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St Marylebone School vs. Godolphin & Latymer – Which Would You Choose?

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MUMLOVEYAN · 25/03/2025 18:19

Hi everyone,
I’m currently deciding between St Marylebone and Godolphin & Latymer for my DD’s Year 7 entry this September, and I’d love to hear from parents who have experience with either school.
A bit of background on my DD:

  • She moved to the UK in late Year 4 and currently attends a small local state primary.
  • She’s academically bright and has been tutored since Year 5 for the 11+ exams.
  • She received multiple private school offers and just got an offer from St Marylebone off the waiting list this week.
  • She has a talent for visual arts (also received an Holland Park Art Aptitude offer, but we declined it as she prefers a single-sex school).
  • She’s not sporty or musical (doesn’t play an instrument but enjoys drama and singing).
My dilemma: I’m considering St Marylebone because it’s free, while Godolphin & Latymer comes with high fees. Based on current tuition costs, if she stays at G&L for seven years, I estimate we’ll spend at least £300k. Is G&L really worth the cost, or do you think St Marylebone is already strong enough academically and in terms of opportunities? I understand it’s hard to compare state vs. private, but I’d love to hear from those with experience. What I’d love to hear from you:
  • Is St Marylebone’s student behavior generally acceptable? I know all schools have some bullying, but I’d like to know if the school handles it well and takes quick action when needed.
  • How does St Marylebone support bright students and prepare them for top universities?
  • Would you pay £300k for G&L, given the increasing fees and potential VAT?
If you’ve had to make a similar decision (or have a daughter at either school), I’d really appreciate your insights! Which would you choose and why? Thanks in advance! 😊
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OhCrumbsWhereNow · 25/03/2025 18:25

£300k would pay for all university fees and living costs upfront (currently £70k plus) and leave over enough for a house deposit.

Personally I would go for St M's (despite the uniform) and know that you can have nice holidays, chuck some money at tutors in run up to GCSEs or Sabrina Carpenter tickets (or both).

Private is just too expensive if you have a kid who should theoretically do well in any decent school, and definitely not worth it if you have a really good state option.