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Advice regarding informal complaint to school.

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Redwineandsunshine · 24/11/2023 16:47

At the very end of summer term my 11 year old daughter went on a school trip for 2 nights/3 days.

She came home obviously very ill, with a fever and a badly infected elbow. We had to take her straight to a&e where she was admitted for 6 days of iv antibiotics (plus then tablet antibiotics for a few days once discharged) and was given a diagnosis of cellulitis and lymphangitis. The cellulitis was very severe looking (very red with a large ‘crater’). There was even talk of her having to have surgery but fortunately the surgeon she saw decided it wasn’t necessary.

During this school trip she complained twice, to two different teachers of a painful arm, once on the first evening and once at lunchtime on the third day.

The teacher she told on the first day had a look at her arm and as there was nothing obvious there told her to put a wet towel on it. However, on the third day she asked the other teacher for a plaster for her arm as it was hurting but her arm wasn’t even looked at and she was told there was no plasters available.

I picked her up from the school trip late afternoon/evening and spoke to the first teacher (who was in charge of the trip) to say thank you. This teacher mentioned nothing to me about her problems with her arm during the trip. It was only when we got home and saw it ourselves we realised how badly infected it was.

I had been in touch initially with the teacher in change of the trip to find out exactly what happened and how she came home so ill. He was going to find out if the other teacher had looked at her arm on the third day but I never heard back from him about that particular question.

Once autumn term started I left it a couple of weeks then got in touch with the head teacher to discuss what had happened and that I hadn’t had an answer regarding whether her arm was looked at on the third day, and also to complain that I wasn’t told
anything at pick up. She said she’d find out but I didn’t hear anything.

I saw the head on an unrelated issue at the beginning of last month, and mentioned that I still hadn’t had the answers I was waiting for and that I was really unhappy, disappointed and obviously very upset by the whole thing. I was asked if I wanted to make a formal complaint which I said I didn’t, I just wanted answers and a reassurance this wouldn’t happen again.

The head told me she still hadn’t spoken to the other teacher which I don’t actually believe. She’d had weeks to speak to her at this point.

Anyway, weeks later and I’ve still heard nothing. Im not sure what to do now? I can obviously get in touch with the head again but I’ve asked these questions 3 times already.

The schools policy on informal complaints is to respond within 10 days. I’ve been waiting weeks now. Has anyone else been in a similar situation or have any advice on moving this forward. I’d still rather avoid a formal complaint as I’m not sure if it’s justified in this case. Any advice gratefully received. Thank you

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MBappse · 24/11/2023 17:19

Yes. Formal complaint.

You can word it nicely.

Not responding to you on 3 occasions should also be part of the complaint (I did not wish to escalate this, but haven't had a response to three separate queries on what happened and my daughter's care...etc etc.)

Ursulabouffet · 24/11/2023 17:19

For a child to be admitted for IV abx and for surgery to be on the table, this is incredibly serious. She could have got sepsis and lost a limb, ended up in ITU or worse. Imagine if the school trip had been slightly longer. I would put in a formal complaint.

Lavinia56 · 24/11/2023 17:18

Does she know how she hurt her arm? Asking for a plaster indicates that she cut it.

Whatever the cause, from the teacher's point of view there was no visible sign of injury on the first inspection so it's not surprising that no-one contacted you.

You do need to find out exactly what happened though, and if you're not getting satisfactory answers from school.

DahliaJ · 24/11/2023 17:17

Yes, you have tried informal. The school complaints policy will be on the website, just follow it to the next stage. It will start with class teacher, senior leaders, etc and then move on to governors.

comfyoldcardi · 24/11/2023 17:14

Did she have an injury either at school or on the trip?
One of mine had a serious injury at school but because they weren't admitted to hospital they didn't care. If a child has an injury at school and IS admitted it has to be reported to ofsted.

Lifeinlists · 24/11/2023 17:10

They have failed in their safeguarding and duty of care. Now they're hoping you'll stop talking about it and it'll all go away.

Make a formal complaint, back it up with the medical evidence and submit it to the chair of governors. You'll notice a different tone then I should think.
What happened is not acceptable.

Redwineandsunshine · 24/11/2023 17:06

Thank you. I really appreciate both responses.

I’ll think about this over the weekend and put something together to send in on Monday. I feel like I’ve been fobbed off by the school over something so serious and making a formal complaint seems so drastic but perhaps is the best way to go now.

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Redwineandsunshine · 24/11/2023 17:01

I suppose I’m not sure if it’s the right thing. What kind of answers would I get with a formal complaint that I wouldn’t with an informal one? I’ve never done either before and I guess I assumed things could be resolved informally, but yes it is serious and if I’m not getting answers then it’s probably necessary.

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NotquitewhatImeant · 24/11/2023 16:59

I’d think it definitively warrants a formal complaint. You don’t need to second guess yourself, you should be upset and they do need to have steps in place to ensure that never happens again

MidnightOnceMore · 24/11/2023 16:56

Why do you want to 'avoid' a formal complaint?

Something this serious, just send it in.

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