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Anyone up for helping me crowdsource current teenage slang, please?

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DoggerelBank · 25/01/2023 18:10

I'm helping Ukrainian secondary school kids with their English, and they want a 101 on the slang their peers are using. Anyone able to contribute some must-know words for survival in a south-east England secondary? Better still, ask your kids?
For example, current teenage words/expressions for:
great
terrible
tired
angry
upset
excited
attractive
disgusting
an idiot (You ...!)
a strange person
a clumsy person
a swot
You did it really well
You did it really badly
Don't interfere
Romantic relationship stuff (swerving anything too 'adult' in content as there'll be some 11 and 12 year olds in the group)
Language related to gossip (Spill the tea ...?? etc)
Or anything else that would be useful to a young person who's mostly learned English from a school coursebook and a host family without kids.
Many thanks for any help you can provide! My own kids are older, so I'm not sure the slang they use is stiil relevant in schools now.

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Pinkglittery · 26/01/2023 13:15

B tech is when something is second rate or inferior. Allow it is when you should let them do something. For example, No DS you can't go to an all night rave. 'Ahhh allow it fam'

DancingWithMyPoolCue · 26/01/2023 09:15

A swot- a neek (maybe a portmanteau of nerd and geek?)
Swotty- sweaty

BloodAndFire · 26/01/2023 09:15

MissMaple82 · 26/01/2023 09:14

Asking mumsnet for slang terms could mean social suicide for them!!!!!

It will also be dependant on geography, social groups and age groups. Better asking locals of the actual age group than middle.aged women that "think" they know what terminology is 'cool'

😆

I've waited years to be a middle aged woman embarrassing my teenage children. Revenge is sweet 😋

MissMaple82 · 26/01/2023 09:14

Asking mumsnet for slang terms could mean social suicide for them!!!!!

It will also be dependant on geography, social groups and age groups. Better asking locals of the actual age group than middle.aged women that "think" they know what terminology is 'cool'

BloodAndFire · 26/01/2023 09:11

My kids also think that everything either 'slays' or is 'suss'.

Yeah, everyone is a bestie.

The newest one is "and I oop". Which means something like making a mistake.

My youngest, who is still at primary school, likes to call me 'bro" or "bro-ski". (I am a 41-year-old woman)

DRS1970 · 26/01/2023 09:07

Try here...

www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Slang

MichaelAndEagle · 26/01/2023 09:03

Bussin? Related to food being really nice i think.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 26/01/2023 09:00

Icon is some one you really like.

Sweetleftfood · 26/01/2023 08:58

Bosh seems to be the new vocabulary from my teen, not actually sure what it means but I think when something is good it's bosh

iloveeverykindofcat · 26/01/2023 07:30

Mid is a backhanded compliment, meaning something of average quality that is overrated. A person who is vain about their looks might be described as mid to mean well, they 're not ugly, but not so attractive as they think.

Bimbleberries · 26/01/2023 07:26

But I agree with others that you need some teen volunteers from the school in question, if you can find some nice ones, just to give you an idea of what is being said/used there. Better if they could come and help as well, but if that's not practical, at least you talking to them first would help.

Bimbleberries · 26/01/2023 07:25

I think it's probably important to stress how different the meanings are from place to place, even school to school, and situation to situation, so although they can learn to get a general grasp of what is being said, they should be very aware that there will be the potential for a lot of misunderstanding at times, so not to react too much to anything until they can find another person to check out the meanings etc. Learning just enough to kind of follow along and get the idea is good, knowing that you might not be correctly perceiving the intensity/politeness/friendliness/maliciousness etc of the word. And probably not trying to use the slang words yet (if they can identify them, which is obviously more difficult if they are still just learning English).

(Said from the point of view of an English speaker who still had an awful lot of slang to catch up on when moving to England - not even as a teen but a student - and who made some notable mistakes in both understanding and using slang!).

Swannning · 25/01/2023 22:40

'Slay Queen' seems to be the new 'you go gurrrl'
'fit' = outfit....fit check seems to involve taking a selfie in a full length mirror, posting on sm for others to comment on how peng / leng you look
da feds = police
salty = stroppy, argumentative

Hedjwitch · 25/01/2023 22:10

Newest from DS is " shan" or " pure shan" which means hard done by or disappointed. In his case he had thought he was going to be dog sitter of choice for dd2 but she asked dd1 instead which was pure shan man, as he had been looking forward to it.

edwinbear · 25/01/2023 22:04

www.tiktok.com/@eyepatchbb/video/7123635954509860102

Worth a watch - Roadman Peppa Pig goes swimming.

Reminded me of:

Pussyore - Chicken, scardy cat
Donny - alpha male

DoggerelBank · 25/01/2023 21:46

Thank you, everyone. The suggestions and the links are great!
@BeBesideTheSea Good thinking about guides/scouts. I'll see what I can do on that front. Would be so great if there were some kind young people who could boost their confidence rather than knock it back.

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edwinbear · 25/01/2023 21:45

Roadman - courtesy of Urban Dictionary (I’ve deleted some of the unnecessary swearing because well, I’m not a roadman)…

A roadman is the definition of a boy(12 year old) - Adult (30 years old) that comes from the United Kingdom ( Mostly England) who deals drugs, smokes weed and cigarettes with their gang.

Roadmen also know the in´s and out´s of their town and will likely have a place to hang about with mates ( friends ) which will probably be a place in the public to act hard as fuck.

The younger "roadmen" are kids who like to make it seem their life is rough as fuck but when they get home they cant decide which bathroom to use because there are so many. Or which car daddy should drive to work in.

They patrol the streets at night wearing cheap clothes ( Hoodies, Puffy jacket, Beanie, Adidas tracksuits, shitty white shoes and maybe a knife ).
Roadman Slang:

Fam
Bruv
Init
Blad
Cuz
Peng Ting

Some uses:

"Feds wanna lockup init"
"Init Blad"
"She over there is a peng ting mate"
"Hows your mans been cuz?"
"Hows the peng ting bruv?"
"Fuck the opps"

Phos · 25/01/2023 21:36

Bet appears to be a substitute for yes.

BeBesideTheSea · 25/01/2023 21:35

In terms of potential for friendly local teens without you having to do all the admin - how about hooking up with a local Guides / Scouts group. The structured activities might help and definitely not going to make fun of them for asking about slang - not the Guides/Scouts ethos.

Outfor150 · 25/01/2023 21:34

titchy · 25/01/2023 21:28

p's for money (p from pence I assume)
Ends for your local area - as in 'what did you do at the weekend' 'Just hung round my ends'

Pounds, I think - Ps. Not pence.

Camdenish · 25/01/2023 21:30

Oh, oh, may I join in!

Some of the cuz and blud stuff is Roadmen ( man?, am unsure of the plurality, singularity…). This is looked down on by some teenagers, but looked up to by others. I’m unsure how you tell but I think Roadmen wear puffas and female Roadmen still wear skinny jeans. The point being that even within a small area the slang may be different depending on the tribe.

I have been forbidden from saying peng. I think it means you fancy someone sexually. So maybe leave that one.

Yes to aesthetic being used for something that looks nice.

Sorry, I am not as much help as I thought I could be.

titchy · 25/01/2023 21:28

p's for money (p from pence I assume)
Ends for your local area - as in 'what did you do at the weekend' 'Just hung round my ends'

edwinbear · 25/01/2023 21:20

This thread might also help.

www.mumsnet.com/talk/_chat/4122155-Teen-Speak-Translation-Thread-2021

MirabelMax · 25/01/2023 21:20

Fresh trim for new haircut

Easy dub for easy win

Do they still use Stan for when they are a fan of something?

ConstanceAlways · 25/01/2023 21:19

Does this help at all? www.sassymamahk.com/parenting-slang-terms-tweens-teens/

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