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11+ mocks - any miracle stories?!

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AskTony · 22/05/2025 07:49

Hi,

Feeling bad for DS at the moment. He sat his first mock 11+ at the weekend and scored around 55%. He is one of the top of his class in school and always does well with any bits of preparation we do at home and he thought he'd done ok so this came as a bit of a shock. I've not told him his score as I know he'll be upset and demotivated.

I guess I'm just wondering if anyone has any positive stories of poor mock performance but then doing well in the real thing? I've looked through his answers and a lot of them are what look like silly mistakes. There were only a handful that I thought were genuinely too hard for him or covered topics he hasn't covered in great depth yet.

I don't want a debate on grammar schools. I hate the system but I am from this area, my family are here and it's just where we live and something we're automatically part of. Almost every child at his school sits the exam and his friends are on track to do well and more than anything he wants to be at the same school as them. We do one hour with a tutor and bits at home. More tuition is not an option, either money-wise or wellbeing wise for DS!

The exam is September. Just feels like a long 3-4 months of dredging ourselves through somethign which we may already have a sign isn't going to be worth it.

Thank you :)

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Sai35 · 02/09/2025 14:25

AskTony · 01/09/2025 21:35

Yes same, trying to keep the pressure off as I don't think it will take much to ruin his confidence (and he does seem strangely confident at the moment)!

We are catchment for both Sale and Stretford, what about you? We went to look around Altrincham Boys but it definitely isn't right for him. I've got a couple of friends with kids at Stretford and they love it so I'd be pleased if he passed for that one alone to be honest!

Best of luck to your DS! 13 days to go now... 😖

We’re also in catchment for Stretford but not Sale, DS loved Stretford open day so would be ecstatic if he manages to secure a place there too! Best of luck to your DS aswell 🥰

AskTony · 01/09/2025 21:35

Sai35 · 01/09/2025 14:46

We’re in the exact same boat! My DS has also attempted some mocks with scores steadily increasing, but unsure of how the real thing will go, hopefully they pass in 2 weeks 😅 i’m trying not to put too much pressure on him but it’s all very stressful! Will be glad when it’s all over in 2 weeks time, have you got a particular school in mind?

Yes same, trying to keep the pressure off as I don't think it will take much to ruin his confidence (and he does seem strangely confident at the moment)!

We are catchment for both Sale and Stretford, what about you? We went to look around Altrincham Boys but it definitely isn't right for him. I've got a couple of friends with kids at Stretford and they love it so I'd be pleased if he passed for that one alone to be honest!

Best of luck to your DS! 13 days to go now... 😖

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Sai35 · 01/09/2025 14:46

AskTony · 01/09/2025 12:06

Hi @Sai35!

Still very uncertain of how the final thing will go but he has done 4 mocks since and his score has steadily increased each time. The next exam he does will be the real thing and if his score increases at the same rate he will probably just about pass. So I'm holding onto that for the time being 😅. At home I'm confident he knows how to do everything that might come up, it's just the putting it into practice (almost all of his mistakes in the last one were silly and he spotted them right away).

How are you getting on with it all? 2 weeks today and then it's all over. We are all so ready for that!

We’re in the exact same boat! My DS has also attempted some mocks with scores steadily increasing, but unsure of how the real thing will go, hopefully they pass in 2 weeks 😅 i’m trying not to put too much pressure on him but it’s all very stressful! Will be glad when it’s all over in 2 weeks time, have you got a particular school in mind?

AskTony · 01/09/2025 12:06

Hi @Sai35!

Still very uncertain of how the final thing will go but he has done 4 mocks since and his score has steadily increased each time. The next exam he does will be the real thing and if his score increases at the same rate he will probably just about pass. So I'm holding onto that for the time being 😅. At home I'm confident he knows how to do everything that might come up, it's just the putting it into practice (almost all of his mistakes in the last one were silly and he spotted them right away).

How are you getting on with it all? 2 weeks today and then it's all over. We are all so ready for that!

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Sai35 · 31/08/2025 10:01

AskTony · 01/06/2025 10:54

Sorry, been away. Thanks everyone for all of your encouraging responses! I do feel a lot better now and having looked over his answers with him feel confident it's the techniques he needs to work on (pretty much all areas of technique!) more than anything so your suggestions have all been really helpful. I think he struggled with grasping how much time he had too - he said he didn't find working at speed a problem but in actual fact I think he panicked and missed final steps of the multi-part maths questions etc. And despite being good at actually 'doing' maths, there is some maths terminology he isn't so hot on (one question was about 'order of symmetry' which was a phrase he was unfamiliar with - once I explained the concept it was obviously an easy question to answer). So I might make him some maths terminology 'flash cards' to practice over the next few months too!

3.5 months to go and counting them down right now!

Hi! how is your DS getting on? Any further mocks with Newell or elsewhere? We’re also in Trafford

m00rfarm · 08/07/2025 14:25

Of course he needs to know how he has done! If he can look over the test and see where the mistakes are, then he will learn, and then do better. If not, then don't let him do the test.

Pipsquiggle · 08/07/2025 14:23

Just had an underwhelming score in his mock. His tutor was very surprised. She said he didn't do any of the techniques taught in class 😔

She thinks this is a good thing and can be fixable. Just totally over this

AskTony · 01/06/2025 10:54

Sorry, been away. Thanks everyone for all of your encouraging responses! I do feel a lot better now and having looked over his answers with him feel confident it's the techniques he needs to work on (pretty much all areas of technique!) more than anything so your suggestions have all been really helpful. I think he struggled with grasping how much time he had too - he said he didn't find working at speed a problem but in actual fact I think he panicked and missed final steps of the multi-part maths questions etc. And despite being good at actually 'doing' maths, there is some maths terminology he isn't so hot on (one question was about 'order of symmetry' which was a phrase he was unfamiliar with - once I explained the concept it was obviously an easy question to answer). So I might make him some maths terminology 'flash cards' to practice over the next few months too!

3.5 months to go and counting them down right now!

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CanIGoHomeNowPlease · 29/05/2025 20:16

At this point I spoke to my DS that sitting the mock is just to get used to what the test looks like. There is a chance that they’ve not covered all the areas presented in the test.

Its the first one and I told my DS that he absolutely wouldn’t pass and its not about passing it’s about familiarity with the test and the timings.

There is still plenty of time.

Moonflowered · 29/05/2025 20:09

Dd got very low marks in maths and nvr in her earlier mock tests. Her tutor started in February which for her was far too early and we nearly pulled her out of tutoring as a result. By June she was scraping a pass. She ended up passing maths, doing better than expected in reasoning, and acing the English, and overall got a super selective mark (Kent test). We focused on making sure she was solid in enough areas. By this point she was never going to get the hardest questions right. She's just not a mathematician. We also found that a lot of the practice papers from her tutor were much harder than the Bond papers, so over the summer we focused on the Bond books. That might seem counterintuitive but it gave her the confidence she needed to stay focused rather than panicking before she'd even opened the paper. She sort of found her stride, did what she needed to do, and got to a point by mid August where she was feeling ready for the mid September test.

Poonu · 28/05/2025 22:50

Great tips thanks

steppemum · 28/05/2025 14:36

for timed practice, do 30 minutes at a time. If you have the 10 minute books, use them, but do 3 together. At this stage you need to build up that longer concentration.
Typically in maths, NVR and VR questions allow 30 seconds per question.
Some practice books allow less or more than that, but that seems to be the rule for the exam, so that gives you some idea of speed.
Tests differ, and I am not your area, but some tests have 'short' maths questions and then 'long' maths questions. The short fit into the 30 seconds pattern, the long ones don't.

steppemum · 28/05/2025 14:05

I am an 11+ tutor.
I certainly wouldn't give up now.

3-4 months is a huge amount of time to do prep.
You don't say if he is doing any prep yet, if not, then you do need to plan to do it.
Clever kids who should be in the grammar school can fail without prep because of:

  1. tricks in the questions which they are not expecting, so the question mixes cm and m for example. This is just about doing more practice, and reading the question carefully.
  2. not expecting questions to be 2 or 3 step questions especially in maths. In order to work out the answer you have to work out something else first.
  3. exam papers with mix of topics. In school you tend to focus on one maths topic at a time. Here you have to be ready to jump from one to another
  4. exam techniques - stuck? Give it your best shot and move on. Sensible guess and keep going. Use mutiple choice answers to benefit you. Not sure? read it again, underline key words, circle key numbers. Look for patterns and clues. They never tell you anything accidentally, if they say it is a regular hexagon, then that matters, both that it is regular (all sides and angles even) and that it has 6 sides
  5. correct maths terms with no explanation - product, sum, factor, prime, adjacent, all shape terms for 2D and 3D shapes etc
  6. some topics or things they don't do in school. One or two maths questions and many VR and all the NVR are new, not necessarily hard, just needs some practice.
  7. timing. Many kids are not used to working under time pressure. They have to concentrate and keep going!

So get hold of the correct practice books for your area and do loads of practice in the next 3 months. If he is regularly top of his class, and is working at greater depth in Maths and English, he should be fine.
Good Luck!

Rekka · 28/05/2025 12:48

In the next few months, there are a few things needing to be seriously tackled excluding their academic capability.

  1. Silly mistakes
  2. Mental resilience
  3. Speed

The 3rd one is the least of a problem, but need to make sure what they put down are correct. 100% correctness of 85% completion is better than 80% of 100%.

Silly mistakes would need to be managed by reading carefully and do their workings.

Mental resilience is the trickiest, particularly because it's different for each child. They can't be overly confident neither shall they be too nervous or scared.

If you manage these and with some luck, you don't need miracles as he's very capable of as you describe. He just needs to focusing on showing his true ability.

SwanHK · 27/05/2025 23:06

With a formal mock test, you should know more than just % of correct answer, how's the ranking ? The organisation should give you idea how likely your son will get into grammar school. Sometimes, the organisation just set the questions too difficult / too tricky, and it is not necessary to have 80% correct to define a pass.

ivebeenhereawhile · 27/05/2025 17:51

Please also remind your child not to leave blank answers! In Trafford, it is multiple choice with no penalty for an incorrect answer - so if they are running short of time - guess!!!! There is a 1 in 4 chance of getting it right.
Obviously preferable to consider and answer each question within the time but the NVR especially is tough and as noted above, very time constrained. The number of children leaving blank answers is frightening and you can’t return to a section once finished.
Good luck!

CeciliaMars · 27/05/2025 17:31

In Kent, most years you only need 55-60% to pass. Did you not get given a standardised score and some context? Anyway, mocks are there for your child to learn from. If it was so easy that all kids passed first time, no one would need to do mocks! Help them learn from their mistakes and move on. Good luck

Mathair · 27/05/2025 17:02

My kid failed every "formal" mock pre 11+. She passed the actual exam with points to spare. Currently doing GCSEs with expected grades of 7-9s. Never struggle in a grammar school, always good grades. Hope this gives you hope .. I could have done reading a story like this 5 years ago! Good luck

Alleojam · 27/05/2025 15:55

Thank you 🙏 🙏

yoshiblue · 27/05/2025 07:27

Urrgh, Mumsnet are stripping the You Tube links out!

Look up ‘Top Dog Tutoring 11+ Reading Comprehension’ and ‘The 11+ Tutors in Essex’ is the other channel.

yoshiblue · 27/05/2025 07:25

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yoshiblue · 27/05/2025 07:24

@Alleojam

Watch these YouTube videos for some more information. There are actually so many resources on there for 11+. I’d highly recommend Top Dog Tutoring for specific NVR topics. My son liked to watch these in the Summer holidays.

Alleojam · 27/05/2025 00:24

yoshiblue · 23/05/2025 09:21

What area are you in? Personally we didn’t do mocks that early, end of June was the first, then two beginning/end of the summer holidays. I wouldn’t worry too much for now.

Agree you need to work on speed but also stamina to concentrate for longer periods. As well as 10 min books, I got a set of practice exam papers but sliced them up to better replicate the Trafford test eg 1/2 a paper of maths (20 mins), 1 x 15 min comprehension. I’d be looking into your exam format in detail and try to replicate practice at home as much as possible.

Also look if there is a particular subject he is dropping marks. Comprehension was something I worked on in more detail, as I realised he was trying pick out answers and he personally suited reading the whole text first. He got a lot of questions wrong assuming the witch in the text was nasty! The comprehension was actually about a kind and helpful witch! That was such a useful example which led us to change approach and then raise his comprehension scores from 50% to near 90%!

Good luck, I know how stressful it is, but deep breaths!

Could you please give more details on how you helped your child with comprehension. My DD is struggling with that at the moment scoring 50%

yoshiblue · 23/05/2025 13:27

Hello from Trafford then! Having got a child with ADHD and Autism through the exam, I’ve tried every technique in the book 😭

The NVR is the hardest, I think they were bursts of 8 questions in 3 mins, which is quite frankly ridiculous! We were working more on 10 questions in 5 mins. I remember he wasn’t solidly getting to the end of all the 10 min NVR tests too.

My DS passed comfortably, and I think it’s worth remembering they don’t have to be really strong in all subjects.

Depending on your location, I’d suggest ticking for both Urmston and Stretford too. The standardised scores are a little lower.

AskTony · 23/05/2025 13:00

Thanks @yoshiblue . We are also in Trafford! That's a really good idea about slicing up the practice papers to be more like the local format (which I assume the mock he sat was set up to be like - it was Newell which I gather is pretty close to the real thing). And good point on the stamina and concentration - if I think about it it's not often at all that children of this age have to sit in silence and concentrate on one thing for 2 hours is it, so it's definitely something else for him to get used to.

He dropped most marks in maths and NVR which are usually his strong points - really silly things to get wrong too which ties in with your point on keeping concentration. Comprehension was also pretty low but that's his weakest point anyway so that wasn't as surprising. Will try some different techniques on that one too - in the mock he only had 10 minutes to read the entire text and answer 12 questions so we definitely need to work on speed and skim reading there!

I almost feel as though the exam techniques are harder to get right than the actual knowledge!

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