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Should DC go on the school residential when he can't swim?

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Thoughtfulgolondrina · 01/06/2025 07:38

The Year 8 Residential is coming soon and most days water sports/swimming is the activity of the day. Due to COVID shutting pools and stopping swimming lessons for a couple years of primary and then living abroad for a couple more years of primary, my son can't swim. We have tried to get him into swimming lessons now but all in the area have unending waiting lists or won't teach older children because he is outside the age range for the national swimming programme implemented in England. The end result is my DC doesn't want to go on the residential but will miss the fun with his friends on the other parts of the trip. For my part, l am worried about his safety. While abroad, he almost drowned at a beach. I don't feel his teachers really understand 'he can't swim'. Therefore, l worry about whether the vigilance will be there. Also, my DC, rightly so, wonders what he will do instead. There are whole days of water sport (boogie-boarding, surfing) and other days of hiking to a pool to spend the afternoon swimming. What should l do?

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Meadowfinch · 01/06/2025 07:51

Is the ability to swim a prerequisite. If so, it will say so. Talk to his teacher. They will have encountered children who can't swim before. They will provide him with a suitable buoyancy aid for each activity and the activity leaders will all be aware.

My ds went to PGL before he could swim reliably and had a blast.

Puppyteeth · 01/06/2025 07:50

I’m a big fan of school trips as think children get so much out of them and all my best memories from school are such trips. However, in this situation I would question if he should go. I would ask the teachers for a timetable to see exactly what was on each day to see if it is as much water activity as you think. I would ask if any other children cannot swim and what the plan is for them. I would also ask about life vests etc. only if it really was all water based activities day after day and all other children could swim would I not let him on the trip.

MoggetsCollar · 01/06/2025 07:47

He shouldn't go to the residential, but you should book him private swimming lessons so he is safer and this doesn't happen again.

Lulu1919 · 01/06/2025 07:46

Talk to the school or the activity centre they are going to
On water sports activities I've been involved with the children have all word those big thick jackets that keep them afloat ...

Does your child want to go ?

Spies · 01/06/2025 07:44

If he can't swim then he shouldn't attend a residential where the vast majority of activities are centred around being in or near water.

That said it's not too late to find private lessons and do a crash course. Even if not in time for this residential I would be making it a priority to get him competent in the water especially given he's nearly drowned once already.

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