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"My parents dont let me watch the news": reflections on 11+ interviews I have carried out

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hannaretch · 03/02/2023 23:33

Over the past few weeks I have been carrying out 11+ interviews with new applicants to our school -independent day school, outside of London, thought of as the most academic school in our town.

I generally talk to the children for 20 minutes about their studies, hobbies etc and ask them to talk about themselves. The aim is to get an idea of who they are and whether they will fit in with the school ethos. We tend to interview almost all applicants as we feel that a good interview will allow us to get a better view of the individual even those with marginal entrance exam results. They get information on the type of questions they are likely to get before the day to allow them to prepare. We also ask them to bring in an item which they then talk about.

One of the standard questions I and others ask is along the lines of do you follow the news? Talk about a current news story/ what do think about Ukraine/ climate change? type thing. Nothing too major but it allows us to get an idea of their awareness of the world. Most are able to answer with basic knowledge and some understanding of the issues and it often leads to good discussions.

I was shocked that two or three of the ones I have interviewed this year stated that they werent allowed to watch the news and had no opinions/ ideas about the issues. Surely watching the news at 6 etc or online or even Newsround is basic preparation for life? (or school interview at least?)

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OppsUpsSide · 03/02/2023 23:44

I thought most classes watched Newsround nowadays, would suggest to me they just weren’t paying attention/interested.

greenteafiend · 03/02/2023 23:44

I am a very well informed person but I don’t get my news from the television and given the awful things happening in the world would not let my kids watch the news without me (and I am not home at six).

It's 2023, there are loads of 24-hour news services that can be watched on a tablet or laptop! We usually watch Sky News on weekend mornings together during breakfast.

Soproudoflionesses · 03/02/2023 23:44

My daughter is still haunted by seeing the Grenfell tower fire on the news so l don't ban the news but also don't make her sit and watch it either. Feel like she doesn't need to be worrying about world disasters at her age.

lottiegarbanzo · 03/02/2023 23:43

I agree with you but think covid may have had an impact on that age group.

During 2020 we blanked out news from DC's sight or hearing and lived in a happy family bubble; because the news was so frightening in the early days of the pandemic and because we wanted home, and our constrained little lives there, to be as calm and happy as possible.

To an extent it's an easy habit to continue, especially when so many big news stories are so unrelentingly grim and frightening.

I'm surprised these children haven't learnt more about current affairs at school but I can see how their parents may have got stuck in a habit and perhaps chosen to baby them.

NuffSaidSam · 03/02/2023 23:41

There's a view amongst some parents that their children must be protected from any bad news/real life indefinitely. For the child to feel sad/worried/any negative emotion for even a second is a parenting failure.

There was a thread last week where someone was outraged that 12/13 year olds had been told about fgm.

Stopsnowing · 03/02/2023 23:41

I am a very well informed person but I don’t get my news from the television and given the awful things happening in the world would not let my kids watch the news without me (and I am not home at six).

Stickmansmum · 03/02/2023 23:38

Surely it is. But how many kids get everything they need from their parents?

WinnieFosterReads · 03/02/2023 23:38

I'm shocked that you're showing so little discretion and starting threads at 11.30pm on a Friday night. I'd expect someone who conducted 11+ interviews to spend their time on more erudite pursuits.