Hi everyone
DS is performing poorly in private. Generally B's, C's and D's.
He has had a few A's here and there over the years.
He is undiagnosed ADHD. The wait is too long so never got him on meds which i don t believe in, as boys will be boys, he fidgets cant concentrate and is away with the fairies, plenty of herbs out there he can be on, but school needs a diagnosis to help him. Can anyone guide on this point?
Took our DD out of private to rejoin normal secondary as she hated private.
Both switched from normal primary and have been in private for about 2 /3 yrs.
Shall I persevere and keep him in? in the hope that 30k spend over next 2 yrs will translate to good GCSES or put him in local secondary with his sister and where most of his local friends are. He also has good friends in private, who live all over the place.
If all hes capable of his B's and C's he can get that in local school.
Lost again and dont know what to do, term starts in 10 days.
Will he be happier to be with his 'real' friends in local will this help him more, or lower him and drive him the other way and push to his 'naughty tendencies'?
thanks xxx