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Talk to me about bursaries and scholarships?

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Mybobowler · 07/02/2025 12:09

My daughter is only in Y1 but seems to be very academically able - not a genius, but she seems to love learning. Neither myself nor my husband were privately educated, we both went to very average state schools and did well.

We currently live in the catchment area for a really terrible secondary school. It's been in special measures on several occasions, has come in and out of different academy trusts and is currently rated as inadequate. I think it's unlikely that it'll undergo a transformation in the next few years (although, of course, it could happen!).

Our household income is c. £60K - likely to increase in the next five years but not by much. School fees are obviously out of the question. It's unlikely we could afford a home in the catchment for our better local state school, so I'm already looking at alternatives. How do bursaries and scholarships work for private schools? We have a number in our local area. Do they only take children are at the top end of talent and ability? What's a typical application/admission process? What's the income threshold for applying for financial support? It feels very early to be enquiring direct to schools but it'd be good to understand if this is something worth pursuing.

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Hatty999 · 08/02/2025 14:07

SheilaFentiman · 07/02/2025 13:19

Scholarships are potential/performance based and shouldn’t be linked to affordability, They are often a smallish discount (10%, say) and I don’t think many go over 30%

Bursaries are means tested and the number of them and percentage covered will vary by school. Some schools might offer more 50 % bursaries and no 100% bursaries, for example. It is likely that almost all schools will reduce bursary provision after VAT and NIC rises kick in.

I think a 60k household income would put you in the running for bursaries, given school fees (in the SE at least) are £20k+ pa for secondary.

many scholarships are now linked to bursaries too. So if you need a bursary, many schools will prioritise those who would also be scholarship level in something they want.

unmemorableusername · 08/02/2025 13:26

It's too much of a long shot.

Use what resources you have to prioritise getting into a better catchment. You have a few years.

Look at income/expenditure.
Move to a totally different area.
Move into a smaller property in catchment even for only a year or 2.
2nd jobs/ career change.

BonjourCrisette · 08/02/2025 13:24

SPGS offers bursaries not scholarships at 11+. There are no academic scholarships available for this age at St Paul's Girls' School. The bursaries are means-tested and more than half awarded are for 100% (which also means extras like money towards books, trips and music lessons). They do not take into account the value of a family home suitable for the needs of the family. I imagine places like the boys' school are similar and a household income of £60K would absolutely be likely to attract a very substantial fee remission. As someone said upthread, the richer/grander schools are the best place to look for help of this kind.

The best bet for anyone thinking of a bursary place is to contact the schools you are interested in and ask to talk to someone about finances in detail. A good school that genuinely wants to attract good applicants regardless of ability to pay will be more than happy to go through figures and give a ballpark figure of what you might be eligible for.

SwanHK · 07/02/2025 23:03

SwanHK · 07/02/2025 22:22

Some average private schools offer 50% scholarship just to attract students, otherwise, they are not competitive enough to survive even before VAT crisis. You can consider grammar schools which is not too diffcult to get in in some area.

50% scholarship for a lot of applicants

Ubertomusic · 07/02/2025 22:34

SwanHK · 07/02/2025 22:22

Some average private schools offer 50% scholarship just to attract students, otherwise, they are not competitive enough to survive even before VAT crisis. You can consider grammar schools which is not too diffcult to get in in some area.

Do you consider St Paul's Girls an average school? They even offer 100%, clearly they must be sinking...

SwanHK · 07/02/2025 22:22

Some average private schools offer 50% scholarship just to attract students, otherwise, they are not competitive enough to survive even before VAT crisis. You can consider grammar schools which is not too diffcult to get in in some area.

Ubertomusic · 07/02/2025 21:35

SheilaFentiman · 07/02/2025 20:57

@MsWintertowne OK - it really wasn’t clear to me what you meant by “basic information” - given that the thread is focused largely on £ and %.

DC's former school has a long web page detailing income thresholds (50k for a free place, 115K cut off), what they take into account and how to apply.

They're not unique in providing this info.

SheilaFentiman · 07/02/2025 20:57

@MsWintertowne OK - it really wasn’t clear to me what you meant by “basic information” - given that the thread is focused largely on £ and %.

MsWintertowne · 07/02/2025 20:00

@SheilaFentiman I didn’t mean information on exact amounts that might be awarded. I meant clear guidance on the schedule and process for applying, and what they consider when making awards.

SheilaFentiman · 07/02/2025 19:54

You might find some info on the elevenplus forum, which is parents posting (for the most part) not schools.

Mybobowler · 07/02/2025 19:52

@SheilaFentiman yes, that's exactly the sort of info I can find, but there's no guidance on specific income thresholds or other criteria (which makes sense, as you said, to give the school flexibility each year).

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MumChp · 07/02/2025 19:52

Mybobowler · 07/02/2025 19:22

@copperfrogs that's a relief to hear that we aren't living in cloud cuckoo land! It would be for 11/13+ - she's at a brilliant primary and really settled.

We don't have any hidden or enormous assets, very little equity in our house yet (we were renting until 3 years ago), no wealthy relatives or expensive habits. We're a completely ordinary family, but we really value education and, like everyone, want to give our children the best chance we can.

We're in the South West (Devon/Somerset) but a quick search of our local schools doesn't give much away in terms of bursaries - I guess I'd need to call them to discuss.

I'm glad I started this thread, it's given me a lot to chew over so thanks to everyone for replying. Fortunately, we have a few more years for us to consider options.

Devon has quite good state grammars. Any of them an option?

SheilaFentiman · 07/02/2025 19:50

www.millfieldschool.com/admissions/scholarship-bursaries

@MsWintertowne As an example, Millfield is very well established and they don’t give much away on bursary levels other than saying what they will look at and indicating the highest levels are unlikely,

This gives schools flexibility on a year by year and case by case basis.

copperfrogs · 07/02/2025 19:48

Agree with the above. Look for schools with clear bursary info on their websites. It's a good sign that not only are bursaries potentially generous, but also that the school has a positive attitude to bursary recipients. Not many schools publish clear bursary figures on their websites (which is a shame), but they should still ideally have some clear info about the process (and be happy to talk to you about it). And no, you're not living in cloud-cuckoo land, but you do need to have a suitable school (or ideally schools plural) within reach.

MsWintertowne · 07/02/2025 19:33

@Mybobowler you really shouldn’t have to call a school for basic info on bursaries. If they’re not making everything absolutely clear on their website and any accompanying prospectus they probably don’t have a well established bursary process.

You don’t want a place with one bursary a year that goes to the daughter of one of the head’s chums. You want somewhere with a sizeable proportion of the pupil body receiving some level of bursary. And the money should ideally come from endowments rather than current parents’ fees.

You also need to avoid any school that is desperate to offer you one before you’ve properly begun the application process. MN posters have fallen for this - thinking themselves very fortunate - only to have the school collapse with no notice whatsoever soon after they’ve moved their child to it. Be wary, check the financial status of any school you’re interested in.

Mybobowler · 07/02/2025 19:22

@copperfrogs that's a relief to hear that we aren't living in cloud cuckoo land! It would be for 11/13+ - she's at a brilliant primary and really settled.

We don't have any hidden or enormous assets, very little equity in our house yet (we were renting until 3 years ago), no wealthy relatives or expensive habits. We're a completely ordinary family, but we really value education and, like everyone, want to give our children the best chance we can.

We're in the South West (Devon/Somerset) but a quick search of our local schools doesn't give much away in terms of bursaries - I guess I'd need to call them to discuss.

I'm glad I started this thread, it's given me a lot to chew over so thanks to everyone for replying. Fortunately, we have a few more years for us to consider options.

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copperfrogs · 07/02/2025 18:52

Name changed for privacy. OP at the school I work at, you would likely qualify for 100% bursary unless you have lots of house equity. But that's secondary - it can be harder to find generous bursaries in prep. Agree with a PP - for a big bursary, look at the big, established schools.

MumChp · 07/02/2025 18:21

You will have to look into each school but generally burseries and scholarships are not high % and many children these days are bright and academically qualified. A lot of ordinary parents these years want better schools than state so high competition for burseies/scholarships.

Ds1 got a really quite good bursery to our local cathedral school. All the choristers received a 25% discount on tuition fees. The rest of the burseries was mean based up to 100%.
The choristers (and parents) signed up for huge commitments in the the cathedral's daily life outside school hours.
Parents were expected to ferry the choisters to extra choir rehersals, extra music classes and a lot of services during the week, holidays and Sundays.

The school expected the ordinary cathedral pupils' parents to do a second job to pay fees because of not ferrying children around extra commitments. They students not being choristers were offered 10-15% discount with a salary like yours. A few very bright children from very low income (benefits) families were offered more but never 100%.

I would move for a good school catchment if possible. I would focus on looking for a private school whose profile matches your child in a way that ensures a high subsidy but I wouldn't expect a lot considering the VAT crisis and no money around everywhere.

Xenia · 07/02/2025 17:49

(PS I was not trying to imply by the fees quotes for year 1 above to imply private schools have bursaries below age 11 (they don't)).

Xenia · 07/02/2025 17:48

It varies. My children's old school (day school outer London) is about £16,500 for year 1 (outer London), but could be less in say Yorkshire where we have relatives (year 1 £12k a year). If the parents can live on one parent's salary then minimum wage earned by the other spouse which is about £22k from April would cover school fees for example. Most schools will check spending, costs, your rent and savings as well as income.

Good luck.

RatedDoingMagic · 07/02/2025 17:43

It will depend completely on the school. One school will give 40% bursary at an income level that would only qualify you for 10% at another school.

But if your DD is only in y1 now you could start putting £10k per year into savings between now and the end of y6 and you'll have £45,000 saved up which you can then draw from over the subsequent 5 years effectively giving yourself a significant discount. You can plan to have completely depleted your savings by the end of y11 because bursaries for 6th form are a lot easier to get assuming your child manages a raft of grade 9s at gcse, or failing that there is more likely to be a good quality 6th form in the state sector as all 6th forms can be reasonably academically selective.

Ubertomusic · 07/02/2025 17:34

MsWintertowne · 07/02/2025 16:59

@calexico if he’d got into one of the boarding schools now charging £60k per year I suspect you might have received a more encouraging answer.

(I spent years on Education threads patiently explaining to parents on low to middling incomes that they needed to look to the grandest public schools for the most generous bursaries. Was often shouted down by people with zero knowledge of either the schools in question or the purpose of bursaries. You’re fortunate, @Mybobowler - it used to be the case that the first response on any thread enquiring about bursaries was Why are you looking at schools you can’t afford?)

Exactly this is happening on this thread too 😂

MsWintertowne · 07/02/2025 16:59

@calexico if he’d got into one of the boarding schools now charging £60k per year I suspect you might have received a more encouraging answer.

(I spent years on Education threads patiently explaining to parents on low to middling incomes that they needed to look to the grandest public schools for the most generous bursaries. Was often shouted down by people with zero knowledge of either the schools in question or the purpose of bursaries. You’re fortunate, @Mybobowler - it used to be the case that the first response on any thread enquiring about bursaries was Why are you looking at schools you can’t afford?)

calexico · 07/02/2025 16:40

Our income is about £60k. My son has been offered a place at an independent school but we didn't get offered any kind of bursary. They said we were way outside the cut off for what they would consider. I was hoping for at least 5 or 10%. Our savings are negligible but we do have some equity in the house.

Mybobowler · 07/02/2025 16:14

RatherBeOnVacation · 07/02/2025 15:02

@Ubertomusic I would feel pretty aggrieved if I was paying full fees and someone was receiving a bursary whilst sat in a £1m house with no mortgage, driving a Range Rover and had £500k sat in the bank.

It would be the exception rather than the norm - from someone who used to audit bursary applications.

Indeed, hard to argue with this!

We have no significant savings and very modest lifestyle (never holiday abroad, one15 year old car etc) , but I'm also conscious that we're hardly on a low income!

I'll make some enquiries at local schools but it sounds as if moving to a different catchment should be our Plan A.

Thanks everyone for your helpful replies!

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