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Where in London is the best place to live for grammar options (boys and girls) and good state school fall back options.

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TuttleTree · 21/09/2023 21:43

Please help! We are house hunting and torn between London and Chelmsford. Ideally, we would like to stay in London for work, travel, culture, things going on. Etc etc all the usual. However fully aware that as kids are involved we have to prioritise in the right way.

We live in East London at the moment and have great grammar options but not good state options. Feel like with Chelmsford there might be some good state back ups there? But before we do anything drastic and leave the big smoke, wondering where else in London we could go that have the option of both.

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TheYearOfSmallThings · 22/09/2023 14:17

Stokey · 22/09/2023 09:55

I thought Chingford had decent comprehensives.

I'm quite near you (E17) and have one child at a grammar school and one child at an outstanding comprehensive.

Do you mind saying which outstanding comprehensive?

My son is unlikely to trouble the selective schools Grin

BonjourCrisette · 22/09/2023 14:09

ThingsWillWorkOut · 22/09/2023 13:21

...And here I come where I wonder whether to give my son to Catholic school within 40 min distance and two buses 😆...

Two buses and 40 minutes sounds perfectly manageable to me. But then I did an hour's commute each way from 11-18. I didn't mind at all.

EggInANest · 22/09/2023 14:07

OP: super selective means selective of the top scores, irrespective of distance. So competing with the brightest kids from miles around.

Selective in a grammar area like Kent means whatever overall % go to grammar. Or otherwise within a geographical area.

EggInANest · 22/09/2023 14:04

@bopbey I know the catchments don’t overlap! I’m saying you only need to be in catchment for one decent comp, and some other additional options to try for if that is your preference.

And having had Dc In both Graveney and Dunraven I would not put Graveney streets ahead. As it happens. For a variety of reasons.

But the OP is not moving to S London , so not relevant to the thread.

bopbey · 22/09/2023 13:54

...And here I come where I wonder whether to give my son to Catholic school within 40 min distance and two buses

I did a 50 min journey as did my siblings, it was fine & quite normal for London.

bopbey · 22/09/2023 13:53

@EggInANest I completely understand what you are saying. I just don't think it's that simple, if your in the catchment for Graveney you won't be in the catchment for Dunraven. It may or may not be a good thing to attend a school with a grammar like stream & personally I would put Graveney leaps ahead of Dunraven. And if in the catchment for Graveney you wouldn't be in the catchment for Tiffin & would have a long journey to the Sutton grammars. Of course some of the Sutton grammars do give priority to particular postcodes so you could move to those if that's what you wanted. London secondary schools are quite complicated & giving yourself the most options is the best thing but not always the easiest.

TuttleTree · 22/09/2023 13:41

Stokey · 22/09/2023 13:26

@TuttleTree eldest is at Latymer - I think E4 is in catchment and if you have a girl Woodford County High. Not sure if there is an equivalent to Woodford for boys. Latymer is also a bit of a lottery as it's pretty competitive so not one you want to bank on.

You're right that E17 secondaries wouldn't generally stretch to E4, most of them have a catchment that is less than a mile, apart from the Catholic school which I assume is on religious attendance.

Yeah, I have adult friends who went to Latymer (2 got in on music excellence, 1 just went to their sixth form). I've heard a lot about it but its no doubt changed a lot in the last 25 years or so... How does your eldest find it? Woodford may be option for my DD, the boys equivalent for Woodford is Ilford County. Not sure how much they are "super selective" though. Although the "super selctiveness" of the schools doesnt bother me too much as I went to Oxford so feel like anything is possible! Feel like maybe if we shot for latymer we would also shoot for Ilford county? Bit worried about too much testing and exam prep for different boards but havent looked into all of that too much. Also from what I'm reading here, it seems that all the london grammars are more competitive than the out of london grammars... leads me to believe that maybe we shoot for the essex ones 🤔

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EggInANest · 22/09/2023 13:28

bopbey · 22/09/2023 10:09

Yes, but I am saying the OP could live close (extremely close) to a good comprehensive and get in rather than be reliant in the stress of the 11+. Charter and Dunraven also have tight admission areas. But if you live close you will get your place.

Most people want their dc to be in the upper streams of Graveney though & that's stress & the catchment is much smaller than Dunraven with even more expensive house prices.

If you live in catchment for Graveney and get a catchment place your child will still be in the extension classes if their scores / results are high enough. Just like being out in top sets in Dunraven / Charter / Kingsdale etc.

You could move into catchment
of any of these schools (except Kingsdale, lottery) and know you had a good comp option, and also and try for Sutton grammars, Graveney selective places, Kingsdale Lottery / scholarship place, Chestnut Grove, Grey Coats, scholarship place etc.

The principle I am advocating is prioritise good comprehensive, with selective (or other) opportunities to try for within reach.

But personally I wouldn’t bother with grammar if I had a good comprehensive on my doorstep.

Stokey · 22/09/2023 13:26

@TuttleTree eldest is at Latymer - I think E4 is in catchment and if you have a girl Woodford County High. Not sure if there is an equivalent to Woodford for boys. Latymer is also a bit of a lottery as it's pretty competitive so not one you want to bank on.

You're right that E17 secondaries wouldn't generally stretch to E4, most of them have a catchment that is less than a mile, apart from the Catholic school which I assume is on religious attendance.

ThingsWillWorkOut · 22/09/2023 13:21

BonjourCrisette · 22/09/2023 12:14

I am not sure, sorry. Just checked journey times for Monday morning at rush hour from Ealing Fields to arrive by 8.30am though and the 65 bus seems to take just over an hour, while car is apparently 25-50 minutes. It's 7 miles according to Google Maps.

This is a long commute by public transport but many children in London do similar commutes and manage OK.

...And here I come where I wonder whether to give my son to Catholic school within 40 min distance and two buses 😆...

Searchingforthelight · 22/09/2023 13:17

Grammar schools are state schools

TuttleTree · 22/09/2023 13:12

Promwasgreat · 22/09/2023 12:23

Highams Park maybe? Used to be good and in area for Woodford. Not sure if it still is though.

@Promwasgreat Slightly out of area for us in chingford....

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Promwasgreat · 22/09/2023 12:23

Highams Park maybe? Used to be good and in area for Woodford. Not sure if it still is though.

Araminta1003 · 22/09/2023 12:23

And what is wrong with Mossbourne Academy if you want a pushy school?

Most grammars in and around London are single sex. Bexley grammars are super selective if you are not in distance (top 180 can pick any of the schools). Tonbridge still has a few superselective places. Tiffin, Barney, Bromley all superselective.

If you want co-Ed and a London vibe choose a strong comprehensive with a grammar stream.

BonjourCrisette · 22/09/2023 12:14

bopbey · 22/09/2023 10:27

What? W5 (same postcode as Ealing Fields) is part of the designated area for Tiffin Girls' and about 5 or 6 miles away.

Is that the same for the boys?

I am not sure, sorry. Just checked journey times for Monday morning at rush hour from Ealing Fields to arrive by 8.30am though and the 65 bus seems to take just over an hour, while car is apparently 25-50 minutes. It's 7 miles according to Google Maps.

This is a long commute by public transport but many children in London do similar commutes and manage OK.

Quartz2208 · 22/09/2023 12:09

Does in Sutton/Epsom. Cheam High is outstanding and the rest are good. Plenty of options. One of mine is at grammar abd the other (who has some EBSA) will be going to epsom abd ewell whose mental health facilities are amazing.

TuttleTree · 22/09/2023 12:05

@wannabesilverfox yeah. Could do E17 but that would take out out of Redbridge grammars. Such a tricky decision... we might have a shot at E17 comps given we are in Chingford but I don't know many people who do. That's not to say it doesn't happen but maybe I'm not in the right networks! Seems that Most kids go to the comps locally to here. I expect the E17 schools re oversubscribed so would get in from up here...

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TuttleTree · 22/09/2023 12:00

@Stokey which grammar? Overall, E17 is better than E4 for secondary comps. There is still time for things to change a bit (my kids are in year 1 and Nursery) I'm only thinking about it now because we are house hunting and I would like to make this move the forever move if possible.

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wannabesilverfox · 22/09/2023 11:19

Move to E17. Same grammars but more choice of state school.

trader21c · 22/09/2023 10:58

Absolutely far too far

HotSauceNow · 22/09/2023 10:43

I don’t know Chingford too well but do know other local schools. Depends where you are I suppose but Trinity is not far away, is well regarded and often a first choice for Catholics. Woodbridge is highly thought of if you’re close enough. Highland park has a good ofsted but I don’t know too much about it. You may be in catchment for both Redbridge grammars and Latymer. Bancrofts is obviously private but pretty close. So I would be cautious in assuming the grass is necessarily greener elsewhere.

bopbey · 22/09/2023 10:27

What? W5 (same postcode as Ealing Fields) is part of the designated area for Tiffin Girls' and about 5 or 6 miles away.

Is that the same for the boys?

ThingsWillWorkOut · 22/09/2023 10:22

BonjourCrisette · 22/09/2023 09:53

What? W5 (same postcode as Ealing Fields) is part of the designated area for Tiffin Girls' and about 5 or 6 miles away.

Just checked 8-10 miles via car in heavy traffic. It is 1 hour in an ideal situation without traffic. Commuting in public transport could be much longer. Insanity

bopbey · 22/09/2023 10:09

Yes, but I am saying the OP could live close (extremely close) to a good comprehensive and get in rather than be reliant in the stress of the 11+. Charter and Dunraven also have tight admission areas. But if you live close you will get your place.

Most people want their dc to be in the upper streams of Graveney though & that's stress & the catchment is much smaller than Dunraven with even more expensive house prices.

Stokey · 22/09/2023 09:55

I thought Chingford had decent comprehensives.

I'm quite near you (E17) and have one child at a grammar school and one child at an outstanding comprehensive.