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How to manage sports scholar demands for elite athletes

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BigSmiles34 · 10/01/2023 20:26

My DS is in year 7 of an independent school in which he is a sports scholar (partially funded). He is also an academy footballer at a good club.

The school were aware of his ongoing football activities before starting the school, although he has started a new club since attending the school.

There were no policies, specific documents given when we accepted the scholarship, although I was aware that my DS would be involved in sport- presumably football and possibly others.

There are sometimes timetable clashes with school sports and academy training and I have been trying to manage that. The expectation is generally that my DS must prioritise school games and must always attend Saturday sport.

The academy that he is attending trains 3 times a week. 1 of the days is a “day release” from school where the boys do both education and football training.

The school has refused to give permission to “day release” - either part time or full time and have not been supportive or reasonable and only seem to be interested in my son’s contribution to school games.

I feel stuck between a rock and a hard place as my DS is very concerned that he is missing out by not attending his academy programme and feels powerless.

Any advice on how to approach this would be most helpful!

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Drfosters · 10/01/2023 21:01

Look at it from the school’s POV though, you will be be getting reduced fees I assume? That is essentially paying you for your son to prioritise the school sports. Other children would have wanted the scholarship and prioritised it. I’m not saying you should necessarily put the school sports first, as clearly your son is brilliant at it, but maybe you need to relinquish the scholarship and would have more leverage? It is really tough knowing where the balance is sometimes.

lilacclementine · 10/01/2023 21:01

Tbh I'm surprised at the school. Private schools are usually more sympathetic to outside commitments for sports- 2 of DDs friends are now playing tennis and football professionally (football in a very well known club) and the school used to let them manage their timetable around sport commitments. For example school didn't offer football but allowed the football lad to do "general fitness" instead of rugby in case he got injured. His legs are now worth quite a bit!

It might be worth looking at what the sport scholarship is worth if this is why they are demanding he play for the school.

sailingsunshine · 10/01/2023 20:46

I think you will have to choose between the school and scholarship and the academy. Your ds is not the only ds in this situation and I think you will find it's not possible to have day release from school, it will be counted as absence. It's the same with acting, dc are not allowed to star in west end productions and have day release from school for matinees etc.
I would ask the football club for guidance of what has previously happened in this situation.

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