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How badly would my daughter get bullied for having a different accent?

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rosebloomed · 27/07/2024 21:19

we are moving from Canada and my daughter will be doing her final year of secondary school in Scotland. She told me her British friend told her she’ll most likely get bullied because of her Canadian accent. How true is this? Should we be worried? Would she have a hard time fitting in and making friends?

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whiteboardking · 29/07/2024 23:55

Nah.

KielderWater · 29/07/2024 23:54

OlympicsFanGirl · 29/07/2024 13:08

@Needanewname42

I dare you to post on scotsnet suggesting we should abandon our education system for the English one.

Go on. Dare you. 🍿

Some might well be for it given the mess the SNP has made with its ‘curriculum for excellence’ - a misnomer if ever there was one. Scotland has fallen below England in international tables (the ones we haven’t been withdrawn from when they started making the Scot Gov look bad). There have already been Scottish Parliament consultations on changing school qualifications/exams as the current Nat 5/Higher/AH system is so flawed and a feat of memory and learning target words to put in exam answers rather than knowledge of the subject. Don’t get me started on only doing 6 Nat 5s...

And then there is ASN (SEN). English parents might think EHCPs are bad. In Scotland we don’t have them and we don’t have anything in their place (CSPs don’t count). So there might be far fewer tribunal cases but that is because you can’t go to tribunal. And unlike England the local authorities cannot be fined for disability discrimination in Education.

ApolloandDaphne · 29/07/2024 16:01

I haven't read the whole thread so I don't know if anyone has said that in Scotland your DD would have left school by now if she turns 18 in January. She might need to look at access courses for uni entry.

Footballwidow24 · 29/07/2024 15:04

I went to a Scottish uni with A levels - I took (mostly) subjects I hadn't studied at school and so never found it easy. Was quite happy to have a 4th year before needing to get a job! (This was pre fees etc)

coffeeaddict83 · 29/07/2024 14:19

@clary

"Where does that leave English students at Sottish uni tho – do they have an unchallenging first year? And if a Scottish student goes to uni in England (tho why would they?) is that massively difficult?"

When I went to uni quite a lot of the English students were accepted for direct entry to 2nd year of our course. I don't know how widespread that was and if it's still the same but it was acknowledged that A level had greater depth than Higher and was sufficient to skip first year.

clary · 29/07/2024 14:03

Interesting thread.
OP is moving to Edinburgh so @rosebloomed you can ignore posts about A levels and year 12 or 13, which relate to England.

I don’t know a lot about education in Scotland, so I don’t have much to offer to help, tho I agree with those who say the plan sounds ill thought-out and not great for your DD; I was interested to read some of the posts here tho, esp (sorry cannot find the post) about the use of the first year at Scottish unis to act as a kind of foundation year. I had no idea. Where does that leave English students at Sottish uni tho – do they have an unchallenging first year? And if a Scottish student goes to uni in England (tho why would they?) is that massively difficult?

I wanted to clear up some apparent misconceptions wrt the English system for applying for schools, esp secondary. Sorry if this is derailing!

Here’s the thing; very few areas of England have state selective schools which require the 11+. Very very few DC go to private schools (fewer than 10%). So the vast vast majority of DC aged 11 go to a local non-selective state school.

Yes, there may be some who play the system a bit. Yes, people certainly move house to be within the area of a preferred school – but Scottish pps say people do that in Scotland too.

But for more of us, what happens is – we view our local schools, we put them (between 3 and 6) on a form in the order of preference, and then we are allocated one. Possibly a further away one, often our local one. My family live very near a school we liked – we put it first on the form and that’s where our DC went. Someone I know who lives near me put a popular school in a nearby village first; then a popular school in the city but with no catchment; then the same local school as us. She was offered the local school (as she expected). No drama. No drama at all.

We don’t all make a lot of noise about it on SM tho. You’ll read lots of threads on here about 11+ tutoring and private schools and how to get into xyz school. For sure – those people, the minority, want advice and have a lot to say about it. Meanwhile the quiet majority of us in England are happy with our local school and our kids go there.

Anyway - as you were.

FacingTheWall · 29/07/2024 13:29

Ds has a Canadian friend who moved to the U.K. at the same age and she finished her Canadian schooling online, would that be an option?

OlympicsFanGirl · 29/07/2024 13:08

@Needanewname42

I dare you to post on scotsnet suggesting we should abandon our education system for the English one.

Go on. Dare you. 🍿

RitaIncognita · 29/07/2024 13:03

Needanewname42 · 29/07/2024 06:02

What?

English compulsory education act was 1870
Scottish was 1873

I didn't say anything about compulsory.

MapleCreemee · 29/07/2024 07:50

rosebloomed · 27/07/2024 21:19

we are moving from Canada and my daughter will be doing her final year of secondary school in Scotland. She told me her British friend told her she’ll most likely get bullied because of her Canadian accent. How true is this? Should we be worried? Would she have a hard time fitting in and making friends?

Sorry OP I posted before coffee and my last post is wrong - if she's just turned 18 but you want to put her in second diary then she's going to be a whole year older? My son turns 18 in December and will start Y13 in England - secondary school is Y7-Y11, sixth form or college is Y12 and Y13.

Sixth form and college is really specialised study and not like a high school generic college-track curriculum so I honestly think she'd probably be better off finishing over there rather than try to catch up being a year behind whilst also navigating a new country/home/language/culture/friends/school/education system. My husband was forced by his parents to moved schools at the start of Y13 in college so he had to repeat Y12 and it absolutely broke his confidence being stuck repeating and having to study with kids a year younger than he was. And that was just from one part of England to another!

MapleCreemee · 29/07/2024 07:18

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kaffkooks · 29/07/2024 06:31

rosebloomed · 27/07/2024 22:41

She turns 18 in January. What are A-levels?

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Ignore the messages about Alevels as that is the English system so not relevant unless you are going to send your daughter to one of the private schools in Edinburgh that do Alevels.

Someone born on the same day in your daughter in Scotland will likely already have left school and be going to university in September so she is going to be one of the oldest in the school so may be teased for that. She will be able to do a combination of Highers and Advanced Highers in 6th year depending on her ability but will have to have Higher English and Maths for any university courses. She will be charged international fees until you have lived in the country for a few years.

Maybe you could look at college courses first before uni? That might be more suitable given her age? Try Edinburgh college?

Needanewname42 · 29/07/2024 06:02

RitaIncognita · 29/07/2024 02:08

And universal education for both sexes is much older in Scotland than it is in England.

What?

English compulsory education act was 1870
Scottish was 1873

beetr00 · 29/07/2024 02:18

hope this may be of use @rosebloomed

info from a Scottish uni
https://www.gla.ac.uk/international/country/canada/#:

info from an English uni
https://www.sheffield.ac.uk/international/entry-requirements/canada#

RitaIncognita · 29/07/2024 02:08

MistressIggi · 28/07/2024 21:30

Nobody decided one day to make the Scottish system different to the English. They each developed separately.

And universal education for both sexes is much older in Scotland than it is in England.

HollyKnight · 29/07/2024 01:49

Needanewname42 · 29/07/2024 01:14

Cause scotlands isn't as good as it was and slipping down the international league tables.

Why does Scotland even want it?

BTW not all England has 11+ or grammars schools

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What kind of logic is that? China ranks highest, so maybe everyone should adopt the Chinese education system.

Scotland and England are different countries. Different people. They both speak English sure, but it's not the same English. Why on earth would Scotland want to take on the English education system? I think if they were to ever get rid of their own, they would want to adopt a much better one than that.

Needanewname42 · 29/07/2024 01:14

OlympicsFanGirl · 28/07/2024 21:44

@Needanewname42

But why?
What's the logic in running a separate exam system?

Why is there no desire in England to adopt our system?

Plus you do know it's much for them just exams. We have a different school year, we start school later, the entire curriculum is different. We don't do academies or grammar schools. No school governors. There's no 11+ exams. We let our kids walk to schools, we don't have bonkers rules about school uninform. There are so many fundamental differences.

Cause scotlands isn't as good as it was and slipping down the international league tables.

Why does Scotland even want it?

BTW not all England has 11+ or grammars schools

Needanewname42 · 29/07/2024 01:11

nameynamenamenamename · 28/07/2024 21:32

Well why on earth would there be? You may as well ask why England doesn’t change to the Scottish system. Or why we don’t all change to the Dutch system.

More people in England than Scotland would be the answer to that.
How would you translate exam questions is the obvious answer as to why we wouldn't use any other languages exams.

TheRainItRaineth · 28/07/2024 22:54

MistressIggi · 28/07/2024 22:45

The local authority - the council education department

Thanks. That also happens in England but there's an extra layer that looks at the school itself and what the priorities are for that school rather than the LEA as a whole. Interesting. I wonder what differences these approaches produce.

MistressIggi · 28/07/2024 22:45

TheRainItRaineth · 28/07/2024 21:51

No school governors? That's really interesting. Who oversees the head teachers and governance of the schools? Genuine question, I am not one of those people who think you should just get with the program and adopt English education. I can see there are positives and negatives with both (I personally think all education systems probably need an overhaul, given that the world is changing so fast).

The local authority - the council education department

DrCoconut · 28/07/2024 22:17

I should have added this is only if there is really no way for her to complete school in Canada.

DrCoconut · 28/07/2024 22:13

I'm not that familiar with the Scottish system but as another poster said, college would maybe be a good bet if it's an option. There tends to be a much wider variety of ages and backgrounds in college. She could just start with the next intake regardless of age. Maybe it's not an option in Scotland though, I don't know.

kitsuneghost · 28/07/2024 21:57

We had a Canadian at our school and everyone loved her accent. It would only be an English accent that would get bullied.

TheRainItRaineth · 28/07/2024 21:51

No school governors? That's really interesting. Who oversees the head teachers and governance of the schools? Genuine question, I am not one of those people who think you should just get with the program and adopt English education. I can see there are positives and negatives with both (I personally think all education systems probably need an overhaul, given that the world is changing so fast).

OlympicsFanGirl · 28/07/2024 21:44

@Needanewname42

But why?
What's the logic in running a separate exam system?

Why is there no desire in England to adopt our system?

Plus you do know it's much for them just exams. We have a different school year, we start school later, the entire curriculum is different. We don't do academies or grammar schools. No school governors. There's no 11+ exams. We let our kids walk to schools, we don't have bonkers rules about school uninform. There are so many fundamental differences.

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