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Seeking advice on absence issues when taking 11+ exams/assessments

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CheekyCoralScroller · 11/12/2024 13:55

Our DC is currently going through the 11+ application process. This term, we participated in several entrance exams and scholarship assessments for independent schools. Unfortunately, some of these exams were only scheduled during weekdays, so we had to request leave from DC’s public primary school.

However, the headteacher did not approve these requests, despite we have explained the purpose. With the lack of approval, we still had to attend these exams. As a result, our DC’s absences exceeded the school’s policy limits, and we were issued a penalty. In the latest response, the school informed us that any further requests for term-time exams or interviews should not be requested, and they mentioned escalating the issue to the county’s Legal Absence Team.

This situation has caused significant stress for both our family and our child. We thought that the right to choose a secondary school was fundamental. DC has its own preference and was excited to participate in these exams to pursue its ideal school, and thought the current school would support these efforts, but instead, leaving confused and disheartened.

Adding to our concern, most interviews, second-round tests, and scholarship assessments for the schools we are applying to will take place in January and February. We are lack of ideas for next steps.

So I would greatly appreciated for advice:

  1. Any of you experienced or heard of similar situations? If so, any suggestions for handling this issue?
  2. What exactly is the county’s Legal Absence Team? We are unsure about the implications of this step and what actions we, as parents, can take.
  3. Any other advice or insights would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you all in advance for your help.

OP posts:
enoughalexa · 11/12/2024 14:42

We were always allowed to at my DCs primary school. There was a code that they could use so it was authorised. Lots of kids in our area sit independent exams whilst at State primaries.

BobbyBiscuits · 11/12/2024 14:30

It's not helpful to schedule the exams on weekdays. Neither is it helpful if the school to deny him the leave. He must have had plenty other absences previously to trigger this?
Is sickness counted also? Either way you wanted him to do the exam and he did. So there's nothing you can do now.
I don't know what the norm is now but I did 5 exams to enter private schools with 11+. All exams on weekends.
How many is your child doing?

SheilaFentiman · 11/12/2024 14:25

Did your child have other absences prior to the 11+

AlohaRose · 11/12/2024 14:21

How many days has your child missed this term? And you say you have exceeded "the school's limits" - how many days is that?

CooksDryMeasure · 11/12/2024 14:17

Interesting situation. How many schools did you apply for?

SheilaFentiman · 11/12/2024 14:14

How many schools did you apply for?!

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