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Where in London is the best place to live for grammar options (boys and girls) and good state school fall back options.

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TuttleTree · 21/09/2023 21:43

Please help! We are house hunting and torn between London and Chelmsford. Ideally, we would like to stay in London for work, travel, culture, things going on. Etc etc all the usual. However fully aware that as kids are involved we have to prioritise in the right way.

We live in East London at the moment and have great grammar options but not good state options. Feel like with Chelmsford there might be some good state back ups there? But before we do anything drastic and leave the big smoke, wondering where else in London we could go that have the option of both.

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SleepyRooster · 25/09/2023 17:55

No primary school is going to get a kid into a superselective grammar. That's down to tutoring. I'm thinking of places where the superselective outer catchments overlap with at least two decent comprehensives.

ThingsWillWorkOut · 25/09/2023 17:40

And in the last years there wasn't a single girl that got to Tiffin from Hampton and Hampton Hill Primaries. Some boys do.

ThingsWillWorkOut · 25/09/2023 17:29

SleepyRooster · 25/09/2023 17:17

Hampton Hill for Turing , Waldegrave, Teddington, plus the Tiffins

Teddington doesn't have that good results.

soopadoopa · 25/09/2023 17:22

SleepyRooster · 25/09/2023 17:17

Hampton Hill for Turing , Waldegrave, Teddington, plus the Tiffins

Not to mention Bushy Park and Hampton Open Air Pool. 😍

Jackal313 · 25/09/2023 17:18

TuttleTree · 25/09/2023 14:05

@Jackal313 thanks. Would you say ther is a difference in competitiveness between CCHS and the CSSE schools you mentioned?

I'm not that familiar with it generally, and it is hard to compare with a different exam and scoring. But I would say - based on historical scores for KEGS vs other Essex boys grammars - that it is probably more competitive to get a place at CCHS than any of the other girls schools.

SleepyRooster · 25/09/2023 17:17

Hampton Hill for Turing , Waldegrave, Teddington, plus the Tiffins

ThingsWillWorkOut · 25/09/2023 17:17

soopadoopa · 25/09/2023 17:05

... but of course all of Richmond Borough is within Tiffin's catchment.

yes but not Inner Area ( girls) just Designated Area that has slightly less chance. Inner Area* is on the other side of the river. For boys they usually take 1-3 from top performing schools in Richmond Borough.

  • I dunno why when I say it I always thing about Inner Circle and de Niro in " Meet the parents" movie lol
soopadoopa · 25/09/2023 17:05

... but of course all of Richmond Borough is within Tiffin's catchment.

soopadoopa · 25/09/2023 17:04

ThingsWillWorkOut · 25/09/2023 16:55

She would need to live in Marble Hill, Richmond to be in Designated Area for Tiffin and at the same time catchment for Orlean Park ( 1km) and still in Turing catchment and Waldergrave as well as Grey Coat. St Richard Reynolds would also accept her kids if she is a catholic. I don't know about Christs catchment and Kingston Academy would not include her in the catchment.

Marble Hill is outside of the current Turing House and Waldegrave catchments. But in any case, I wasn't suggesting she could apply to all of them - she's moving house, so can choose to move into whichever catchment area she can afford.

ThingsWillWorkOut · 25/09/2023 16:55

soopadoopa · 22/09/2023 21:57

@TuttleTree I have only skim read the thread, but Twickenham/Teddington/Richmond/Ham are in the Tiffin catchment while having very good state schools. I saw Turing House was mentioned, but also look at Waldegrave, Teddington, Orleans Park, Christs, Grey Court, and The Kingston Academy. I'd be happy with any of them. There's Esher College too, for 16+, and the grammar schools take in a lot of externals for sixth form - Tiffin sixth form is mixed.

She would need to live in Marble Hill, Richmond to be in Designated Area for Tiffin and at the same time catchment for Orlean Park ( 1km) and still in Turing catchment and Waldergrave as well as Grey Coat. St Richard Reynolds would also accept her kids if she is a catholic. I don't know about Christs catchment and Kingston Academy would not include her in the catchment.

TuttleTree · 25/09/2023 14:05

@Jackal313 thanks. Would you say ther is a difference in competitiveness between CCHS and the CSSE schools you mentioned?

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Jackal313 · 25/09/2023 11:48

I know the discussion has focused mostly on London schools, but I wanted to mention that if looking at Chelmsford, the grammar schools there are very, very competitive as well. Even if you live within the 12.5 mile priority area you have to score quite highly. Also CCHS uses a different exam than the other Essex grammars, so your DD would have to take two 11+ exams if also wanting to apply to Southend / Westcliff / Colchester.

soopadoopa · 22/09/2023 21:57

@TuttleTree I have only skim read the thread, but Twickenham/Teddington/Richmond/Ham are in the Tiffin catchment while having very good state schools. I saw Turing House was mentioned, but also look at Waldegrave, Teddington, Orleans Park, Christs, Grey Court, and The Kingston Academy. I'd be happy with any of them. There's Esher College too, for 16+, and the grammar schools take in a lot of externals for sixth form - Tiffin sixth form is mixed.

BonjourCrisette · 22/09/2023 21:38

I don't know about Tiffin Boys but was only pointing that out about Tiffin Girls because someone seemed to think it was about 15 miles away from Ealing and it isn't.

bopbey · 22/09/2023 21:21

I know she also has a girl but surely it would be odd to move somewhere to be in catchment for Tiffin girls but not Tiffin?

ThingsWillWorkOut · 22/09/2023 21:21

HotSauceNow · 22/09/2023 19:54

I know various kids who have passed well enough to be offered places including my own. If the 116 is referring to the Redbridge exam score then in recent years the initial offer score for Ilford/Woodford has been 108-111 ish so unless you are out of area you 116 would have been enough to get in. This year change of exam boards scores may be different. Yes maybe 1100-1200 will will sit for each school but for 180 places and plenty of kids are out of area so they will never get in. And a few schools put in everyone. Plus plenty of top scorers turn down for private schools. So yes competitive but really not impossible for a bright motivated and well prepared child.

Just to put things in the perspective - there are 1600 candidates on average year to Tiffin school and they accept also around 180...
I suspect that there is even more to Wilson ...

ThingsWillWorkOut · 22/09/2023 21:16

bopbey · 22/09/2023 20:42

@ThingsWillWorkOut but the OP has a boy doesn't she?

She has a boy and a girl. She wrote about it.

bopbey · 22/09/2023 20:42

@ThingsWillWorkOut but the OP has a boy doesn't she?

HotSauceNow · 22/09/2023 19:54

MaximumSunshine · 22/09/2023 14:25

@TuttleTree personally go with a good comp

At my sons redbridge primary (4 form entry) nobody got into grammar. My son is top 3% (got 116 plus all CATs) and wasnt high enough to get in. Hes gold on UK Maths Challenge

I have several older kids and dont know anyone who has ever passed grammars in Redbridge.

Worth mentioning they are 95% South Indian and muslim/ hindu intake. My son was one of only two white boys at the open day, which shocked him.

Unless your kids are top 1% dont bother.

I know various kids who have passed well enough to be offered places including my own. If the 116 is referring to the Redbridge exam score then in recent years the initial offer score for Ilford/Woodford has been 108-111 ish so unless you are out of area you 116 would have been enough to get in. This year change of exam boards scores may be different. Yes maybe 1100-1200 will will sit for each school but for 180 places and plenty of kids are out of area so they will never get in. And a few schools put in everyone. Plus plenty of top scorers turn down for private schools. So yes competitive but really not impossible for a bright motivated and well prepared child.

ThingsWillWorkOut · 22/09/2023 19:34

bopbey · 22/09/2023 10:27

What? W5 (same postcode as Ealing Fields) is part of the designated area for Tiffin Girls' and about 5 or 6 miles away.

Is that the same for the boys?

boys have a completely different system of admission. Uncomparable to girls.

BonjourCrisette · 22/09/2023 17:30

ThingsWillWorkOut · 22/09/2023 17:20

@BonjourCrisette yes we live in the catchment of Turing House, or at least how it was for the last two years since they moved and before too. Why would you say that you would go all the way to get there in particular?
But St Pauls and StRR have almost the same GCSE results, a differwnce of few percent and maybe children are behaving better and are raised with some values. (?!) And then there is also Orlean Park but it is slightly out of our catchment.

Out of the schools you mentioned, I liked the Turing House atmosphere and attitude the best. People I know with children at Turing House seem really happy with it. I am not, however, in favour of faith schools particularly for a number of reasons. It's obviously ridiculous to state that only children at faith schools are being raised with values. You will find at least some badly behaved children in literally any school.

I looked round pretty much every secondary, even those that were a bit too far away out of interest. If I'd sent DD to one of the borough schools I would probably have been hoping for a waiting list place at Waldegrave but that's obviously not an option for a boy. Orleans is also good but if you are too far away then it's not really an option. Christ's also has some faith places but maybe that is too far as well, though the distance will be a lot bigger for faith places than open places.

ThingsWillWorkOut · 22/09/2023 17:20

@BonjourCrisette yes we live in the catchment of Turing House, or at least how it was for the last two years since they moved and before too. Why would you say that you would go all the way to get there in particular?
But St Pauls and StRR have almost the same GCSE results, a differwnce of few percent and maybe children are behaving better and are raised with some values. (?!) And then there is also Orlean Park but it is slightly out of our catchment.

BonjourCrisette · 22/09/2023 17:19

Llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyrndrobwllllanty · 22/09/2023 16:51

Yes, people constantly try to claim that anyone who says they are not tutoring hours and hours for years and years is lying. It is very boring.

TuttleTree · 22/09/2023 17:11

BonjourCrisette · 22/09/2023 16:36

Then I think I know the schools you are talking about and I would go Turing House all the way if you have a good chance there (we didn't live near enough or it would definitely have been on my list).

Re tutoring, there certainly are parents who are pushing their kids to do hours a night but it's not everyone or even most people from what I can tell, and that isn't what we did and it worked out well. DD did an hour once a week with nothing in the holidays for about six months and she got into the schools she wanted to get into (including Tiffin, though she didn't end up going there). The tutoring was mainly aimed at exam technique. She used to get half an hour's homework from the tutor and nothing at all from primary school.

She has never had two hours homework a night at any point in her school career - now starting A Levels and although it is more work, it's more like one to one and a half hours a night. She seems to have plenty of time to lounge around watching Netflix and doing activities that take up around 10+ hours a week (her choice).

I would not have wanted to tutor DD myself, even though like the OP I also went to Oxbridge, because I know her and I know me and we would both have ended up cross and resentful. She's an angel for any teacher so paying for tutoring was very much in the interests of having a harmonious home!

Hear Hear! Thanks for sharing this experience.

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