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Urgent Help - Year 9 school places for six children required asap

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2010louises · 12/10/2024 13:03

I'm posting on behalf of a friend who would prefer to remain anonymous, could any one help or offer her advice please ?
"Do any parents whose children are in Year 9 know of any local schools whose classes have room for 1 child (or up to 6 kids) ? My son is being forced to change schools at short notice , he is one of six kids in his year who are in the same situation, all the parents are now scrambling for a school that has spaces available. I have contacted my Local Authority (Bromley) and been told despite classes being full , not to worry as by law the local authority have to find him / them a place, so in the meantime we have to join the waiting lists "

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Araminta1003 · 13/10/2024 17:33

@Arran2024 - private schools are waving the notice fees for some parents who really cannot afford it - because think about it, the Government will probably want VAT on notice fees as well! So anything the school charges from January will be VATable. It is an anomalous situation so they may wave it quietly for genuine cases.

Araminta1003 · 13/10/2024 17:29

If it were my child I would go see the GP and get a note to state it is causing anxiety etc and bringing up Covid trauma and then I would try and use the Fair Access Protocol sooner rather than later on Bromley Council.

Araminta1003 · 13/10/2024 17:27

Some of the posters have been really nasty! A current Year 9 would have missed 6 months off school in Year 4 (from March 2020 to September 2020) and then another whole term in the Spring Term of Year 5. They may already have trauma from this and so do the parents.
For a Government to then inflict another quasi out of school period on a child and their parents who has already gone through this, is unconscionable.

Araminta1003 · 13/10/2024 17:23

@2010louises - if your friend is not too far from a train station into London, then suggest also that she looks at secondaries further into London that are not far from the stations en route into London. There are loads going into London and there may be more vacancies there. Please also remind your friend to keep her DS calm, he is going to be fine, she can use any extra money saved towards tutors in the future. In the mean time, if he is out of school for a few weeks early next term, it may mean she can successfully appeal for her preferred school. He should get online if that happens and work ahead in things like Sciences on Seneca or Maths on Dr Frost (free educational websites) and maybe practise his languages on DuoLinguo. Read some good books on the GCSE English syllabus etc. There is no need to panic, they are legally obliged to find him a place.

Please also remind your friend that her DS only has to go to the school allocated until end of GCSE. By Sixth Form, all the grammars open up as well again as long as he does well in his GCSEs. So the focus has to be to keep him calm and studying etc.

Arran2024 · 13/10/2024 17:19

I bet there is a lot of brinkmanship going on here.

How is this private school going to find new students in the middle of year 9? If they can't, they will be losing £27k per child per year. I suspect that a deal will be done to keep the children in school.

But also, re the parents, don't they have to give notice? Won't they be committed to next term anyway?

I know the head of a private school in sw London. She says it's the recruitment of new pupils they are worried about, not the retention of existing pupils. They are not passing on the vat. They are having a wage freeze, no capital expenditure etc.

I bet this school cracks when there is a huge exodus.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 13/10/2024 16:48

netflixfan · 13/10/2024 16:33

Am I the only one that thinks this poster wishes to start a heated debate about private education?

Self-evidently not, if you read the thread. I don't, personally. I was the first person to mention independent schools because I wondered if a school might be closing with little notice. There are going to be lots of threads like this because there are going to be families who realise it just isn't affordable any more. It remains to be seen whether they are few in number or many, but there's no doubt they will exist, and why shouldn't they ask for advice on the MN Education topic?

2010louises · 13/10/2024 16:37

Another76543 · 13/10/2024 15:59

It’s not the only council. There are no local school places for my children if we wanted to move. My MP agreed with me when I pointed this out. Our nearest one with any space is about a 40 minute car journey away (no public transport available).

I’m really sorry you in this position , Im seeing first hand my friends son go through this uncertainty , he is a kind kid, obviously he will have to adapt to whatever school he gets placed in , it’s the worry for his mum (my friend ) that when he asks what school am I going to , she can’t tell him where he is going and it’s causing him massive anxiety ..such a terrible worry for any parent whatever the circumstances . It’s taking its toll on her so much so that I’ve stepped up to try and get some concise advice .. which I have to say lots of comments have very kindly offered 💕, I’ll prob not comment further on this thread , my first question to the group was nothing to do with politics , i find it very sad a post about children’s well being has turned into a political slanging match , someone asked earlier why didn’t my friend post herself , I’m glad I have shielded her from some of the extremely judgmental comments that have absolutely no empathy for a child 😢

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netflixfan · 13/10/2024 16:33

Am I the only one that thinks this poster wishes to start a heated debate about private education?

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 13/10/2024 16:11

I voted Labour but this is a poorly thought out policy. The fact that some very wealthy schools expect to be quids in because they can now reclaim VAT on their expensive building projects is no great surprise. https://www.theguardian.com/education/2024/oct/12/eton-among-elite-private-schools-set-to-cash-in-on-windfall-from-new-vat-rules

It was obvious that these schools would claim this money back and will probably lose no, or very few, pupils because they now have to charge VAT on fees. They have the endowments to provide bursary funding for the few who would struggle. Meanwhile the smaller poorer schools who can't afford big building projects and whose pupils come from less affluent families are going to lose pupils who will go into the state sector. This means their education will cost us all money which currently their parents pay over and above their taxes.

I wonder how much money this policy will actually raise as opposed to cost.

Eton among elite private schools set to cash in on windfall from new VAT rules

VAT-registered schools will be able to claim refunds for tax paid on capital projects over past 10 years

https://www.theguardian.com/education/2024/oct/12/eton-among-elite-private-schools-set-to-cash-in-on-windfall-from-new-vat-rules

Another76543 · 13/10/2024 15:59

Phineyj · 13/10/2024 15:10

Bromley Council has relied for years on about 10% of the (admittedly) relatively affluent local population paying for private school, using grammars outside the Borough, paying for their own SEN support and "exports" a significant fraction of SEN kids...

They free ride on their neighbouring areas!

I think it is a real story.

It’s not the only council. There are no local school places for my children if we wanted to move. My MP agreed with me when I pointed this out. Our nearest one with any space is about a 40 minute car journey away (no public transport available).

Another76543 · 13/10/2024 15:47

Spinet · 13/10/2024 14:33

I was referring to your rudeness, as you know.

This thread is not seeking information about school places. It is yet another thread trying to undermine a new policy because for once it costs money to people who already have it. I do not have time for parents who use a system that benefits them because they have privileges and expect other people to sympathise when they have failed to prepare for a change that was on the horizon years ago.

I haven't been rude to any individual. Whereas you resorted to rather lazy insult to me.

This thread is not seeking information about school places

I don’t think you read the first post. It specifically mentioned asking for information about school places. The OP only admitted to them currently being at private school after other posters pressed for more information and made some assumptions.

it costs money to people who already have it.

They don’t have the money. That’s why they’re moving.

expect other people to sympathise

No one is asking for sympathy, just for advice on specific school places. As it’s a thread on secondary education, it’s not an unreasonable post.

Unfortunately this is the reality of the situation. People might not like the fact that parents will now have to use overstretched state schools but they have no choice.

Phineyj · 13/10/2024 15:10

Bromley Council has relied for years on about 10% of the (admittedly) relatively affluent local population paying for private school, using grammars outside the Borough, paying for their own SEN support and "exports" a significant fraction of SEN kids...

They free ride on their neighbouring areas!

I think it is a real story.

2010louises · 13/10/2024 15:05

Spinet · 13/10/2024 14:33

I was referring to your rudeness, as you know.

This thread is not seeking information about school places. It is yet another thread trying to undermine a new policy because for once it costs money to people who already have it. I do not have time for parents who use a system that benefits them because they have privileges and expect other people to sympathise when they have failed to prepare for a change that was on the horizon years ago.

I haven't been rude to any individual. Whereas you resorted to rather lazy insult to me.

I’m sorry but you are wrong , see my question , it was a very specific question re state schools , I made no mention whatsoever of independent school , the question only came up when someone questioned what had they done , could it be some kind of sexual assault meaning the child had been excluded so of course I had to respond 😳

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Spinet · 13/10/2024 14:56

SheilaFentiman · 13/10/2024 14:47

Sure thing, sweetie 😘

I know you are you said you were and so am I is it?

Boohoo76 · 13/10/2024 14:53

Spinet · 13/10/2024 14:33

I was referring to your rudeness, as you know.

This thread is not seeking information about school places. It is yet another thread trying to undermine a new policy because for once it costs money to people who already have it. I do not have time for parents who use a system that benefits them because they have privileges and expect other people to sympathise when they have failed to prepare for a change that was on the horizon years ago.

I haven't been rude to any individual. Whereas you resorted to rather lazy insult to me.

It’s the Labour Government who is responsible for preparing for the inevitable transfer of pupils from the private to the state school system. If you bring in a policy which is likely to result in tens of thousands of pupils moving school, you plan for it properly. We are talking about children here.

SheilaFentiman · 13/10/2024 14:47

Sure thing, sweetie 😘

Spinet · 13/10/2024 14:33

I was referring to your rudeness, as you know.

This thread is not seeking information about school places. It is yet another thread trying to undermine a new policy because for once it costs money to people who already have it. I do not have time for parents who use a system that benefits them because they have privileges and expect other people to sympathise when they have failed to prepare for a change that was on the horizon years ago.

I haven't been rude to any individual. Whereas you resorted to rather lazy insult to me.

SheilaFentiman · 13/10/2024 14:25

Spinet · 13/10/2024 14:18

How rude!

Yes, you were rude, repeatedly, about parents and children who are currently in a difficult position.

And for no reason, as this thread was about seeking information on state school places, not asking opinions on or complaining about the VAT policy.

Good for you for acknowledging your rudeness, though. Enjoy the rest of your weekend.

Spinet · 13/10/2024 14:18

SheilaFentiman · 13/10/2024 14:08

Mmm, what a delicious word salad. Thank you, Spinet, I was wondering what to have for lunch!

How rude!

SheilaFentiman · 13/10/2024 14:08

Spinet · 13/10/2024 13:44

It's this policy which is the problem or it isn't though.

As a labour voter I'm sure you are not one of those people who talk about how people ought to take individual responsibility when it comes to benefits and the NHS but the truth is that sending your kid privately is taking on personal responsibility for their education so it's up to you to make sure you can weather any storms that make it difficult. That is the point of the system. That this storm comes in the form of a tax that will be paid into the public purse should not alter that.

Mmm, what a delicious word salad. Thank you, Spinet, I was wondering what to have for lunch!

Boohoo76 · 13/10/2024 13:57

2010louises · 13/10/2024 13:51

Appreciate each to their own opinion but I have to back up my friend on this point raised.
She super sensible and of course considered affordability , she could afford the fees BUT over the past couple years the mortgage on their house has literally tripled with the enormous hikes in interest rates , they were just about riding it out until now , but now the government are adding vat to school fees , they simply don’t earn enough between them to pay extra 20% , circa £450 a month .. I don’t think many ordinary working people could find that sort of figure very easily , and by ordinary I mean nhs nurse , electrician etc .. not some whizz earning mega bucks in the city .. I couldn’t magic finding £450 extra every month , it’s a tad harsh to judge another’s circumstances , circumstances that have changed for reasons she has no control over

I’m so sorry for your friend. Some of the comments on here are disgusting. I’ve long said that Labour would have faced far less resistance to this policy if people hadn’t already become so stretched due to the cost of living crisis. Unfortunately, Labour (and some of their supporters on this thread) have their heads up their arses.

Labraradabrador · 13/10/2024 13:55

I put mine in private about 3 years ago, so acutely aware of how much has changed in that time period. over the past 3 years school fees are up more than my worst case forecast even before vat, my mortgage will be 20-30% higher when our current offer expires, the weekly food shop is about double, and every other bill has increased as well. It isn’t ‘just’ vat that makes private school suddenly unaffordable, but a sudden 20% on top of everything is the tipping point for many. Especially when your choice has to endure for the entirety of gcse years. Maybe they could swing vat this year, but are worried about the next 2, especially when school fees and other costs are likely to continue to increase?

and for everyone claiming this was a foregone conclusion that we all should have planned for, it really wasn’t. Labour have floated lots of ideas about policy (education and otherwise) that haven’t really stuck. Labour have also proposed banning private schools as well as stripping them of their charitable status - ideas that are half baked and fundamentally unworkable upon further scrutiny. VAT is probably in that category as well, but it looks like they are going to push on regardless. They still haven’t really firmed up the details and we are less than 3 months from implementation.

The fact is both the timing of the election as well as the reckless speed with which this is being rolled out have caught many by surprise. It really isn’t fair to blame these parents for poor planning when 1) so much has changed so quickly for many people’s financial context and 2) the government keep insisting that there are state school places for anyone who needs them.

Boohoo76 · 13/10/2024 13:52

clary · 13/10/2024 13:37

Well maybe these figures are average for the south east (I dd say that tbf). This is not an area of expertise for me but I would be surprised if the two private schools most local to me were so very far off the pace in terms of fees. I am in the East Mids.

I don’t think the figures are too far off the pace for your area but lots of things are more expensive in the SE, not just housing. Private schools are one of those things. We found we could save 25-30% in fees if we moved back to where I grew up.

2010louises · 13/10/2024 13:51

dollopofsauce · 13/10/2024 12:41

@Another76543 2/3 years is plenty of time to plan.
Changing schools at the end of year 9 / start of yr10 is not a great idea anyway as the students would have chosen GCSE options in yr9 so the new kids would need to slot in to whatever subjects has space.
And £450 a month / £5k for one year to keep their child In school for 1 more year shouldn't be out of reach for someone who's made a choice to send their third child to private school. If it is, the choice was not a very sensible one.

Appreciate each to their own opinion but I have to back up my friend on this point raised.
She super sensible and of course considered affordability , she could afford the fees BUT over the past couple years the mortgage on their house has literally tripled with the enormous hikes in interest rates , they were just about riding it out until now , but now the government are adding vat to school fees , they simply don’t earn enough between them to pay extra 20% , circa £450 a month .. I don’t think many ordinary working people could find that sort of figure very easily , and by ordinary I mean nhs nurse , electrician etc .. not some whizz earning mega bucks in the city .. I couldn’t magic finding £450 extra every month , it’s a tad harsh to judge another’s circumstances , circumstances that have changed for reasons she has no control over

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Spinet · 13/10/2024 13:44

SheilaFentiman · 13/10/2024 13:11

People saying that the poster should have foreseen three years ago that Labour would have got in - what? You get it isn't just the VAT, right, but other major payments?

We are just coming up on 2 years since Trussonomics, and the impact of that period (shortly after these boys started year 7) on interest rates and mortgage repayments was certainly not known in the March of year 6 (March 2022), when they would have committed to a secondary school place. July 2022 was the mass resignation from Johnson's cabinet.

(private school parent, Labour voter, support the VAT policy, do not support nonsense berating of other parents)

It's this policy which is the problem or it isn't though.

As a labour voter I'm sure you are not one of those people who talk about how people ought to take individual responsibility when it comes to benefits and the NHS but the truth is that sending your kid privately is taking on personal responsibility for their education so it's up to you to make sure you can weather any storms that make it difficult. That is the point of the system. That this storm comes in the form of a tax that will be paid into the public purse should not alter that.