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Blindfolds

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BePearlCritic · 25/12/2024 04:18

DD’s school have sent a letter home stating that they are going to start doing team building activities and the children will be blindfolded for most of them. It will involve things like sitting on a chair and trying to work out where the noise is coming from and having a sighted child guide a blindfolded child around the school. They are then going to Kingswood in a few months where they’re doing a blindfolded assault course.

DD told me she’s really scared (and I could see it on her face) about not being able to see as she’s never been blindfolded before but her friends are actually all quite excited about it.
The head teacher mentioned it in assembly and a lot of the children squealed ‘YESSSS’.

I think her fear comes from the fact that the school are very strict at removing girls’ nail varnish and come round most mornings doing ‘nail checks’ whilst holding a bottle of nail varnish removed and cotton wool which has made her a bit scared of them.
DD loves nail varnish but I always make sure hers is removed before school (which deflates her) so the school doesn’t take it off her themselves.
A few of her friends have been given disciplinary action for reapplying nail varnish after they’ve had it removed in school.

I think she’d be fine when she has the blindfold on but do you think there’s anything I can do to help her leading up to it?

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FannyCann · 25/12/2024 06:57

In fire training at one hospital trust I joined some time ago they had a portacabin set up like an elderly person's living room with randomly placed trip hazards like small tables and zimmer frames. They filled it with harmless smoke so there was literally zero visibility and we had to get across the room.

That is a sort of scenario you could discuss with her and let her try the task wearing a blindfold instead of smoke.

Or review Chris McCausland's strictly come dancing journey, scroll through to clips of Dianne discussing the particular difficulties he had to overcome and chat about that. Maybe she could have a friend over and they could try teaching each other some dance moves while one is wearing a blindfold instead.

scalt · 25/12/2024 06:44

How old is she? If you try blindfolding her at home, start with something that lets in some light, like a bandanna folded over only once, which she might find less scary.

Hadalifeonce · 25/12/2024 06:19

Perhaps you could try using a blindfold at home, both of you. Let her get used to understanding that everything is still the same, even if she can't see it.

Rocknrollstar · 25/12/2024 06:17

Obviously play a few games with her that involve being blindfolded so she gets used to it. Blindfold her and give her various fruits/ vegetables to identify for example.

marcopront · 25/12/2024 06:15

What is the connection between nail varnish checks and blindfolds?

Does your daughter put nail varnish on every evening and then remove it in the morning? That can't be good for her nails.

ApolloandDaphne · 25/12/2024 04:42

I have no idea how nail polish checks means she is scared of being blindfolded.

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