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How badly would my daughter get bullied for having a different accent?

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rosebloomed · 27/07/2024 21:19

we are moving from Canada and my daughter will be doing her final year of secondary school in Scotland. She told me her British friend told her she’ll most likely get bullied because of her Canadian accent. How true is this? Should we be worried? Would she have a hard time fitting in and making friends?

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SandyY2K · 27/07/2024 23:11

Bullying aside, this is not a good time to move schools for her. It's her final year of secondary school.

I lived in another country as child and we moved back to the UK. My sister was most impacted as she was in her final year of high school. I was next and it was so disruptive, as I was doing so well where we lived.

My younger siblings weren't affected at all. It was a totally different curriculum and education system.

I'd find a way to let your DD complete secondary school in Canada.

Otherstories2002 · 27/07/2024 23:09

rosebloomed · 27/07/2024 22:28

We aren’t sure what school to put her in yet, but we are looking for schools in Edinburgh. In Canada we only have exams and good grades to get into university, there are no highers. Will she have to do them in 6th year or be held back a year? She definitely will apply for university in the UK. My husband and I are a bit confused as to how the school system works though.

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If your moving with the view for her to go in to year 11 she will be stuffed.

LIZS · 27/07/2024 23:06

You need to check with the school. Scottish system differs but there may be gaps in her learning which make Highers tricky. Does she have any school exam certificates ?

K37529 · 27/07/2024 23:04

I moved country when I was 12 and I was bullied for my accent, pretty much everyone in the school made fun of me to the point I just stopped talking, and eventually stopped going to school.

rosebloomed · 27/07/2024 23:03

LIZS · 27/07/2024 22:53

A levels are sat in most of UK at 18, Highers are taken in Scotland, some (mainly private) offer IB, colleges and some schools offer BTEC or other level 3 awards. These are typical entry qualifications for uni in UK but there will be other routes for internationally educated students. Years 12/13 or S11/12 courses are usually taken at age 16-18 although some in Scotland move to uni at 17.

Would she be able to do her Highers in year 6, or will she definitely have to move down a year? What do students do in their 6th year if they have already completed their exams?

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Sunshine9218 · 27/07/2024 23:03

We don't hold children back a year in the UK.

saraclara · 27/07/2024 23:01

rosebloomed · 27/07/2024 22:41

She turns 18 in January. What are A-levels?

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It's a bit astonishing that you're moving to Scotland without having researched the educational system and whether the move is appropriate for your DD.

I honestly don't know how your daughter can come into the last year of a A level courses without having studied the first year. It really is terrible timing for a move. Is it work related?

ETA that I forgot to factor in the different system in Scotland. That might be even more tricky to arrive to say 18.
What do you know about it?

LIZS · 27/07/2024 22:53

A levels are sat in most of UK at 18, Highers are taken in Scotland, some (mainly private) offer IB, colleges and some schools offer BTEC or other level 3 awards. These are typical entry qualifications for uni in UK but there will be other routes for internationally educated students. Years 12/13 or S11/12 courses are usually taken at age 16-18 although some in Scotland move to uni at 17.

BatshitIsTheOnlyExplanation · 27/07/2024 22:52

rosebloomed · 27/07/2024 22:41

She turns 18 in January. What are A-levels?

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Definitely Google that and see if it works.

titchy · 27/07/2024 22:50

A levels are exams taken in England, Wales and N Ireland. In Scotland they don't do A levels so don't worry. If she's 17 she may have to drop down a year as her peers would have done exams for uni already.

Assume you know you'll be paying internal fees for uni?

stickthewellyin · 27/07/2024 22:45

Are you on Facebook? Join the group WIWIKAU (what I wish I knew about university) Lots of international and U.K. parents who give good advice about joining uk university from abroad.

rosebloomed · 27/07/2024 22:43

Lemonsallday · 27/07/2024 22:34

I don’t think she would be bullied for her accent any more than anything else.

how will she manage to do the last year of school? To be fair I don’t know much about the Scottish system as I’m in Wales but would she have missed quite a lot and find the exams hard?

She’s a very smart and driven girl, so I think (hope) she can catch up to her peers.

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rosebloomed · 27/07/2024 22:41

Prawncow · 27/07/2024 22:37

When does she turn 18? All the DC here will be half way through A-levels.

She turns 18 in January. What are A-levels?

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rosebloomed · 27/07/2024 22:40

OllyBJolly · 27/07/2024 22:30

It's quite different and probably better - my Canadian family are certainly confident, clever, rounded young adults so I wouldn't criticise Canadian education. (for example I think school curricula here should include Civics - which I think is about being a good citizen?)

It's on subjects like maths and sciences where they seem to be a year or so behind and that might be because they go to school for longer. Also French was compulsory but it was Quebecois French rather than the French taught here.

Are sciences and math mandatory there? She wants to study either linguistics or business in uni. Do you think she’d be held back a year?

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Prawncow · 27/07/2024 22:37

When does she turn 18? All the DC here will be half way through A-levels.

Lemonsallday · 27/07/2024 22:34

I don’t think she would be bullied for her accent any more than anything else.

how will she manage to do the last year of school? To be fair I don’t know much about the Scottish system as I’m in Wales but would she have missed quite a lot and find the exams hard?

differentideas6578 · 27/07/2024 22:33

Is be more worried about your daughter understanding us Scot's 😂

OllyBJolly · 27/07/2024 22:30

rosebloomed · 27/07/2024 22:07

Would it be very hard for her to catch up on the school work for her last year? How different is the curriculum from Canada?

It's quite different and probably better - my Canadian family are certainly confident, clever, rounded young adults so I wouldn't criticise Canadian education. (for example I think school curricula here should include Civics - which I think is about being a good citizen?)

It's on subjects like maths and sciences where they seem to be a year or so behind and that might be because they go to school for longer. Also French was compulsory but it was Quebecois French rather than the French taught here.

BananaLambo · 27/07/2024 22:28

She’s no more likely to get bullied for being Canadian than she is for being tall, short, fat, thin, poor, rich, having a monobrow, having the wrong shoes, liking Taylor Swift, not liking Taylor Swift, wearing makeup, not wearing makeup, being smart, being dumb…I could go on forever. The only real reason she would be bullied would be because a bully would want to bully her. Bullying is about the perpetrator, not the victim. There is no reason to worry that being Canadian would disadvantage her particularly.

rosebloomed · 27/07/2024 22:28

kaffkooks · 27/07/2024 22:14

Someone from Canada will likely be seen as fairly exotic so hopefully bullying shouldn't be an issue. 6th year in Scotland can be fairly relaxed as children will have done Highers for university entry in 5th year. Some children don't even stay for 6th year. Depending on what your daughter wants to do and her level of knowledge, she can pick a mix of highers and advanced highers. Will she be applying to university in UK? Have you already been in touch with the school she is going to? They will be able to help guide subject choices.

We aren’t sure what school to put her in yet, but we are looking for schools in Edinburgh. In Canada we only have exams and good grades to get into university, there are no highers. Will she have to do them in 6th year or be held back a year? She definitely will apply for university in the UK. My husband and I are a bit confused as to how the school system works though.

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kaffkooks · 27/07/2024 22:14

Someone from Canada will likely be seen as fairly exotic so hopefully bullying shouldn't be an issue. 6th year in Scotland can be fairly relaxed as children will have done Highers for university entry in 5th year. Some children don't even stay for 6th year. Depending on what your daughter wants to do and her level of knowledge, she can pick a mix of highers and advanced highers. Will she be applying to university in UK? Have you already been in touch with the school she is going to? They will be able to help guide subject choices.

rosebloomed · 27/07/2024 22:07

OllyBJolly · 27/07/2024 21:57

Shouldn't be an issue at all -especially in 6th year. All the neds will have left. (not that it would be an issue at any year. I remember a South African girl joined our class in 3rd year and everyone was falling over themselves to be friends with her!)

DD2 went to school in Canada and had to do loads of catching up to get to the same levels here. Moved back to Scotland for Year 5.

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Would it be very hard for her to catch up on the school work for her last year? How different is the curriculum from Canada?

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purpleme12 · 27/07/2024 21:59

But in general no there's no reason to think she'll get bullied from her accent

purpleme12 · 27/07/2024 21:58

If someone's going to be a bully, then they'll find anything to bully about.
So just depends on the people there I guess, and any bully would see her as a target

OllyBJolly · 27/07/2024 21:57

Shouldn't be an issue at all -especially in 6th year. All the neds will have left. (not that it would be an issue at any year. I remember a South African girl joined our class in 3rd year and everyone was falling over themselves to be friends with her!)

DD2 went to school in Canada and had to do loads of catching up to get to the same levels here. Moved back to Scotland for Year 5.