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DawsonsGeek · 18/10/2024 13:21

Hi lovely MN. We’re applying for independent co-ed secondary schools and are considering Belmont / Mill Hill, St Margaret’s Bushey / Forest School. I’d love to hear recent reports from parents of these schools (and any other suggestions reachable from north London). It’s for our DD who’s doing brilliantly in a wonderful state primary and one of the top in her class but didn’t get through the 11+ for local grammar / state selective. (Fortunately she’s very chilled out and took it in her stride). And we’re in a state secondary catchment black hole (though have still applied).

We’re aware a super academic school prob wouldn’t be right for her and she really enjoys hanging out with boys so I think a co-ed would suit her better. A lovely, well rounded school is the dream. I’ve also got the fear that she may not get through the private exams either and despite being resilient she really needs a win so I’d love to know any success stories of getting in to these schools. She has a tutor and has been practising test papers etc.

Thank you for reading.

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JessyCarr · 22/10/2024 13:29

Surprised to hear about a (historic) bullying problem at St Margaret’s! Under current leadership it is a genuinely happy place, which has managed the transition to co-ed very smoothly. My DS has been there since Y5 (now Y8) and has persuaded 2 friends who are unhappy at their current schools to apply to St M for Y9 entry “because it’s such a nice school”. He’s thriving academically too, with excellent teaching and pastoral care. We couldn’t be happier with it.

Foxesandsquirrels · 22/10/2024 08:16

St Johns in Enfield? They have a very good bus network

PollyPut · 21/10/2024 22:40

Haileybury?
Also people who apply for Forest also often apply for Bancrofts and Chigwell, if not too far?

xmasdealhunter · 19/10/2024 22:45

Ah okay, I don't know where you're based but Sherradswood offer a minibus service (I think you have to email to enquire about the route if you're interested), they're based in Welwyn
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Mount House do too (Hadley Wood)
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DawsonsGeek · 19/10/2024 09:31

xmasdealhunter · 18/10/2024 22:10

My friend's dd went to St Margaret's and they had a huge bullying problem- which had extended years before she was sent there (she wasn't aware of it at the time), but she ended up pulling her dd out. Granted this was a few years ago, I think they pulled her just before it was announced they were going co-ed, so potentially this has improved things!
They moved her to Kingshott in Hitchin (towards the end of year 7), and she loved it. At the time it only offered up to year 8 or 9 I believe, but now extends right up to GCSE.
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I’m so sorry to hear about your friend’s DD and I’m glad she found a school where she thrived. It’s not doable for us in terms of transport but I really appreciate the suggestion.

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DawsonsGeek · 19/10/2024 09:29

DibbleDooDah · 19/10/2024 08:34

Aldenham, St Columba's, North Bridge House??????

Thanks so much. Aldenham looks amazing but there is no coach stop near us and so I ruled it out. I looked at North Bridge Canonbury but the trains are so unreliable here I’d be worried about her getting to school. St Columba’s is a great shout, they have a coach from our area so I’ll be checking it out!

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DibbleDooDah · 19/10/2024 08:34

Aldenham, St Columba's, North Bridge House??????

xmasdealhunter · 18/10/2024 22:10

My friend's dd went to St Margaret's and they had a huge bullying problem- which had extended years before she was sent there (she wasn't aware of it at the time), but she ended up pulling her dd out. Granted this was a few years ago, I think they pulled her just before it was announced they were going co-ed, so potentially this has improved things!
They moved her to Kingshott in Hitchin (towards the end of year 7), and she loved it. At the time it only offered up to year 8 or 9 I believe, but now extends right up to GCSE.
Headmaster's Welcome | Prep School Hertfordshire | Kingshott School

Headmaster's Welcome | Prep School Hertfordshire | Kingshott School

Headmaster Mr Mark Seymour welcomes you to Kingshott School.

https://www.kingshottschool.com/2628/welcome-from-the-headmaster