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Sixth form unnecessarily restrictive and strict

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Libre2 · 15/09/2025 17:17

DS has stayed at his comp where he got really good GCSE results (all 8s and 1 9) and had a very good friendship group.

The school was great and provided fantastic support and he got on well with staff. He has moved into the sixth form there and it seems to have gone a bit crazy. They have brought in serious rules and regulations - they have to sit in silence in free periods, with no headphones, they are not allowed to communicate with friends, they must be studying. One of DS's friends has four frees in a row and has to sit in silence for 4 hours. His parents questioned this and was told "he'll be fine".

They are giving out behaviour points for minor infringements and basically still treating them like children. DS is completely fed up with this - he has engaged brilliantly and done a lot of reading around his subjects and completed all tasks, but wants more freedom.

He is thinking of swapping schools in the city - sadly we don't have a sixth form college - he is worried about being lonely and missing friends, but doesn't really engage with them anyway as they are all maths/science and he is arts. Has anyone else encountered this or moved in the first half term?

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Libre2 · 15/09/2025 17:37

HonoriaBulstrode · 15/09/2025 17:31

....they must be studying.

Well, that's what free periods are for. How disruptive would it be for students who are trying to work if others are sitting nattering to friends?

There is a library for study, and there is a 6th form common room for socialising. Currently, they are not allowed to use the 6th form common room during free periods. How is mandating study in any way creating independent learners?

Do you really think it's reasonable to say you have to sit in silence studying for four hours?

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HonoriaBulstrode · 15/09/2025 17:31

....they must be studying.

Well, that's what free periods are for. How disruptive would it be for students who are trying to work if others are sitting nattering to friends?

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