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GCSE "compulsory" subject. DS doesn't want to do it.

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sugarhopper · 04/10/2023 20:57

DS is in top set for French at school. School says that if you are in the top set in year 9 then you HAVE to take French as one of your GCSE choices.

Now, while DS is good at it, he doesn't like or enjoy it. Top set of any other subject aren't forced into a GCSE, only the MFL classes.
Also doing French will mean he will have to drop one of his other options (probably Design & Tech or Computing) which he really wants to do. (Also, top set for these subjects)
I know we're going to have a fight on our hands over this, but any advice will be welcome.

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JustWhatWeDontNeed · 04/10/2023 22:05

Quelle est le date de ton anniversaire.

Pamplemousse.

That's about the extent of my GCSE French in later life - and I'm quite sure I learned pamplemousse off the back of a Lancome juicy tubes lip gloss.

Dig your heels in if you can. There's no point doing a language he isn't interested in, unless he wants to bag an easy pass for himself.

clary · 04/10/2023 22:05

good advice from @MidnightOnceMore esp re keeping it low key.

Friend of mine's ds (in my DS's year) didn't take German; she told school he wouldn't do well and wanted to do business instead, which he did; I had no idea till afterwards, as I imagine they were asked not to shout about it.

TrailingLoellia · 04/10/2023 22:04

I’d just go to head of year and tell them your DS isn’t going to do a language.

TrailingLoellia · 04/10/2023 22:03

PercytheParkKeepershedgehog · 04/10/2023 21:45

Learning a language is good for computer scientists who have to learn to code.

No it’s really not. Human languages are very different from computer languages. There isn’t any overlap in aptitude or skills.

MidnightOnceMore · 04/10/2023 22:02

Have you actually discussed this with someone in a relevant leadership position?

Don't get wound up until you have had a proper conversation with someone senior about it. Don't waste time with form tutors etc - just email and ask for a phone call with the relevant senior person. Explain why it is really important that your child is able to do x subject.

One good thing to get into the conversation is that you understand that it is important your DS doesn't make a thing of this and will keep it low key so as not to undermine the general rule.

If they won't allow it, you can complain.

legominfig · 04/10/2023 22:01

Same situation but for my O levels in 1974. I really didn’t want to do a second MFL (German) I was good at sciences, maths etc but not MFLs at all.

I negotiated a place in a bottom Biology set (for those not doing German) it allowed me to do physics, chemistry additional maths and woodwork - which was my real aim.

Fortunately they saw my reasoning (and how crap/potentially disruptive I was at MFL) and let me do this.
Gave me a career - so thanks are due to them.

So look through the whole options list, see who’s teaching what, get some support from individuals and present your case. Its probably doable.

all the best

FallingAutumnLeaf · 04/10/2023 21:58

Have you got an options block yet? What is blocked against french? It might not be able to put it on the timetable, depending on the rest of his choices.

People are talking about moving schools - but what do other schools do? DS's school get probably 2/3 of the kids to do a MFL and a humanity. It might not be as simple as moving to remove the compulsory French.

StressedMumOf2Girls · 04/10/2023 21:57

If he really doesn't want to do it then talk to the school. Yes it's good to do an MFL but forcing a student to do the subject or any subject really is going to end badly for everyone involved.

And not doing an MFL GCSE will not close any doors. Again, yes it's good to do an MFL GCSE but it's not the end of the world at all if he doesn't. It's not going to hinder his prospects at all in Engineering/Computing.

Hellocatshome · 04/10/2023 21:53

My DS had this with Spanish the school wouldn't budge he was forced to do it. Its all about the Ebacc even though they will never admit it. DS went to lessons but didn't complete any homework and didn't revise for the exams as he needed to put all his efforts into passing the subjects he actually needed. Got a 2 inSpanish but got what he needed in the other subjects and secured his dream apprenticeship.

Somanycats · 04/10/2023 21:50

How determined is he to get what he wants? If he is happy to follow through you and he tell the school he will be dropping French and taking computing. When they say he can't tell them either he will be leaving on the such a date to start at more accommodating school - my boy would definitely have done this, but yours may not be so bloody minded. Or that he needs to be entered into the computing exam at current school as well and they can support him to do the project work but he'll home study the rest. A bright and determined kid can very easily get themselves to GCSE level.

Iizzyb · 04/10/2023 21:48

I studied French as part of my degree. Don't think I've used it since 1998. Only took it because it was easy & the other subject on my degree was harder....

I'd happily go stamp my feet on his behalf if I was you op x

WrongSwanson · 04/10/2023 21:46

Iloveanicegarden · 04/10/2023 21:42

What do people think D/T is? Taught properly it develops all kind of skills that are in short supply. It is not solely about cutting up wood/metal/plastics to make second rate artefacts.

Agreed. And i say that as the person who refused to study it (I was terrible at it, brilliant at everything else)

PercytheParkKeepershedgehog · 04/10/2023 21:45

Learning a language is good for computer scientists who have to learn to code.

Iloveanicegarden · 04/10/2023 21:42

What do people think D/T is? Taught properly it develops all kind of skills that are in short supply. It is not solely about cutting up wood/metal/plastics to make second rate artefacts.

Vriddle · 04/10/2023 21:40

The only thing that matters is what your ds wants to study, to take him where he wants to be. Not what the school wants for itself.

Does not having Ebacc close any doors (for unis, A level colleges, etc)? I shouldn't think so, but that would be my only hesitation. Easy enough to find out.

ItsNotRocketSalad · 04/10/2023 21:39

I'd support him 100% and fight the school on this all the way. They're not doing this because it's in his best interests.

clary · 04/10/2023 21:39

I don't think schools do get extra money based on numbers of students sitting ebacc subjects? I've never heard that.

It is a measure that schools are judged on tho - but that shouldn't worry you @sugarhopper , it's your son not the school you need to be thinking about.

Lamelie · 04/10/2023 21:38

RainbowUtensils · 04/10/2023 21:33

Which decade are you living in? Computing will be a much more useful qualification than French. I did French and German at GCSE out of choice, and a short course ICT that was compulsory which I put the bare minimum of effort into.

Guess how often I use French or German in my daily life? Yes, that's right, never.

Guess how often I use computing / data skills? Yes, that's right, every day.

And you could learn those skills in an afternoon. We all use IT.
OP if he wants to work in computing he could still do A Level Computing. Although maths, sciences and humanities would be even better.

Flaskfan · 04/10/2023 21:37

Ds will have to do Welsh as a gcse. He hates it and is pretty shit at it, despite having allegedly been taught it since he was 5. We live right on the edge of Wales and he will, in all likelihood, end up working in England like most people round here. I did 2 other languages at gcse, and continued one to A level. I dropped Welsh in yr 9.I have never needed it.

Needmorelego · 04/10/2023 21:36

I agree with @Octavia64 . Start being crap at French. That's kinda what I did - but I was actually crap at French. One decent possibly accidental test mark put me in top set - but I really was terrible.
(btw - I got Grade D 😂)

RainbowUtensils · 04/10/2023 21:33

Lamelie · 04/10/2023 21:01

What does he want to do?
GCSE French is more useful and better thought of than computing. Not doing computing won’t close any doors to him. Not doing GCSE French would.

Which decade are you living in? Computing will be a much more useful qualification than French. I did French and German at GCSE out of choice, and a short course ICT that was compulsory which I put the bare minimum of effort into.

Guess how often I use French or German in my daily life? Yes, that's right, never.

Guess how often I use computing / data skills? Yes, that's right, every day.

underneaththeash · 04/10/2023 21:31

Millybob · 04/10/2023 21:24

GCSE French won't get him to a level where he can do anything useful with it. Maybe stumble through asking directions on holiday and even then he probably won't understand the reply.
And as he doesn't like French, presumably he won't be taking A-level.
Dig your heels in.

Exactly, just say he won't be doing it.
They'ew making him do it due to this Ebac thing, so they get extra money if children do a certain range of subjects. Unfortunately, modern language teaching seems to be so awful in the UK that I would certainly do something else.

clary · 04/10/2023 21:31

GCSE French won't get him to a level where he can do anything useful with it.

People often say things like this on MN but I don't agree. Yes, if you don't use your French (even your degree!) at all for some time afterwards then you will forget. I can't recall much chemistry, having not touched it a great deal in the last 40 years, but no one says I shouldn't have studied it. Including me btw.

A student who passes French GCSE with a grade of 7 or above will be able to speak for a few minutes about subjects such as hobbies, school, the environment, holidays and their family. They will be able to write a few paragraphs on the same subjects with reasonable accuracy. Yes, speaking with a French person might be a challenge because of their speed of speaking, but they would be able to be understood and have a meaningful conversation.

(I am not saying this ability will last forever - like any skill, if not exercised, then yes, it will atrophy).

Brilliantlydone · 04/10/2023 21:29

At my school they would not bend on this. At all. You have to prepare yourself that they might not allow him to not do it. Best bet would be to move sets now.

Dotcheck · 04/10/2023 21:27

Lamelie · 04/10/2023 21:01

What does he want to do?
GCSE French is more useful and better thought of than computing. Not doing computing won’t close any doors to him. Not doing GCSE French would.

No, it won’t.

Which doors do you imagine will be closed?