissions seem far away for you - the time will fly really fast, and it'll be here before you know it.

School with better funding will give your kid the best preparation for her future life. Period.

Also - being with other smart kids would also help her develop in a different way than being in a mixed ability school with a lot less resources.

That said - you can also save money and go state, and then move at GSCEs, or even A-levels.

Marie44 · 01/03/2026 21:24

@curious79 not being in London sounds lovely haha - I can imagine the "pressure cooker" release must feel refreshing!
I do hope your daughters' BF is doing ok and has found some good friends. It's reassuring to hear she's loving the school and all the opportunities. My DD is generally quite an easy going and very friendly character, so I'd hope she would settle in and find her place too, but never experienced being around wealthy families. Thank you so much for sharing your experience. It's really helpful! Wishing you and your DD all the very best x

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Marie44 · 01/03/2026 21:11

@NormanandNorma thank you for sharing your perspectives - it's really helpful to hear different experiences and opinions. For me, the decision isn't about prestige but about the right environment and fit for my DD, including the opportunities and pastoral care, which is also a big factor. Equally, it's important to me that my DD would feel comfortable, grounded and accepted. Such a big decision to make.

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curious79 · 01/03/2026 20:42

We’re no longer in London and loving the pressure cooker release ;). DD’s BF from london days is at GL and probably a bit on the outside of groups. The mum puts it down to the difference in wealth but honestly this girl has always been slightly socially awkward and horribly competitive with others so I suspect that’s more the cause of things. Loves the school and all the opportunities there though. There are some things in life you can’t control- and wether your child will be happy for certain is not one of them, however having had a child in both state and independent I would plump for independent every time!