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Ridiculous uniform policy for secondary

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freakinthespreadsheets · 12/07/2024 13:07

I live in a fairly poor working class area, former mining village. I don't even have secondary age kids but this has got me riled up.
The local secondary has been taken over by a MAT and introduced a new uniform. They say that the blazer, PE kit and jumper must be logo'd from the supplier (which i think is pretty standard everywhere) but also that every item MUST be Trutex branded. Shirts, trousers and the skirt (which you can't even find a dupe for if you wanted to as it's a silly tartan design). No supermarket brands allowed. The boys trousers must be sturdy or slim fit, girls can be slim fit only (so "fuck you" to girls with thick thighs then??)
They also insist the trousers must not be skin tight fitting and the skirt must be knee length, or detentions will be issued (but they're only allowing one design/fit, from one supplier, so if it doesn't fit a taller/chunkier teen then what are parents to do?).
Not to mention the fabrics are scratchy and kids with sensitive skin (I was one, and Mum had to order my uniforms online from a place that did skinkind fabrics) who might not get on with the plasticy Teflon fabrics.
I find myself fuming on behalf of these parents and teens - as a curvy, tall female with sensitive skin this would NOT do for me at all! Not even sure what my question is, I guess am I being unreasonable in my thinking that this is OTT and doesn't follow the new government guidance (which I know isn't fully compulsory but still)

Edit to add : in a poor working class area, to set a kid up to attend the local high school looks to be around £350 for uniform - the prices are awful, £35 for a skirt etc

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Needmorelego · 05/09/2024 15:19

@Outd00rs most schools I know seem to sell uniforms via the school themselves then also at one specific shop.
I suppose that's how they get round the "no single supplier" thing.

Outd00rs · 05/09/2024 15:08

Is it illegal to have a single supplier? Don’t think it can be as all the schools in our area have to use the same on supplier in town (queues out the door at this time of year). Secondary school uniform is expensive and not suited to learning.. our primary school has great uniform - polo short, sweater and anything grey on the bottom. Kids are comfy and learn well and it’s washes a treat - I’m all for it. Cut to year seven and it’s a white shirt which gets stained and has to be ironed, plastic blazer (logo £50), tie (really even my hubby hasn’t worn a tie for twenty years), trousers or skirt (skirt with logo and only comes in waist sizes so on my tiny girl comes down to her ankles, on her tall friends it’s above the knee and they risk detention) logo jumper, logo PE t shirt and shorts, stud boots, school PE socks the list goes on and on. It costs hundreds to kit out my kids each year and it is uncomfortable and frankly my very petite daughter looks ridiculous in a blazer and tie - like she’s dressed up as a 1920s banker! Plus the ties are dangerous in DT and science. And don’t get me started on skirt lengths, shoe types, hairstyle restrictions… aaaah! It’s not getting them ready for real life at all. They even have a rule that sixth formers have to wear business wear now! What? We wore ripped jeans by that age - so oppressive!

Natsku · 22/07/2024 16:04

Oh, but they did get out free uniforms to their first batch of students when they reopened as an academy. That's quite nice at least.

Natsku · 22/07/2024 16:03

My secondary school actually had a hoodie as part of the uniform, as an alternative to the uniform jumper. Weirdly I was the only person who wore it, everyone else opted for the jumper.
Then it got taken over by an academy trust some years after I left and went down the blazer and shirt and tie route.

Needmorelego · 22/07/2024 12:46

@Parker231 exactly.
One hoodie + one decent coat can be worn anytime. School or not school.
A blazer can only be worn to school so parents would still need to buy a coat and hoodie.
Why buy 3 things when 2 does the job.

Parker231 · 22/07/2024 12:44

Needmorelego · 22/07/2024 12:28

@TizerorFizz most parents would prefer to buy a hoodie (less than a tenner from Primark) and a basic winter coat than a stupid blazer regardless of whether it's polyester or wool.

The big advantage of a hoodie is that in non uniform schools it can be worn during the school day, evenings, weekends and holidays whereas no one is going to be seen out of school in any item of school uniform.

urbanbuddha · 22/07/2024 12:31

St Paul’s, which regularly tops the lists for the best girls school in the country, is non-uniform. Doesn’t seem to affect employability. The focus is on learning.
If you have a look at their website you can see that it’s not a fashion parade.

Needmorelego · 22/07/2024 12:28

@TizerorFizz most parents would prefer to buy a hoodie (less than a tenner from Primark) and a basic winter coat than a stupid blazer regardless of whether it's polyester or wool.

TizerorFizz · 22/07/2024 12:18

I’m also not in a bubble. I just understand fashion economics and marketing.

TizerorFizz · 22/07/2024 12:17

My DDs didn’t have ties. V neck shirts and jumpers. I don’t think school is linked to work attire. 6th form yes. Y7, no. Of course they don’t need ties and blazers but I don’t think parents want to buy school uniform coats so blazers are substituted. My DDs had wool blazers so like mini coats. Most parents don’t want the expense so polyester blazers it is. I agree they are awful.

SummerDays2020 · 21/07/2024 13:53

MouseofCommons · 21/07/2024 13:49

Yanbu. Most secondary uniform isn't fit for purpose.
Smart shoes, when most offices are smart casual and we all wear fresh clean trainers. Shoes aren't fit for walking distances in either.
Blazers, barely see a suit in our business park these days. Those people stand out like a sore thumb.
Ties, nope, barely a thing anymore.

Teens need to be able to wear comfortable clothes and uniform polo shirts. Would take away the sensory issues straight away too.

This was one of the reasons I chose my DD's school as they don't wear ties or blazers. They wear open neck shirts and jumpers. DD has as a reasonable adjustment that she can wear trainers.

SummerDays2020 · 21/07/2024 13:51

TizerorFizz · 21/07/2024 13:44

All these companies are wasting their money then? I don’t think so. I think some of you live in your own bubbles of similar people. Not my world.

No one has said that, though. Everyone has consistently said that yes, many teens like brands. But not all.

I think you must be in a bubble if you think all teens are exactly the same and they all like brands.

MouseofCommons · 21/07/2024 13:49

Yanbu. Most secondary uniform isn't fit for purpose.
Smart shoes, when most offices are smart casual and we all wear fresh clean trainers. Shoes aren't fit for walking distances in either.
Blazers, barely see a suit in our business park these days. Those people stand out like a sore thumb.
Ties, nope, barely a thing anymore.

Teens need to be able to wear comfortable clothes and uniform polo shirts. Would take away the sensory issues straight away too.

TizerorFizz · 21/07/2024 13:44

All these companies are wasting their money then? I don’t think so. I think some of you live in your own bubbles of similar people. Not my world.

SummerDays2020 · 21/07/2024 00:01

My 12yo, though she loves brands and has a few bits.

SummerDays2020 · 21/07/2024 00:00

Smoothie23 · 20/07/2024 20:58

Come on, 11-year-olds understand that the discussion is about trends and not about minorities thinking otherwise.
Some research organisations earn a lot of money by researching teens' choices. I bet that mother standing next to the kid in Nike trainers says: oh, my son doesn't care.
Companies are very careful what a footballer or basketballer or Kayane West or other teen idol wears. The next day the shops are prepared to sell thousands of these

It still doesn't change the fact not all teens like brands. Yes, many do. And tend to keep those things for socialising. Some don't.

My DS like many autistic DC couldn't give a damn what the fashion is or what anyone else is wearing. He wears what he likes.

SummerDays2020 · 20/07/2024 23:57

Smoothie23 · 20/07/2024 20:37

Exactly @TizerorFizz.
All discussions with those here who claim that teens don't care for brands I see as pointless. Yeah, kids don't wear Nike and prefer Tesco's own brand of trainers- laughing stock. Simply, they don't know the data on what sells well among teens and base their opinions on their assumptions.

This is hilarious. How many times do we have to say it - we know many teens like brands, all we have said is our personal experience of non-uniform schools is they tend to leave their branded clothes for the weekend.

We have a low income, my DS's friend was from a wealthy family - I had no idea they both just wore similar jeans and hoodies.

SummerDays2020 · 20/07/2024 23:54

TizerorFizz · 20/07/2024 20:02

@SummerDays2020 Er? No they didn’t. They claimed not to know about fashion designers and said frequently dc don’t either . @Smoothie23 and me thought differently and trends would be seen without a uniform. That doesn’t mean I want expensive uniforms but at expensive schools you just cannot recognise the very rich from looking at dc. In state schools you can look at hair, shoes, nails, make up, coats etc. Non uniform would make it fairly obvious who has money.

No, they didn't. What we said was our DC who go to non-uniform schools tend to just wear jeans and hoodies to school and wear their best gear after school/weekends/holidays.

Then you and Smoothie just went on and on about how people like fashion and teens like fashion etc. No one was disagreeing with you. You were just arguing with yourselves! 😂

Natsku · 20/07/2024 21:48

Needmorelego · 20/07/2024 20:50

@TizerorFizz @Smoothie23
SOME teens care about brands.
SOME care but their parents simply can't afford it so they don't have it.
SOME buy all their clothes from charity shops and create their own look.
SOME aren't interested in clothes at all so just wear plain t-shirts and trackies from Primark.
All teens are different....that's not exactly complicated to understand.

I was the teen buying my clothes from charity shops. Loved it in 6th form and I didn't have to wear uniform any more and went to school in my charity shop hippy clothes*. I remember actually one of the 6th formers used to write a column in the local newspaper, and she wrote a column at the beginning of 6th form about the wide variety of styles worn, so it wasn't just me, many had their own style.

*not long after that ponchos came back into style but I was way ahead with my mum's crocheted poncho she made in the late 60s

Smoothie23 · 20/07/2024 20:58

Come on, 11-year-olds understand that the discussion is about trends and not about minorities thinking otherwise.
Some research organisations earn a lot of money by researching teens' choices. I bet that mother standing next to the kid in Nike trainers says: oh, my son doesn't care.
Companies are very careful what a footballer or basketballer or Kayane West or other teen idol wears. The next day the shops are prepared to sell thousands of these

Needmorelego · 20/07/2024 20:50

@TizerorFizz @Smoothie23
SOME teens care about brands.
SOME care but their parents simply can't afford it so they don't have it.
SOME buy all their clothes from charity shops and create their own look.
SOME aren't interested in clothes at all so just wear plain t-shirts and trackies from Primark.
All teens are different....that's not exactly complicated to understand.

Parker231 · 20/07/2024 20:50

Smoothie23 · 20/07/2024 20:37

Exactly @TizerorFizz.
All discussions with those here who claim that teens don't care for brands I see as pointless. Yeah, kids don't wear Nike and prefer Tesco's own brand of trainers- laughing stock. Simply, they don't know the data on what sells well among teens and base their opinions on their assumptions.

I can only base my comments on my DT’s, their classmates and cousins across several countries. They were glad to wear their shorts/tshirts or jeans/hoodie each day - as was I as it saved me a fortune.

Smoothie23 · 20/07/2024 20:37

Exactly @TizerorFizz.
All discussions with those here who claim that teens don't care for brands I see as pointless. Yeah, kids don't wear Nike and prefer Tesco's own brand of trainers- laughing stock. Simply, they don't know the data on what sells well among teens and base their opinions on their assumptions.

TizerorFizz · 20/07/2024 20:02

@SummerDays2020 Er? No they didn’t. They claimed not to know about fashion designers and said frequently dc don’t either . @Smoothie23 and me thought differently and trends would be seen without a uniform. That doesn’t mean I want expensive uniforms but at expensive schools you just cannot recognise the very rich from looking at dc. In state schools you can look at hair, shoes, nails, make up, coats etc. Non uniform would make it fairly obvious who has money.

SummerDays2020 · 20/07/2024 17:58

Needmorelego · 18/07/2024 08:35

@TizerorFizz I live in London so I see plenty of fashion retailers that are popular and have queues etc. I used to know someone that worked for a big name designer.
I know fashion is popular.
I still don't get your point.

I don't think there is a point. Other than to say people like fashion which everyone has agreed on pages ago!

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