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Btwmum23 · 11/01/2026 12:31

Any parents at Thomas’s College this year can please give some feedback?
I am interested to know the type of kid, how academic it is, how is pastoral care, how much homework there is. I know it has just been a term but any first feedback is welcome. Thank you!

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Btwmum23 · 05/07/2026 10:11

To add to the above

  • they just confirmed bus routes, and I am extremely happy she will go by bus and avoid travelling through Clapham junction for the next few years. I use the train station myself twice a week and I had a few bad episodes in the evening, so it is more my fear then hers but still…
  • they sent their phone policy inviting parents not to buy a smart phone. I hope other parents will embrace and we can avoid kid whatsapp groups and social media for a few years. And hopefully will push them to organise f2f outings instead of living on line as I sadly see happening with some friends kids.
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lndmum23 · 04/07/2026 12:45

We also chose Thomas’s for our youngest. They will be entering Y7 this Sept. We liked the more modern approach to teaching/curriculum and the Head’s vision. The campus is beautiful and all the staff and students we interacted with were kind and friendly.

Our oldest is at Ibstock and has been there for 3 years (joined in Y7). He is thriving there both academically and socially. Our youngest had an offer with a scholarship to Ibstock but ultimately chose Thomas’s. He didn’t want to be in his brothers shadow and I think Thomas’s is a great fit for him.

SombodyThatYouUsedToKnow · 04/07/2026 12:13

Thank you so much @Btwmum23 that is really great to hear. I hope your daughter has a wonderful time there, it sounds lovely. We will visit in the autumn and I might come back to you for an update if we end up getting a place, if you don’t mind! Have a great summer 😊

Btwmum23 · 02/07/2026 15:26

SombodyThatYouUsedToKnow · 26/06/2026 18:07

Hi @Btwmum23 which school did you choose in the end, and why, if you don’t mind me asking?

We did choose Thomas College and she is starting there in September.
our (v personal) reasons

  • the academic approach, it is very modern, based on the latest educational principle - we both have PHDs from russel group uni and have taught tutorial at uni so we are quite sensitive on academic approach
  • the head has great reviews from previous schools. We liked his vision and his energy
  • the campus is new and feels open, green and calm, which is really what appeals my daughter
  • we felt students were happier, there is a lot of excitement for a new school
  • we spoke with a good number of teachers and they are very experienced. They came with years of experience excited and are now able to put their vision in practice to do what they think will work best. They don’t have to fit a pre established way of teaching
  • loads of stress on music and drama, which our daughter loves. The head of music comes from Eaton and he is very well known to be exceptional. Drama is also taught at very high level (ibstock also very strong)
  • they offer ballet and seen how ballet is in the prep schools we hope she can do it there instead of externally (ibstock stronger in secondary but not in primary so we hope the college will push this)
  • They said they would do buses which will be a better option for us than having our daughter travelling through Clapham junction
  • their clubs have moved at lunch time (for y 7 and 8) from after school, allowing to be back from school earlier, which we prefer as again we are not keen for her to travel late in the evening during winter months
  • The option of weekly boarding could be of interest if we are travelling (although depends on availability)

in general our daughter could feel herself more in this school than the others.

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SombodyThatYouUsedToKnow · 26/06/2026 18:07

Hi @Btwmum23 which school did you choose in the end, and why, if you don’t mind me asking?

Btwmum23 · 27/02/2026 19:11

We went to Thomas offer holder today and really really like it. It feels calmer and a bit more refreshing. The kids were also much more enthusiastic than the ones we spoke at ibstock. Honestly they seem both amazing school and it is just down to what would be best for the individual kid.

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mustwashmycurtains · 27/02/2026 16:48

Btwmum23 · 19/02/2026 20:00

This is interesting. I am hearing more and more complaints about Ibstock, the lack of leadership, the pastoral care is not great, SEN pretty poor… let’s see how the offer holder day goes next week!

I thought that too - but I looked back over threads and it really feels like multiple posts from the same two posters. They clearly fell out with the school and are unhappy. I’m not saying they don’t have grounds but seeing as everyone else I’ve read on here and in real life has overwhelmingly positive things to say, I’m keeping some perspective on those comments.

mustwashmycurtains · 27/02/2026 14:19

I’m glad to read this as we have already chosen to go with Ibstock and the other various negative posts were making me worried. But PP is right in saying that the complaints are always general and not specific. it could be some
isolated unhappy families.

i also know someone with an older child having a great experience who are sending their youngest now - about as positive a recommendation as you can get.

ps we saw loads of cakes (and I swear we only ate a small selection!) I think the second sitting of the auditorium talk only got the leftovers……..

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insightnumber9 · 25/02/2026 23:08

I have had four children go through different local independents, and can honestly say that we were favourably impressed with Ibstock compared with the others (LU, LEH and Hampton). Our Ibstock child (our youngest) was the one who seemed the happiest and best fit in their chosen school (and by nature, is not generally the easiest or most compliant of our children). They left 3 years ago so were there for the very early years of the new leadership.
Academically they were very on it, discipline was very strong, phone policy strict and accepted by the students.
And very importantly for growing teens, the food was the best of all the schools.

i don’t know why it gets such a bad press on here. I don’t know of any families who were unhappy, and many I know sent multiple children there. Certain posters seem to pop up every time Ibstock is mentioned to slate it without giving any concrete examples of why they are unhappy.

Kalista018 · 25/02/2026 22:48

Btwmum23 · 25/02/2026 22:42

We were there too!
we left with a very good impression of ibstock and this makes it for a difficult decision. I am not sure why the negative comments from some parents as they are very general…
btw we got to the refectory and there was plenty of food but people eat super fast like crazy! Tbh I was a bit taken aback by the parents and kids behaviour 🤣

I think a lot of people must have been really hungry. Judging by the number of empty trays, there had clearly been plenty of food at some point. When I asked one of the staff if more was coming out, she looked completely shell-shocked and said that every time they brought something out, a scrum of people rushed over and it was gone in seconds.

It was honestly quite shocking that there was absolutely nothing left by the time we arrived. So many very disappointed faces around 😅

Btwmum23 · 25/02/2026 22:47

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i went to the offer holder today and all the students we met looked and sounded very happy. I read other negative comments but all general. My husband was asking me what are people complaining online about and actually I could not say.. you state parents are unhappy but about what ij specific? You mention issues but which issues in specific?
it would be really useful if you could bring some example on specific aspects you are not happy about. Thanks!

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Btwmum23 · 25/02/2026 22:42

Kalista018 · 25/02/2026 22:22

I went to the offer holders’ day today and met a mum whose older son is already at Ibstock. She said they’ve been really happy there, especially with the pastoral care, and described their experience as phenomenal. They’re now sending their younger son too, which I think speaks for itself.

Honestly, every time I go to Ibstock I’m impressed by the pupils. They seem to genuinely love the school — and I don’t think that’s something you can easily fake, especially when they’ve been there a while. I keep coming away with the feeling that it’s a very creative place. The magazine they produce, The Wall, is seriously impressive — it covers quite current, high-level and even sensitive topics, and all the artwork, articles and photography are done by the students. That’s pretty amazing.

The staff and parent groups also seemed genuinely passionate. Of course, you could say the unhappy ones might not show up, but the enthusiasm felt real.

The main talk and Q&A were a bit generic though — I do wish they’d allowed more time for proper questions.

And one slightly funny (and slightly embarrassing) moment — the last question in the Q&A was about the food. They really hyped it up and then led us all to the refectory… and it was completely empty 😂 There was basically nothing left, apart from some pretty awful coffee. Quite a few parents looked unimpressed, and I even spotted some concerned faces among the senior management.

But overall, it was another positive visit and definitely left a good impression again.

We were there too!
we left with a very good impression of ibstock and this makes it for a difficult decision. I am not sure why the negative comments from some parents as they are very general…
btw we got to the refectory and there was plenty of food but people eat super fast like crazy! Tbh I was a bit taken aback by the parents and kids behaviour 🤣

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Kalista018 · 25/02/2026 22:22

I went to the offer holders’ day today and met a mum whose older son is already at Ibstock. She said they’ve been really happy there, especially with the pastoral care, and described their experience as phenomenal. They’re now sending their younger son too, which I think speaks for itself.

Honestly, every time I go to Ibstock I’m impressed by the pupils. They seem to genuinely love the school — and I don’t think that’s something you can easily fake, especially when they’ve been there a while. I keep coming away with the feeling that it’s a very creative place. The magazine they produce, The Wall, is seriously impressive — it covers quite current, high-level and even sensitive topics, and all the artwork, articles and photography are done by the students. That’s pretty amazing.

The staff and parent groups also seemed genuinely passionate. Of course, you could say the unhappy ones might not show up, but the enthusiasm felt real.

The main talk and Q&A were a bit generic though — I do wish they’d allowed more time for proper questions.

And one slightly funny (and slightly embarrassing) moment — the last question in the Q&A was about the food. They really hyped it up and then led us all to the refectory… and it was completely empty 😂 There was basically nothing left, apart from some pretty awful coffee. Quite a few parents looked unimpressed, and I even spotted some concerned faces among the senior management.

But overall, it was another positive visit and definitely left a good impression again.

OnTheFrontier · 20/02/2026 16:55

Honeybee15 · 20/02/2026 16:49

I think the best thing to do is to go to an offer holders day and see the school in action. This is what I'm planning to do and will ask a few more questions then too. I've heard through local friends with friends with children at Thomas's College that they are very impressed with the school on all levels. I think for me I have confidence in the Head and his staffing team looking at where they were previously. I also have a number of friends with children at Thomas's prep schools and they have all been super happy - given Thomas's College is run by the same family this is reassuring.
I think at the offers holder day more specifics can be questioned on academics, pastoral etc . Hope this helps and best of luck with your decision

Thanks! That’s helpful context.

I agree an offer-holders day is useful, but I’m mainly trying to work out what to look for / what to ask so it’s not just a polished presentation. If you had to pick 2–3 “litmus test” questions that helped you assess Thomas’s (e.g. behaviour boundaries, homework expectations, academic tracking/comms, staff stability), what would they be?

No worries if you don’t have specifics — just trying to be practical about due diligence.

Honeybee15 · 20/02/2026 16:49

OnTheFrontier · 20/02/2026 12:09

Hi Honeybee15 — congratulations! We’re also considering Thomas’s (newer school) and I’m trying to work out how to do proper due diligence when there isn’t a long track record yet.

Would you mind sharing what gave you confidence so early on? For example:

  • What did you ask about pastoral care & behaviour boundaries day-to-day?
  • How did you assess academic rigour (set structure, homework expectations, assessment frequency)?
  • Any insight into staff stability / leadership and how communication with parents works?
  • Did you speak to any current parents/pupils, or see any lessons in action?

Any concrete pointers on what to look for would be hugely helpful. Thank you.

I think the best thing to do is to go to an offer holders day and see the school in action. This is what I'm planning to do and will ask a few more questions then too. I've heard through local friends with friends with children at Thomas's College that they are very impressed with the school on all levels. I think for me I have confidence in the Head and his staffing team looking at where they were previously. I also have a number of friends with children at Thomas's prep schools and they have all been super happy - given Thomas's College is run by the same family this is reassuring.
I think at the offers holder day more specifics can be questioned on academics, pastoral etc . Hope this helps and best of luck with your decision

OnTheFrontier · 20/02/2026 12:09

Honeybee15 · 20/02/2026 06:21

We have an offer for our daughter for yr 9 2026. Love the campus and the vibe of the school- I think they are looking to take this year group up to 100 students for 2026. Interested to hear what the sport is like and if students train/play fixtures every weekend. Thanks

Hi Honeybee15 — congratulations! We’re also considering Thomas’s (newer school) and I’m trying to work out how to do proper due diligence when there isn’t a long track record yet.

Would you mind sharing what gave you confidence so early on? For example:

  • What did you ask about pastoral care & behaviour boundaries day-to-day?
  • How did you assess academic rigour (set structure, homework expectations, assessment frequency)?
  • Any insight into staff stability / leadership and how communication with parents works?
  • Did you speak to any current parents/pupils, or see any lessons in action?

Any concrete pointers on what to look for would be hugely helpful. Thank you.

Honeybee15 · 20/02/2026 06:21

We have an offer for our daughter for yr 9 2026. Love the campus and the vibe of the school- I think they are looking to take this year group up to 100 students for 2026. Interested to hear what the sport is like and if students train/play fixtures every weekend. Thanks

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This is interesting. I am hearing more and more complaints about Ibstock, the lack of leadership, the pastoral care is not great, SEN pretty poor… let’s see how the offer holder day goes next week!

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OnTheFrontier · 19/02/2026 10:13

Thanks. Super helpful. We’re also deciding for Y7 and trying to compare the day-to-day culture/pastoral fit as much as the facilities.

Just to sanity-check the “bigger campus / more children” point, the publicly available figures I’ve found are:
• Ibstock Place School: school size listed as 1,048 pupils (ISC).
• Thomas’s College: ISC lists 315 pupils; Ofsted shows 111 pupils currently on roll and capacity 630.
• Campus: Thomas’s College materials describe a five-acre campus; Ibstock is widely described as eight acres.

If you look at simple “pupils per acre” density (so we’re comparing like-for-like):
• Ibstock (1,048 pupils / 8 acres): ~131 pupils per acre
• Thomas’s current (111 pupils / 5 acres): ~22.2 pupils per acre
• Thomas’s at capacity (630 pupils / 5 acres): ~126 pupils per acre

So Thomas’s feels much more spacious right now, but at full roll it looks broadly similar to Ibstock on this metric. If any current parents are willing to share, I’d really value thoughts on pastoral care, behaviour boundaries, and academic pressure in the first year of Y7.

Nottoolongtogo · 19/02/2026 09:42

I don't think Thomas's campus is bigger, Ibstock has quite a few more children and they have all their sports on site which is great! Even though the Thomas's campus is brand new, it was hard for me not to be impressed with the facilities that Ibstock has.

My personal feel from Thomas's so far is that they try and encourage children to do the best they can, so if your child is academic, they will be stretched. I had concerns about this and the Head of Academics called me back and talked me through lots of things, so I would encourage you to do the same if that would help with your decision making.

Afraid I can't really answer about Drama and Ballet as my child isn't really into them - Ibstock do have a very impressive theatre and I expect it would be more established than Thomas's - especially as they have more children. There was a Year 7 panto that was fun and there are productions going on if you sign up to the various drama things, that's all I know really.

OnTheFrontier · 19/02/2026 09:32

Following — we’re also deciding for Y7 and feel very lucky to have a couple of offers. The hardest bit is judging the day-to-day culture and pastoral care from open days. Would really appreciate any parents’ insights.

Btwmum23 · 19/02/2026 08:05

Nottoolongtogo · 18/02/2026 20:53

I think the vibes are very different between the two - it’s a very difficult decision, both great schools and we were choosing between these plus more. Feel free to message me if you want.

That’s what I find really difficult to gauge. The vibes and types of kids. I went to bury open days, I can see ibstock is obviously more established, more traditional but still very strong in drama and ballet. Thomas’s campus is brand new, bigger, still a lot of drama and ballet. I feel ibstock is more academic and will push more on results and destination schools but Thomas might be the same. I read loads of negative comments about ibstock on here and pastoral care, but also loads of very happy parents. Honestly I find it hard. We also have 3 other offers but these two are the top of our list so we have already made up our mind about the others.

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