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Help! How do you help Year 12s take A-levels seriously?

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EekArghEurgh · 25/03/2025 09:03

DD is 16 and in Year12 and doing three A levels. She got great GCSE results and is predicted three A* - but as her teacher pointed out this is based on her GCSE results and while she could/should be getting around that, her recent exams and class work aren't really heading in that direction.

She is bright and articulate but the transfer from Year 11 to Year 12, and the difference in the work needed seems to be proving difficult for her. At parents evening they love her but kept saying she is unfocused and were begging her to take part in the discussion more as she makes great points when she does. We have tried to suggest that the more she puts in the more she will get out of classes.

Realistically she hasn't really been putting the hours in, nor does she really understand how to do self-guided work. She has the next round of exams coming up in April/May and is now very anxious with self-study and homework and revision to do.

It's hard to work out what is excuses (or even laziness), what is simply not getting it - yet (she is really struggling with Hamlet for example), what is a cycle of anxiety, overwhelm and fear of failure and what is maturity and needing to learn how to study. The thing is she is simply not doing the things that would make a difference like reading - regular fiction for English and fiction, radio, newspapers and magazines etc for French.

We are trying to encourage consistency and staying engaged, but she has that classic teen resistence and keeps saying she "can't focus" and she claims will definately do badly. These next exam results I guess will inform her predictions for her UCAS application, so looking at even ABB requirements is making me worried. She wouldn't do the EPQ and any thing that requires "extra" is roundly rejected.

Part of me feels this will all come as she grows up, but we have also read advice that if she doesn't nail the Year 12 work, there is not time to catch up in Year 13. But also this year is about learning how to study (again).

Any tips or magic to help her understand that waiting to be motivated is not going to work? I know what successful kids do and there are many accounts on here of mums whose kids do that, but how do you get there at this stage? And yes I suspect many things have come more easily to her, so making an effort feels uncomfortable - but she also had to work hard (in the end) for her GCSEs.

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EekArghEurgh · 27/03/2025 20:09

@clary that's SO helpful thank you. I did have a brief chat about it with her and I got a very breezy and positive response - she is apparently v good at those! Worth getting clear about the mark scheme though and us just being aware to reinforce. I feel like MFL are well structured and pretty clear about exam requirements (and possible she has teachers who are very on it in French). I also know that the A-Level is hard to achive good grades in.

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clary · 27/03/2025 13:08

Sorry OP my message was a bit cryptic!

So on the reading and listening paper there are two summary questions – she has to listen to or read a text and then summarise it in her own words, including certain points that are flagged in the instructions. It’s a tricky task IMHO and one that is not in any way practised at GCSE (whereas translation is, for example) so it needs a good deal of practice. Past papers or tasks from the textbook will be useful here. One error often made is writing too much – only the first 90 words will be marked. Also candidates sometimes copy too much from the original rather than summarising in their own words.

The flag about the marks is bc the two summary tasks carry 12 marks each, total of 24, but the marks for that paper are doubled, so the two tasks are worth 48 marks (out of the 240 total). The essay on the book, meanwhile, is worth a straight 40 marks and marks for that paper are not doubled – hence summaries being really valuable markwise, and yet inevitably a good chunk of time will be spent on teaching the book (and rightly so) while there may be less focus on the summaries.

EekArghEurgh · 27/03/2025 08:51

@AllProperTeaIsTheft - I think this my issue. - the not getting that this year is important. She is still talking about "catching up", which makes me a bit anxious as she is talking about catching up from not really having made the effort previously - she hasn't missed school for any period.

@claryher grammar is getting there and it is actually one of the things she knows to work on. Helpful about the summary questions, I don't actually know what that means but I will try and gently investigate with her.

@LottieMary you tube was definitely useful in GCSEs and she was pretty discerning, I am not clear that she has put the time in to find out who is goo at A-level. And yes, eventually she did work for her GCSEs - though she has said herself she could have done more!

@MandyFriend I don't think we are micro-managing or inflicting what we want particularly. We do want her to want to fulfil her potential and not limit herself through lack of effort - to help her get to where she wants to be and happily.

My eldest was better at getting on with stuff on her own, and we were only really involved when she asked, though ironically she puts herself under too much pressure, which we were constantly trying to allay. With DD2, she very much wants to go to university and has career (and money!) ambitions, but she hasn't quite worked out that in order to do well and get to where she wants to be she needs to put in a bit more effort. She also gets very upset, so as parents we are bound to be involved to help her find solutions - or rather ways to find her ouwn solutions.

I suspect these are all issues of maturity in the end, and I know she will get there. This thread has been useful to work it through and there are loads of good insights, which I am grateful for.

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AllProperTeaIsTheft · 26/03/2025 19:32

clary · 26/03/2025 14:40

Is her grammar solid though? So many students get by and manage a fairly good grade at GCSE without really properly knowing their tenses, but that won't wash at A Level. Also, exam technique is really important. The summary questions in particular are challenging and need lots of practice.

Yy to this especially the summaries. Together they are worth more than the essay on the book but you always spend way more time on the book!

I've never really thought about it like that @clary but you're right of course!

LottieMary · 26/03/2025 18:43

Some of mine who can’t focus have done better with YouTube ‘study with me’ sessions.

hamlet is hard - she needs to understand the plot. A production (or several) or massolit subscription) in n would help

did she revise for her GCSEs? Or is she finding it hard because she doesn’t know how to independently learn?

MandyFriend · 26/03/2025 14:52

I think you need to find out exactly what your daughter actually wants as opposed to what you want for your daughter.
The old saying about leading a horse to water was never more true than when it comes to a situation such as this. Not all lessons come with an exam at the end and maybe she needs to experience failure to truly want to succeed.
I often worried about my daughters and neither did particularly well in their A levels but they both got into university, worked very hard there and are now working happily in their chosen careers, so my advice is to stop micromanaging your daughter and allow her to find her own path.

clary · 26/03/2025 14:40

Is her grammar solid though? So many students get by and manage a fairly good grade at GCSE without really properly knowing their tenses, but that won't wash at A Level. Also, exam technique is really important. The summary questions in particular are challenging and need lots of practice.

Yy to this especially the summaries. Together they are worth more than the essay on the book but you always spend way more time on the book!

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 26/03/2025 11:38

Year 12s are often like this. They struggle to actually bother doing work that doesn't have an immediate or obvious deadline and often take with a pinch of salt warnings about the fact that it's inevitably mostly their performance in Y12, not Y13 that will inform their UCAS predicted grades. Then when it's UCAS time, they come asking us to put up their grade to what they need!

I'm an MFL teacher. Yes, extra reading and listening are really great and important. Is her grammar solid though? So many students get by and manage a fairly good grade at GCSE without really properly knowing their tenses, but that won't wash at A Level. Also, exam technique is really important. The summary questions in particular are challenging and need lots of practice. She could ask for a past paper to do at home.

EekArghEurgh · 25/03/2025 21:08

So we are going to probably try and find a bit of targeted tuition - she responds so well to 1-2-1 (well who doesn't), but @EveryonesTalkingRubbish that coaching looks really interesting - just exploring their pages in now - a bit daunted by the £££ though!

We are going to work on a Hamlet specific revision plan this weekend and try and map out the other subjects too. I am praying for a brief receptive period - I may use bribery for these results too.....

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PickledElectricity · 25/03/2025 19:39

Honestly? Bribery. At this age they don't understand the implications of their actions on their future, or feel like it's too much pressure and freeze.

My parents offered me £50 for every A I got, £20 for every B and £100 if I managed an A*

I found this extremely motivational as a teenager without an income and only sporadic pocket money!

EveryonesTalkingRubbish · 25/03/2025 19:35

Have you considered a study coach or a study partner?

It’s quite a change from the structure and full timetable of GCSEs to A levels and free study time. She might want to study and do well but just can’t get herself to do it and it’s a tricky age to take advice and close support from parents. Would a few sessions with an organisation like this help? They aren’t tutors but you have a weekly session where you agree how you are going to study and then you report in the following week and see what has worked. Obviously £ but if she is anxious it may be better for her to get support from an independent adult as it’s sooooo difficult not to get emotional about revision as a parent. (At least I find that!)
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Also has she been screened for any SEN? She may be masking something and has coped so far but is now finding things too overwhelming.

There’s also an app where you book in to study for a certain length of time and you do a sort of zoom study group with other people. You don’t engage with them but you just see everyone else studying. I thought it sounded really weird but apparently some people find it really helpful to book in study time and see other people working at the same time.

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Summergarden · 25/03/2025 19:22

Hi OP. I remember studying Shakespeare plays at A level and finding the jump quite tough. It’s so difficult to decipher the old English language and get to grips with what’s actually happening.

Has DD got a study guide specifically for the play (I think you said Hamlet)? When I got a study guide specific to the play I was learning in class and read it, plus used a highlighter pen to mark out particular bits that helped it made a massive difference to my understanding of the play. I’d recommend DD takes a similar approach.

LadyNorthStar · 25/03/2025 19:05

My DS had a progress check a few weeks ago and the results weren’t great. He said he didn’t revise much but definitely would for the ones coming up in May.

He’s been playing his Xbox since about 3pm.

Of course I don’t expect him not to do other things but he’s just not putting in the effort required. If we say anything there’s lots of huffing and puffing (and still no work) and he claims he doesn’t need any of our help as he knows what to do.

It’s really frustrating when you can see them wasting this opportunity.

Zubomama · 25/03/2025 18:46

Just to say I sympathise. My DS is the same. His mocks werent good at all and yet he'd had good GCSEs. He does homework and nothing extra - and because the school doesnt mandate constant revision, reading etc it doesnt get done. He has ADHD which means he cant project in the future and only responds to urgency/extreme interest. Uni is a distant and theoretical future for him. Wants to go, but not working towards it yet. I think he will get low predicted grades, overperform, and apply to unit later (Dont think he will be ready to go at 18 TBH) I am anxious about it but I ve come to realise in most cases applying pressure doesnt help - we have to stay calm, offer help and go at their pace. Your DD may be anxious and so making her understand that there are different paths, that its not all or nothing, that many children aren't quite ready for the step change at 16 and that there will be different options at different points may help her keep things in perspective... The system just doesn't work for everyone...

EekArghEurgh · 25/03/2025 16:17

@clary thank you that is a fantastic breakdown of what's needed - reall helpful to undertstand what is actually useful and what isn't. I will try and encourage some of these.

The question remains how to get her to actually do any of it!

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clary · 25/03/2025 15:28

Some good thoughts on here @EekArghEurgh and I’ll add mine. I don’t know so much about English, but MFL I do.

MFL A level is a big jump up, even if you got a high grade at GCSE. She needs to really try to target her revision on what is needed – and yes it is essential to do the Year 12 work in year 12. A-star is a challenge for any student IMHO so best of luck to her.

People always suggest (no doubt with good intentions) watching TV in French. Yes it’s lovely to watch Funding Nemo dubbed into French and it can’t do any harm, but it will not help you speak in French about strikes in France or racism or the way family life has changed. And I think the danger is that students think “well I've watched the news in french so that's OK”.

Similarly with the vague “reading French magazines”. DD took A level French a few years ago (current spec) and when I mentioned this to her she immediately responded as I would – what she needs to do is research on specific AS topics (the ones she has done) – so probably family, technology , Francophone music, French cinema (I am assuming AQA board btw but tbh other boards do similar topics). She will need to be able to quote in her speaking exam (in about 12 months’ time) stats about one of the topics (choice of 2 on the day) so she needs to have researched them now and be noting them down and learning them – as with year 13 will come six more topics that need the same treatment.

Actually listening to French radio is not a bad idea as she may hear some music she likes that she can then research and speak about. It might even become her IRP. If she hasn’t got a plan for that yet btw it would be good to be thinking about that too.

All of this work will also help in the reading and listening exam in terms of vocab. She should also make sure she has a good grasp of the topic-specific vocab; and that her grammar is spot on, so check any frequent errors (adjective agreement, wobbly irregular verbs) and learn those.

Finally I would imagine she has completed study of the book or the film – so it’s worth making notes, flashcards, whatever of appropriate vocab to talk about it and also notes of key themes and elements which illustrate them. The level of analysis for the writing is not as high as eng A level so don’t get too stuck on that.

All of these things can be broken down into 20-minute tasks which may really help her focus. Suggest she does a couple a day, or one and then spends 20 mins learning the detail. HTH

Muchtoomuchtodo · 25/03/2025 12:50

LollyLand · 25/03/2025 10:27

The only saving grace at the moment is that school are doing a lot of revision sessions and lessons are becoming all about catching up and helping them cram as much as possible in. They must know they aren’t all doing a lot at home.

I would imagine your child’s school will be doing similar.

Our school offered lots of revision work, in lessons and extra sessions, for GCSE but there is none of that this year (AS levels here). The shift is huge.

EekArghEurgh · 25/03/2025 10:33

@LollyLand but a-levels are quite different. They are expected to get on with it themselves and if any support is offered at this stage at least, it seems to be very optional. At GCSE attendence was pretty much mandatory for he intervention and support classes.

She did actually say last night that she wished she had chosen to go to a more academically focused/school style sixth form, as I think it's hard to work in school if your peers aren't that into it and she does seem to have a slightly bright- but-winging it and very social cohort atm
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LollyLand · 25/03/2025 10:27

EekArghEurgh · 25/03/2025 10:12

@LollyLand aaaargh! So many conversations like this!

But then when she does do something extra she comes back woth how amazing and useful it was! Why can't they keep that cause and effect in their heads?!

I have to say I'm not sure the tanking in results as a lesson learned to spur them on actually works with mine - it finally happened in Feb (in some ways we had hoped it would) but there has been no material change in her efforts.

The only saving grace at the moment is that school are doing a lot of revision sessions and lessons are becoming all about catching up and helping them cram as much as possible in. They must know they aren’t all doing a lot at home.

I would imagine your child’s school will be doing similar.

EekArghEurgh · 25/03/2025 10:12

@LollyLand aaaargh! So many conversations like this!

But then when she does do something extra she comes back woth how amazing and useful it was! Why can't they keep that cause and effect in their heads?!

I have to say I'm not sure the tanking in results as a lesson learned to spur them on actually works with mine - it finally happened in Feb (in some ways we had hoped it would) but there has been no material change in her efforts.

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EekArghEurgh · 25/03/2025 10:08

their NOT there!

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EekArghEurgh · 25/03/2025 10:08

@sSssssssssssssOOO thanks for this, yes there are lots of options and lots of paths in life - I have a large immediate family and no one has really done a linear academic route (I have two brothers who are now getting their degrees and further qualifications in there 40s!).

We do the same as you - still trying to make life as easy as possible with food and support for leisure and interests as she wants/needs. I just wish she could make the connection between a bit more work focus and success in her studies (and less worry). Also we have set up counselling a few times, whcih she responds very well to.

Apologies to all that I keep saying we have tried that. i think possibly what I am seeing here is that we need to be more consistent too.

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LollyLand · 25/03/2025 10:03

I’m having a similar problem with my child over their GCSEs. They got great mocks and think this is a sign that they can relax and not revise as much as they should be.

Just this morning I encouraged her to stay back after school for one of the art groups but she said she would rather be with her friends. At that point I walked away. I’ve lost count of the amount of times she’s promised to but her work above her friends and then never does.

I said to her think about how you’ll feel on results day if you didn’t get the grades you want.

sSssssssssssssOOO · 25/03/2025 09:59

I’d suggest being very very mindful of her anxiety. Loads of kids find A levels extremely stressful and it’s normal to some extent but you want to watch out for it being a major issue. What about making sure that she knows there will be plenty of good options available to her even if her A levels don’t go to plan. She is clearly a bright girl. How about looking at a wider range of universities including some with low entry requirements. Maybe even visit some. If she ends up going to a lower ranked uni she may end up excelling and able to do a masters at a ‘better’ Uni. I’ve known kids do this.

A levels matter but sometimes you have to play the long game. As a parent to kids in their early 30’s it’s fascinating to see where all their friends have ended up in life.
My kids didn’t want and didn’t have any imput on revision from me but I put a lot of effort into making everything else in their lives easy. I gave them lifts when they wanted and cooked their favourite meals. I hated revision so they had my sympathy. Me interfering or stressing with their work wouldn’t have helped. However I had friends whose kids wanted their parents to be very involved, to the point of doing revision plans. Might your daughter want more practical help?

OxfordInkling · 25/03/2025 09:57

EekArghEurgh · 25/03/2025 09:55

These are all great suggestions and we have attempted a fair few, though I think we need to all focus on getting off screens more.

How much she will allow us to help varies greatly - so I have asked how she wants to do it and responded accordingly, helped with a time table and gathering relevant materials and resources. The only thing I haven't done is listen to French TV and radio - I will add it to my list of slightly irritating things that she will balk against!

I fear a lot of this is just teen brain development and she simply isn't there yet. I think GCSEs and A-levels come at the worst possible time for many teens.

For French - do you have Netflix? You can change the audio over. And add the French subtitles.