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Is this even possible?

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LostFrog · 29/04/2023 17:53

We live in an area with a 3-tier school system. Ds3 is in Y6, so halfway through his middle school. His school has been going downhill for a while but just got Inadequate from Ofsted. He is a bright, enthusiastic boy, but is being picked on and starting to lose his confidence, and he is not being challenged. Two more years there will be soul destroying. There are no other schools in the area.

I think we have 3 options - 1) home school, but I would have to give up work and I am not confident that I could give him what he needs, 2) move whole family, but I have elderly parents close by, and older siblings would then be affected, 3) dh and ds3 move away to a town 40 miles away with a decent school - near dh’s office. Rent a flat and they come ‘home’ at the weekends. Is this even possible?

What would you do?

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manchestermom5 · 29/04/2023 18:26

A private school might be cheaper than renting a flat and all the bills it comes with. Or hire private tutors. Most parents get overwhelmed at the thought of homeschooling, nowadays there are a lot of resources easily available and I am sure you will be able to guide him.

Floralnomad · 29/04/2023 18:23

If there is a place in the school near the office get your son in there and he can commute with your husband .

Seeline · 29/04/2023 18:21

Surely there are other schools closer than 40 miles away?

CheshireCats · 29/04/2023 18:20

How far are next nearest schools? Surely one is "commutable"?

2reefsin30knots · 29/04/2023 18:17

Wouldn't a private school for 2 years be cheaper then renting a flat?

Nimbostratus100 · 29/04/2023 18:16

how does your DH normally get to work?

VariationsonaTheme · 29/04/2023 18:14

Does DH already commute to the office each day? Finding a school somewhere in the vicinity of his office should be doable without them needing to move?

Polik · 29/04/2023 18:10

Is it Minehead? How about Danesfield?

Stripycatz · 29/04/2023 18:04

Don't move or split your family.
Get school to deal with the bullying - don't let it go till they have.
Supplement his schooling with a good tutor and after school activities that boost his confidence.

LostFrog · 29/04/2023 17:54

I should say - all have financial implications, option 3 would mean me taking on additional hours but I think we could do it.

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