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Mount House, Hadley Wood

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CanteringAlong · 03/01/2024 21:34

I am interested to learn more about this school. However, I was reading the website and the governors seem to be venture capitalists, i'm guessing from the company that own the school. I'm wondering what this means for the school, who goes there, how things are run. I know private schools are a business really but this is new to me and I find it hard to understand.

My children are shy and I am looking for a small school but one that is nurturing with the right staff there with strong interest in pastoral care foremost.

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ForNaiceJadeRaven1 · 13/02/2026 12:27

There is some violence and name calling. Perhaps not ‘extreme’ compared to other schools, more unresolved by the leadership and the small size of the school makes it impossible to avoid bullies

CanteringAlong · 12/02/2026 21:34

How is the bullying extreme?

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ForNaiceJadeRaven1 · 11/02/2026 01:40

It’s so small that they can’t afford to expel anyone.

CanteringAlong · 11/02/2026 00:22

This sounds awful. I thought the point of private schools was better standards of behaviour, but especially as they can expel. It’s very small and sounds like you can’t get away from people you don’t like/bully!

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XelaM · 10/02/2026 22:16

ForNaiceJadeRaven1 · 10/02/2026 18:41

The bullying is extreme and the academic standards are very low. There is a huge amount of classroom disruption. It’s not a place to send an able child with autism.

Although as I have previously stated, pastoral care at the school is pretty much non-existent, I think what you say about disruption only happens in bottom sets - at leats in my daughter's year. Top sets standards are quite high and kids are aiming for 9s. Also, high-functioning SEN kids in my daughter's year are doing very well and are mostly in top sets. The school also has some very good teachers.

It could all be entirely year group dependent though.

ForNaiceJadeRaven1 · 10/02/2026 18:41

The bullying is extreme and the academic standards are very low. There is a huge amount of classroom disruption. It’s not a place to send an able child with autism.

CanteringAlong · 10/02/2026 13:56

This is sad to read. It’s quite close to me, has academic focus and small which would suit autistic, very able children like mine. I do not want my children managed out of a school.

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ForNaiceJadeRaven1 · 10/02/2026 08:47

Sad to hear it hasn’t improved with a new head, although I always thought that place needed more than a new head

Mrss124 · 10/02/2026 04:09

The school’s limited pastoral provision, combined with a rigid and institutionalised structure, results in students’ emotional and welfare needs being overlooked, with systems and discipline taking precedence over genuine care and support.
Misuse of authority often appears not as open hostility but as quiet rigidity and in this case is reflected in a defensive leadership , unresolved bullying, poor facilities, declining academic outcomes and a focus on control over student wellbeing, contributing to a large growing number of families choosing to leave the school.

Mrss124 · 10/02/2026 04:00

Misuse of authority often appears not as open hostility, but as quiet rigidity where inflexibility, defensiveness and control replaced by listening, leaving parents feeling unheard and systems prioritised over children.
Beware there is bullying in the school it’s been going on for years !!

XelaM · 11/09/2025 09:42

CanteringAlong · 10/09/2025 20:30

Hi, I'm glad things are better. Your past experience still was awful though. I'm concerned about the lack of outdoor space- i only saw the cedar lawn and two basketball/tennis courts? Where do the kids hang out? Someone said on here it's claustrophobic and you can't get away from people if you want to which did make me think too!

I don't think it's claustrophobic as it doesn't have many pupils so it's not overcrowded. It's actually never been an issue for my daughter and there are many places to hang out at lunch. I think they have different lunchtime clubs if you don't want to be outside. They use sports fields outside the school for PE and the big lawn just outside the school (by the woods).

CanteringAlong · 10/09/2025 20:30

Hi, I'm glad things are better. Your past experience still was awful though. I'm concerned about the lack of outdoor space- i only saw the cedar lawn and two basketball/tennis courts? Where do the kids hang out? Someone said on here it's claustrophobic and you can't get away from people if you want to which did make me think too!

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XelaM · 06/09/2025 22:56

The new Head is the former Deputy Head who only took over in the summer holidays when Mrs Richardson left (I think to go abroad so no dramatic reason for leaving). It's hard to say if he will make any drastic changes, as the kids have only been back at school two days under his leadership. My daughter said he tries to be very present and involved in everything. He was a decent Deputy Head, so I think he will be fine and he's very approachable.

Things have settled down for my daughter after a crappy start to last year. She seems to enjoy school again and so far the GCSE teachers in all her subjects have been good - no major complaints to be honest, but of course it's only the start to the year 😜

CanteringAlong · 06/09/2025 21:16

Just bumping this post as I'm keen to hear how things are now?

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CanteringAlong · 28/08/2025 20:35

Hello, I hear the head teacher had changed at this school. Is it still the same problems? I must admit the lack of much outdoor space must be stifling for the students - you can't get away from people you don't want to be around.

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GreatCyanAnt · 16/12/2024 19:06

@XelaM Oh wow, so from what I’m understanding the school is very.. performative with mental health.
also, about the bullying, this isn’t the first time I’ve heard bad things about how they handle it. I’ve heard they often side with bullies and will deny witness written accounts if they believe a “bias” is there. Is there an issue with homophobia? That’s quite common in schools unfortunately 😞 and ironically often isn’t taken seriously, so schools just create an environment where it’s easy to get away with homophobia.
Also may I ask, what year is this homophobia and bullying in as my brother wants to send his son there and we don’t want to send him to a school with intense bullying, especially if it’s going to be in his year. He is what you would call a child susceptible to bullying as he has ADHD, and sometimes is a little too hyper and this could be a targeted attribute. This sounds disgraceful!! Horrible they would give the bully an award!!!! I hope your daughter gets justice, keep pushing the school to do something about it

CanteringAlong · 15/12/2024 10:43

Please keep us posted on here (or inbox) on how things develop. This is not what i'm looking for in a school, especially with hardly anywhere for the kids to go to get away from each other!

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XelaM · 14/12/2024 01:04

The funny thing is that the same so called pastoral lead has been discussing mental health with the year and particular changes in a student to watch out for that suggest that they are not doing well. My daughter was laughing because literally 100% of those signs apply to her and the very same teacher takes absolutely zero notice of any of them.

XelaM · 14/12/2024 00:37

CanteringAlong · 13/12/2024 21:19

That's awful and very frustrating. I did read another thread about mount house where someone said that it's so small you can't get away from people you don't like. As there isn't outdoor space I gathered kids would be safe inside in lunch clubs everyday? Is that not so?

I would be pursuing the school with a complaint!

I am honestly so at the end of my tether with the school's completely outrageous lack of pastoral care that I will give a list of examples of how they react to reports of bullying which are quite frankly beyond belief.

Just one recent example (same teacher who gave the bully an award for being nice 🥴 and is one of their pastoral leads) a boy reports a homophobic remark by another student. Teacher's reaction: "but aren't you gay?" 😔 Then gives a lecture on how he is busy concentrating on his own kids and that teenagers in the year should be dealing with their own problems themselves without involving him.

Same teacher always believes the accounts the group of bullies gives and claims there is no evidence to suggest otherwise, even though he is given names of students who corroborate the victim's statement, he just ignores it; says that's why he sends his own kids to a big state school because drama like this doesn't happen in big state schools apparently. He also told one of the main bullies that the reason people complain about her is because they're jealous of her 😣 When I complained to him and given examples of what that group has been doing, his response was: "what do you want me to do about it?" 🤷‍♀️ Then agrees that it's a toxic environment and that he wouldn't send his own kids there. That's good to know 🫤

A girl in the year reported to the Head one of the main bullies and what she has been saying about my daughter to absolutely everyone who would listen. The Head's reaction: "life is too short to worry about what [bully] said." Absolutely nothing ever happens to the bully (not even a talking to).

Bullies get referred to as the "cool kids" by the pastoral lead. Etc etc etc.

As many kids in the North London schools know each other from primary school and through school changes, it is now a well- known fact that it's not a nice place to be at the moment.

CanteringAlong · 13/12/2024 21:19

That's awful and very frustrating. I did read another thread about mount house where someone said that it's so small you can't get away from people you don't like. As there isn't outdoor space I gathered kids would be safe inside in lunch clubs everyday? Is that not so?

I would be pursuing the school with a complaint!

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XelaM · 13/12/2024 12:35

Mount House is very very poor in dealing with bullying. One of the girls who has been bullying my daughter has just been given an award for being the nicest girl in the year by the same teacher to whom we have been speaking about her bullying for months 😞 it's just beyond belief.

ForNaiceJadeRaven1 · 12/12/2024 22:19

You can read about the behaviour in their inspection report and you won't find last years exam results published anywhere

neverflyunited · 26/02/2024 14:41

Mcvittyr - I think one thing to look at is the added value. I think (but dont know - must check!) that Mount House has better added value than St Columbas. Look carefully also at results - eg how many people do each subject, how many do double and triple science not just the percentage results. St Columbas is bigger school so better for team sports if thats important (though at Senior school it seems to be the A team who get the attention).
cantering along - there's not much outdoor space at Mount House, (what there is is very pretty though!) - on the other hand there is Hadley common opposite. I wonder if they make use of that.

mcvittyr · 22/02/2024 15:17

Hi we have been offered a place at the Mount House and we have always loved it and my child does too, but has also been offered a place in St Columba's St. Albans which too is a good school and was selective to get into (55 spaces). The only thing its 35/45 mins bus journey away (private coach) which puts me off. The only thing I am worried about MH is the academics. My child is bright but shy (no education needs though) and not the best at sport (except is good at golf and swimming) but is really keen to be part of a team and MH is perfect for that and I know my child would be happy there... plus I have great confidence in the new head. I just worry about the academics and not achieving good GCSE grades when the time comes. Can someone offer advice from experience there?

CanteringAlong · 11/02/2024 16:39

Thank you for replying. I went to see the school and liked the Headteacher. Amy two concerns were that

  1. I saw no out door space other than the two tennis/basketball courts to the left of the big fountain. Is there no where outside the students can be at breaks?
  1. My children are higher ability and getting left alone with no help from their teachers to move them on at their primary school. I would be unhappy to pay for a school that didn't set in english until year 9 if they didn't work with my children either in a class where the majority may well be working at a lower or sen level. I can't afford to pay for that!
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