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Teddington school, any parents with children there

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purplecat1 · 22/06/2023 19:53

Just wondering about teddington school. I'm relatively new to the area and from what I understand it has a chequered past but seemed to come out of it. But I hear there is a new head this year.

Any experiences good it bad from anyone who has a child there or knows the school.

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AuditAngel · 25/06/2023 17:45

I don’t know about Teddington school. SRRCC mentioned previously is excellent, all 3 of mine have been there, youngest currently in year 7, DC2 just completed GCSEs. I also have a lot of friends with kids at St Paul’s in Sunbury, as we did primary there.

I note that Hampton High has waiting lists, I would not send a child of mine there.

purplecat1 · 25/06/2023 17:39

RedFluffyPanda · 25/06/2023 16:47

I have never been to Open Day at Tiffin Girls and they have not had the OFSTED yet. The only concerning thing I heard from mums is about the mental health support at that school. Otherwise they don't complain:)

Yes I know someone who I work with who sent her DD to tiffin, she is now taking her out due to really quite significant MH problems which she feels is due to the pressure and bullying that she has experienced. It's a shame as I hear of other grammars that do just as well as tiffin but with much better pastoral care. In fact I am actually surprised that tiffin do so well without such robust support in place. But like you say, I imagine many parents send their very clever kids there, but intelligence does not equal resilience or tutor them within an inch of their life to ensure that they get in. The stories I have heard of the lengths some parents go to, especially as you say from some ethnic groups, is awful. It really robs children of their childhood. But each to their own I guess!

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RedFluffyPanda · 25/06/2023 16:47

I have never been to Open Day at Tiffin Girls and they have not had the OFSTED yet. The only concerning thing I heard from mums is about the mental health support at that school. Otherwise they don't complain:)

purplecat1 · 25/06/2023 15:54

@RedFluffyPanda
Thank you for your honest opinion. I had ruled tiffin girls out for similar reasons to you, I want less pressure and a more holistic approach. But I have obviously not looked at the boys school so curious to know other opinions and viewpoints.

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RedFluffyPanda · 25/06/2023 15:20

@crimped

SRRCC is an outstanding school with a great pastoral care, great results and strong discipline. I must have spoken with dozens of parents from there. St Paul's Sunbury have even better GCSE results and it is pretty amazing given that they accept at an admission point kids from a very varied background and their GCSE results are equally good as Orlean Park that has a catchment point from rather affluent part of the country.
But these are school for practicing Catholicsm

RedFluffyPanda · 25/06/2023 15:13

Tiffin Boys have fantastic GCSE results with 80 percent getting grade 7-9 at GCSE English maths and 98 percent getting grade 5+. Progress 8 is not that impressive though.

Only " Good" school lucky to have oustanding boys.

crimped · 25/06/2023 14:54

I think Tiffin's GCSE results should improve from this (or maybe last) year onwards because they changed the entrance exam to include English and Maths rather than just reasoning (which was too coachable). I know multiple boys who got in with no tutoring after the change, but none before. They are the naturally bright ones who don't need to be pushed. Two that I know of who didn't get in on the old style paper, but later joined the sixth form were in the top third of their A level classes, even though they'd done their GCSEs at comps.

RedFluffyPanda · 25/06/2023 14:36

Happy to answer as long as you will into account that it is only my subjective opinion:) . And I apologise if somebody has different feelings as I don't intend to hurt them

I went to the Open Day last year. My guide was a y7 boy. Listing it not in the importance order:

  1. The school needs paint. As compared to other schools I have seen, Tiffin school looked " very tired". The wall posters and decorations were coming off, class tables were wobbly and eaten by time. Only one round building looked good. I guess all schools have money issues but at least they could make sure that what stickes to the walls looks decent.
  1. My guide was running to toliet every now and again and at some point he said that he really needs to sit. We found a bench and started talking. He has some psychosomatic digestion issues. At the beginning he was reluctant to talk about it. I didn't know how to cheer him up but in the end he said that it started just with 11+ and that there is an ennormous pressure he experiences from school and his familly to perform well. I believe that Universe is talking to us we just not notice it at times. I listened this time:). I realised that to be so called academic kidnis not enough, it also has to be a psychologically tough and resilent + fast and engaged, switched on boy to feel great at this particular grammar school.
I don't want to do it to my child.
  1. I know some Tiffin mums or friends kf those mums. They describe that mental health is a huge issue ( anorexia in T girl school and self harm etc). It is very competitive environment and expectations are high. There are some naturally unvelievabmy brilliant kids that get there and there are some that went through hours and hours of 11+ preparations to pass the test and get in. Ambitious as they are it is difficult to keep pace with those who naturally get it all easily. ATiffin mum told me that her son has twice a week tutoring to keep up and as she claims half of the kids have tutors after school.
  1. I am not keen on one gender schools at all. I understand that there are some opinions that they will better focus academically in one gender school but for me the social development matters equally as academic growth. He is not sourrounded by many girls in his private life to compensate it as he doesn't have a sister.
  1. I read latest OFSTED report. It was downgraded from Outstanding to Good. There are several criteria to make the total. For those criteria where it was downgraded to Good the description indicated that the teaching, teachers preparation and expsctations of the ciriculum is just Good and not Outstanding. And those brill kids there deserve the best teachers to inspire. The Oustanding stayed only where there is achievement ementioned; naturally, as it driven by the hard work of boys. It is average provision by the school that is lucky to have outstanding boys. I think a lot have change with the change of headmaster. Progress 8 is much lower as compared to Tiffin Girls.
  1. Public transport to school for us would be complicated. I find their uniforms hideous ( but this is very personal opinion about the taste). And there is something about the ethic origin of the students. I would like my son attend school that is as the society around him. Because some parents with roots in some countries push and push for their kids to get in as if it was life and death, and the school admission is very fair, it results that the kids are representing specific ethnic groups at large. And I would like my son to see London diversity as it is. Not narrowed.

Apologise in advance if somebody doesn't agree with me.

purplecat1 · 25/06/2023 13:19

RedFluffyPanda · 23/06/2023 20:15

Ah yes, I am also a great supporter of coeducation and I understand your predicament. I , personally, wasn't impressed with Tiffin boys during the Open Day. But my son has been attending 3 h per week of 11+ tutoring since September and is given loads of homework by the tutor. I had a very positive vibe during the Open day at Hampton Boys. Great school but then it is only boys and it is £7.5 k per term while we have outstanding schools around. I am leaning towards fab Catholic schools that we will put as our top two options.

Can I ask what you weren't impressed by with Tiffin Boys. My son is only in yr 3 but proving himself to be very academic and motivated. Learning and doing well seems to be more important to him than his older sister, which makes me wonder if Tiffin would be a good option to consider for him.

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crimped · 25/06/2023 07:36

Back when I was checking out schools when my eldest was in year 5 (2013), Teddington School was very oversubscribed and the borough had just recently dropped their linked-primary admissions policy (this was before the secondaries became academies and took control of their own admissions). Its Ofsted was Good and it had its new building and people were moving from all over for it. Now they move to Orleans Park or Grey Court catchments instead because of their Outstanding labels. These things are cyclic though. The Ofsted framework has changed and is no longer pegged to results, so all bets are off for the next time they all get inspected. It's much more difficult to get Outstanding now. SRR was lucky to get its most recent inspection in just before the change. I'm curious which, if any, schools will keep their Outstanding status next time. They've all had new heads, which should trigger earlier inspections, but Covid means there's a backlog.

Ketzele · 25/06/2023 00:23

I can't remember exactly, but I think they start setting for maths halfway through Y7. They are not streamed as such - they stay in mixed ability forms, and lessons are with different kids from across their pop. I'm not sure if they use setting for other subjects.

I would hazard a guess that they have a narrower range of ability than most London schools - very few kids who can't speak English, for example - which must make differentiated teaching easier. Remember that pretty much all Richmond schools are largely educating kids who are going to do well anyway!

purplecat1 · 24/06/2023 21:51

@Ketzele one other question is do they stream pupils from yr 7?

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Ketzele · 24/06/2023 21:34

Hmm, Waldegrave lost its extremely popular head. I haven't heard anything negative about the new head but it might have had an impact. The ex head of Teddington, Kathy Page, is now at Orleans.

And sorry, you're quite right it's 8 form entry. I got confused because they split them into two 'populations' of four forms each. They mix across classes within pop's, but never across.

It is a big school. I think they all are round here. Our primary was enormous.

purplecat1 · 24/06/2023 18:26

RedFluffyPanda · 24/06/2023 16:42

I must admit I have never researched Grey Court as it is on the other side of the river.

But I am amazed that Waldergrave squeezes 240 girls from such small catchment😮

I guess as so many people move to that area specifically for the schools catchment. Mind you we are just outside their catchment and last year a girl on our road got in on first round. I have a feeling that some parents might be choosing Turing House over Waldegrave as never before have we had someone offered a place at waldegrave at first offer.

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Meredusoleil · 24/06/2023 17:02

Nowfeeltheneedtopost · 24/06/2023 15:33

Not at all. Grey Court and Waldegrave both take 240 children per year.

I thought the Waldegrave intake was 216 girls as they like to have less than 30 to a class, but still have 8 forms. The classrooms are small, so understandable.

RedFluffyPanda · 24/06/2023 16:42

I must admit I have never researched Grey Court as it is on the other side of the river.

But I am amazed that Waldergrave squeezes 240 girls from such small catchment😮

Nowfeeltheneedtopost · 24/06/2023 15:33

RedFluffyPanda · 24/06/2023 15:32

>It is 8 forms per year, it takes 240 children.

Omg...huge!! Larger than any other local school!

Not at all. Grey Court and Waldegrave both take 240 children per year.

RedFluffyPanda · 24/06/2023 15:32

>It is 8 forms per year, it takes 240 children.

Omg...huge!! Larger than any other local school!

RedFluffyPanda · 24/06/2023 15:31

>The kids LOVE him (possibly because he always invites them to punch him in the stomach)

🤣🤣🤣

Nowfeeltheneedtopost · 24/06/2023 14:39

purplecat1 · 24/06/2023 10:52

@Ketzele do you know about many forms per year? Also what is the pastoral care like? Does your child with anxiety get support with this? Just very aware how many teens develop mental health problems now rather than any specific reason with my DD. It's important for me for her to go to a school that is holistic and supportive and this seems to vary widely!

Also did a new HT start last September? I have only heard this locally but through people who have no links with the school.

Thank you

It is 8 forms per year, it takes 240 children.

Ketzele · 24/06/2023 14:06

I think it's four forms per year? There's a lot of mixing across forms for different classes.

I think the pastoral care is good. They had to make cuts to pastoral care a few years back but it seems up to strength now. The pastoral care team is well used - lots of kids pop in for chats during the day and there doesn't seem any stigma to doing that.

There's also a guy who works with the more troubled kids who is fantastic. He is ex police, martial arts expert and has interesting patterns shaved into his head. The kids LOVE him (possibly because he always invites them to punch him in the stomach). He has spent a lot of time with my daughter teaching her how to kick box, and also meditation techniques for her anxiety.

In addition, the teachers have been very kind to my daughter. And actually so have other kids - several times when she's been upset older kids have intervened and taken care of her. My dd has complex needs and schooling has been a nightmare, but to be fair that is mostly due to CAMHS and post-adoption support. She herself says that it's a good school and she wouldn't want to be anywhere else.

The new head is called Mr Grills, and I haven't got the measure of him yet though my daughter likes him. I was very keen on the old head so was grouchy when she left. I have only complained to the school twice, once to each head, and was impressed by their response.

Finally, this area is spoilt with good schools and the parents have very high expectations. There is lots of comparing Teddington unfavourably with Waldegrave, the girls school, but if you adjust for the fact that Waldegrave is all girls they are neck and neck in terms of results. In most areas of London this would be the school that everyone was killing each other to get into.

As I say, there's lots of good choices in this area, and also different schools suit different kids, so I'm certainly not trying to persuade you. But I will say that my girl could have picked any school in the Borough (because adopted so priority admission) and I've never been sorry I chose Teddington.

purplecat1 · 24/06/2023 10:52

@Ketzele do you know about many forms per year? Also what is the pastoral care like? Does your child with anxiety get support with this? Just very aware how many teens develop mental health problems now rather than any specific reason with my DD. It's important for me for her to go to a school that is holistic and supportive and this seems to vary widely!

Also did a new HT start last September? I have only heard this locally but through people who have no links with the school.

Thank you

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Ketzele · 23/06/2023 20:58

I'm happy to answer any further questions, BTW.

Ketzele · 23/06/2023 20:58

My two girls both went to Teddington (one still there). The eldest started when it was going through a tricky patch, including a bad Ofsted report (which I think was unfair). Then a new HT came in who really turned the school around.

Like every other state secondary, the school needs more money and less teacher churn. A minority of children are a bit disruptive, but theyre not scary. It's a very middle class school and the parents have high expectations. The building is very nice.

If your child is academic she will be fine. My eldest got straight As at GCSE, as did many of the kids I know. She's introverted, and I did worry about her in such a large school, but she never had hassle or bullying. The school seems to serve the bright kids well.

My youngest struggles with learning issues and anxiety and has had a trickier time. The school has been kind, but I do wonder if she might have got better support at a school with more experience of troubled kids, frankly.

But no regrets I sent my kids there.

RedFluffyPanda · 23/06/2023 20:15

Ah yes, I am also a great supporter of coeducation and I understand your predicament. I , personally, wasn't impressed with Tiffin boys during the Open Day. But my son has been attending 3 h per week of 11+ tutoring since September and is given loads of homework by the tutor. I had a very positive vibe during the Open day at Hampton Boys. Great school but then it is only boys and it is £7.5 k per term while we have outstanding schools around. I am leaning towards fab Catholic schools that we will put as our top two options.