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Stay at Independent or go State for sixth form?

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AnotherNameChangeOnTheCards · 15/01/2023 18:35

DD is fortunate to be in receipt of a full bursary for secondary school, and prior to COVID was absolutely thriving there. She's near the top of most subjects, though more in the middle for one of the subjects she would be taking at school sixth form. It's not guaranteed she'll get the 7 needed to continue the subject.

She is struggling with her friends at school as she doesn't feel she has anything in common with them (we are so far removed from the perceived independent school family!)

We have been discussing changing to a state sixth form as they have A levels which DD would absolutely love to do (school offer 1 out of the 3). I just want DD to be happy and achieve her potential, whatever that may be, but I am struggling with the idea of turning down the final 2 years of her bursary. In my heart I think DD would be happier at state, as she would feel she fits in more, but I'm worried that it's going to be a massive disadvantage for her.

Can anyone offer any words of advice?

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Mayim · 15/01/2023 18:46

If you can find a state sixth form where she is likely to achieve her potential and she would be happier, I would definitely move her. If she is not happy an the independent school, she is already at a disadvantage, so would probably gain by the move.

abouttimeforanewname · 15/01/2023 18:42

DD moved from independent secondary to state for sixth form and she is really happy (and so are we).
Although DD was not on a bursary and we were full fee paying, we had adjusted our lives to be able to afford the fees; we were certainly in the lower percentile of the income brackets.

We let our DD make the decision and supported her choice.