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Dropping 4th A'level - stress!

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ActingTheMaggot · 31/01/2023 16:52

DS is in lower 6th studying for 4 A levels. I did express concern over this and thought it was a bit much, as he has a lot of other things going on in his life. Up until a week ago, he was fine with it.

Now he is saying he wants to drop one as it is too much. He spoke to the school and they said it is too late to pick up the EPQ.

I am now concerned that he is going to go from 4 A'levels to 3 and no EPQ and come up against other students with 3 and an EPQ which is going to put him at a disadvantage for Uni.

Any suggestions as to what to do? He is pretty stressed out now.

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dizzydizzydizzy · 03/02/2023 23:50

Ah, chemistry! Dd is studying that. Where she is, you have to have chemistry and maths A Level. They prefer the third subject to be physics or biology or economics. She is in year 3 now.

DM me if you want.

1forward2back · 03/02/2023 20:08

I think 3 is fairly standard in a lot of schools. Most ucas is points offers I think, so just about getting three good grades now.

ChnandlerBong · 03/02/2023 16:37

just on the EPQ - it might only mean you get an offer a grade or 2 lower than standard (for some universities for some courses) so it has no intrinsic points value.

But IMO it is a good thing. Know you want to be an engineer/doctor/lawyer/film producer? Then the EPQ is a great way to research it and show your interest.

V surprised they wont' let him start an EPQ - he has lots of time if he's motivated and has a topic in mind?

ActingTheMaggot · 03/02/2023 14:46

Thank you to everyone for their advice. I knew bugger all, and now I am much better informed. As usual, if you want to know something, ask Mumsnet.

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PandaG · 03/02/2023 14:45

Only reason I'd say stick with 4 A levels is if one was further maths and he wanted to study maths or engineering at university - the unis my son applied to wanted FM if it was offered at his school.

In your case, maths, chem and music sound like a great selection. Teaching music will give him examples of being self directed, organising time etc in his personal statement.

ActingTheMaggot · 03/02/2023 14:44

DOE is a pain in the arse.

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RampantIvy · 03/02/2023 14:43

Aw, thank you @clary. DD graduated 6 months ago, and I get so irritated when I see inaccurate advice being handed out by schools.

A lot of schools don't have their students' best interests at heart and just want to look good.

ActingTheMaggot · 03/02/2023 14:42

OK, I have calmed down now. I have taken on board what you have all said, and also I have spoken with the school and they say the same thing. Honestly, I am fine with it all now.

I am new to all this as he is my first child. I just wanted to make sure he didn't mess it up for himself. Someone up-thread said I was overinvested, but it is actually him coming home all stressed out about it and asking our advice and I am just trying to get the info to support his decision. He is so hardworking and dedicated, he deserves to go to a good Uni.

So, I'm sure now he is going to drop to 3. I think freeing up his time and getting this stress off his back will do him good. He has loads of things going on outside of school and I don't want to shut them down as they have the potential to be lifelong hobbies.

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clary · 03/02/2023 14:35

Great posts from @HowDoYouOwnDisorder and @RampantIvy as usual. YY three tiptop A levels are what he needs. DofE, grade 8 piano, fourth A level, EPQ - none of these are needed.

If he has a great idea for an EPQ OP, presuming it is in some way relevant to what he wants to study at uni, then why not research it and develop his reading around that - this would then give him a good starting point for his personal statement - which is not meant to be about your amazing DoE experience, and is meant to be about 8why* you want to study this subject.

My younger two are or were both at uni btw so I have some experience here; both got excellent offers from the old MN gold standard of RG unis while taking three A levels and no EPQ. Neither ended up at an RG haha, for different reasons, but I don't think RG is any kind of be-all and end-all anyway, though the list of course includes excellent universities.

weasle · 03/02/2023 14:16

My DS in similar situation. He went ahead with 4 A levels and now thinking of dropping the fourth and told he can't do EPQ. I was cross as I'd said all along do 3 and EPQ but thanks to the PP here I'm less worried now.
He might persist with the fourth for a bit (a MFL, rest are sciences). We'll see!

RampantIvy · 03/02/2023 14:01

It seems to me that a lot of private schools are a bit behind the times,
It seems that a lot of private school parents get very hung up about EPQs, 4 a levels, further maths not being a full A level etc , Duke of Edinburgh (nobody cares)

Not just private schools. State schools as well.

When DD was looking at universities in 2017 we found that what we were told in subject talks at open days was different to what school was telling us.

You are right that:

a) Universities aren't interested in D of E
b) Universities just want three excellent A level grades not 4, unless it is a course that relies heavily on further maths, then FM is advised
c) Medical schools don't count FM as a separate A level as there is too much crossover with maths, so they will only consider it if it is a fourth subject
d) Some universities might reduce their offer if a good grade at EPQ is achieved, but it isn't guaranteed
e) A lot of universities for a lot of courses don't even read the personal statement unless the student is borderline

Basically the gold standard is three excellent A level grades, and if anything else - EPQ, another A level, is going to detract the student from achieving it then it has to be junked.

titchy · 03/02/2023 13:43

ActingTheMaggot · 03/02/2023 13:17

I don't actually want him to do an EPQ. I want him to make a decision and be happy with it. What I am upset with is him making a wrong decision that is going to affect his Uni entry. The school should be taking him through his options and reassuring him, rather than letting him get dead stressed out about this.

But you said 'How hard would it be for the EPQ dept. to spend a bit of time getting him on his way. He already has the idea for the project.'

That sounds if you want them to let him? If your concern is the lack of communication from the school then I agree with you! But the outcome is that he will be doing 3 A levels, and not be distracted by an EPQ or a 4th A level then that's a good outcome.

HowDoYouOwnDisorder · 03/02/2023 13:38

Take a deep breath and calm down OP Grin

3 A levels is fine, it's what uni's base most of their decision on

It seems to me that a lot of private schools are a bit behind the times, your DC has no need at all for an EPQ in my experience (one son just gone to Uni, one going next year)

What was important:

Find out what Uni course he wants to do and what the requirements are

Get best grades possible in 3 subjects

Write a passionate and smashing Personal Statement where you explain why you want to do this course and why you'd be good at it

The rest is detail. It seems that a lot of private school parents get very hung up about EPQs, 4 a levels, further maths not being a full A level etc , Duke of Edinburgh (nobody cares)

It is much simpler and straightforward than you think

Go to Uni open days, inform yourself, and let him do the A levels he enjoys and the music if he loves it

He's lucky to be interested in 2 things. It will all work out

RampantIvy · 03/02/2023 13:23

Not doing an EPQ won't affect his university entry. doing less well in his A levels will.

It's a no brainer. Drop to doing just 3 A leves and work on improving his grades. It sounds like he needs permission to do so.

I would also wonder why I was paying for his education.

ActingTheMaggot · 03/02/2023 13:17

I don't actually want him to do an EPQ. I want him to make a decision and be happy with it. What I am upset with is him making a wrong decision that is going to affect his Uni entry. The school should be taking him through his options and reassuring him, rather than letting him get dead stressed out about this.

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RampantIvy · 03/02/2023 13:14

The school takes the view that it is better to have 3 A's rather than 2 A's and 2 B's.

Universities take that view as well.

Madcats · 03/02/2023 13:13

DD's selective ££ school makes all their 6 formers start year 12 doing 4 A levels (sometimes 5 if doing double maths or some iteration of classics). Most are expected to drop their least favourite by year 13. No AS levels.

It puzzled me, but the students end up doing subjects they enjoy (hopefully!). The school takes the view that it is better to have 3 A's rather than 2 A's and 2 B's.

The students have quite a few new subjects to choose from post GCSE and others where the GCSE isn't a pre-requisite so I suppose it gives them the opportunity to try something new with minimal risk.

titchy · 03/02/2023 13:12

I agree your school seems to have been very lax given youre paying them ££. But not doing an EPQ is quite a sensible course of action given he needs to increase one of his grades.

Everyone has told you that on here so I'm not sure why you're still wanting him to do an EPQ.

ActingTheMaggot · 03/02/2023 13:02

So, the school has now come back to my DS and said it is too late to take up an EPQ, it is too much work and they have said no to some students, so they can't say yes to him.

TBH I am pretty appalled that my DS has been asking for guidance and help for the past few weeks and it has not been forthcoming, and I have to resort to asking people on the internet. There are 5 DC in some of his classes and I am paying 18K a year for sixth form to have the resources and support for him. I am really not impressed.

How hard would it be for the EPQ dept. to spend a bit of time getting him on his way. He already has the idea for the project.

I am annoyed that you can go from doing 4 A'levels to 3 + nothing and no support or direction to get that decision. I am actually quite upset about this on behalf of DS who works his arse off and wants to do well at school.

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mondaytosunday · 01/02/2023 19:41

My daughter did her epq late year 12 and turned it in first term year 13.
But I think three good grade A levels is better than 4 lower ones, and an EPQ is ALOT of work.

RSintes · 01/02/2023 19:39

What's the point of dropping one subject only to take up an EPQ?

Oblomov22 · 01/02/2023 19:37

It's fine. He only needs the best grades he can get in 3 A'levels. The 4th A'level or an EPQ isn't necessary to secure his Uni place.

Milliways · 01/02/2023 19:37

My sons school were pushing a 4th A level and they compromised that he would take it as an AS over 2 years, which he did with an A grade AS level at the end. Is that still an option these days (I know AS levels are not taken as standard now but not sure if they are still available at all?)

DD (years ago now) started out with 5 A levels and dropped to 4 after AS levels taken in all 5, but all her teachers were pushing her to keep their subject so she had to insist. She then persuaded her brother to start with less and stick at 3 solid ones to avoid the stress she had taking 4.

titchy · 01/02/2023 19:35

ActingTheMaggot · 01/02/2023 18:59

Not the ones he will be (or should be) aiming for!

Sorry, I don't quite get that.

With high grades he should be aiming for a selective uni that will make him an offer in terms of AL grades. Lower ranked unis can make offers in terms of UCAS points and these can include points from music grades etc.

loopyloutoo · 01/02/2023 19:31

You should probably let him go with his gut and let him make his own decisions.

I don't recall my parents having such a vested interest in my a level choices and it all worked out fine Smile

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