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Confiscated phone…unreasonable or not?

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Fruitflylady · 12/09/2023 11:17

Just had an email from DS’s school to say he’s had his phone confiscated, and that they’re keeping it until Friday!
They introduced this new sanction this term, so it’s my first experience with it. He’s never had his phone confiscated before, and I don’t know why it’s happened now as I can’t get through to the school to ask.
I’m happy to accept he’s made a mistake in using it when he shouldn’t have, and fair enough that they confiscate it for the day, but it seems out of order for them to keep it for the rest of the week. We use it to keep track of where he is when he’s walking home, and he can call to ask for help when he needs it.
How would everyone else approach this situation?

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Iwasafool · 12/09/2023 11:21

I'd find out if he has broken a rule. If he has then I'd tell him to follow the rules, if he hasn't I'd ask the school to return the phone.

Is he at secondary school? If so is he able to get home without being tracked?

Batmansmummy · 12/09/2023 11:21

That would be a huge no here I agree with confiscating it if caught using it when he wasn't supposed to buy over my dead body would they be keeping it for almost 4 days .
In my case my child needs it incase of an emergency on the way home or when there out with friends after school . Id be down there like a flash getting it myself .