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Massive regret that I didn’t try and get my ds into a sixth form rather college

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Teencrisis · 20/09/2023 17:21

DS has just started college to study a-levels. His grades were not good enough to continue his studies at his grammar school. If he was at school still he would be required to be on site every day from 9:00 - 3:20. He would be required to take part in sports etc. Now he is at college he has so much time when he is not at college he is already loosing motivation and some days because he doesn’t need to be into 2:30 he lounges around or just meets up with friends. I can’t persuade him to study. I know he needs to become disciplined but I can’t help thinking if he was at school he would have no option but to study. I wish now that I had looked at other local school sixth forms. Anyone else have this problem? I just feel that there is a massive difference and somehow sixth forms students have an advantage.

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TheaBrandt · 20/09/2023 17:23

How can you feel regret? He didn’t get the grades for the 6th form it’s not like you had a choice and you made the wrong choice. Statistics show that if you don’t get certain minimum gcse grades you are unlikely to succeed at a level anyway so 6th form could be a waste of everyone’s time.

Boyonthenres · 20/09/2023 17:22

I agree, not much help but I think it's true

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