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Child still not feeling great about SS place

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Claxonia · 06/07/2023 14:38

We accepted a place for our 11 year old at a SS that is highly rated, very academic and my husband and I are happy with. Unfortunately our child has never had a good feeling about the school from the first visit a year ago. We were hoping this would turn around after the open day last week but they are still saying they don’t feel good about it.

There are not many good options where we live so we felt lucky to have this place (the school is very oversubscribed) and were hoping that things would improve but this doesn’t seem to be happening.

Has anyone else experienced this and how worried should we be? Should we trust that the school will be able to turn the negativity around in September? Or should we be frantically ringing round waiting lists?

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Foxesandsquirrels · 06/07/2023 15:09

What do you mean by SS? Super selective? Special school?

Appleofmyeye2023 · 06/07/2023 14:44

How old is child

TeenDivided · 06/07/2023 14:43

I guess it depends on what 'not good feeling' means.

A bit nervous, will they keep up etc?

Or they don't like the ethos of the school, how strict it is, the travel distance, the level of homework expected etc

Papernotplastic · 06/07/2023 14:42

Did they give a reason? Do they prefer another school? Is it because a friend or friends are going to another school?

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