Ours can go in between 9 and 10 to get their results, talk to someone from each Dept if needed and put in for re-mark if thought wise, plus confirming A Level choices. Results also available online from this time.
I think it would be good to look at results in private online and not see them for first time from the envelope in public. This might be in the car outside school or at home, followed by going in for the envelope.
I have booked a celebratory lunch for that day. If it turns our DC wants to go out with friends to celebrate instead, will simply cancel. The celebration will be all about the effort and the positives achieved (expecting good results, but exact level of how good is obviously unknown). If there is real disappointment and DC doesn’t want to go out, that will be fine too. We are then away for the final week of hols with friends who also have Yr11 child, so some form of congratulatory meal will no doubt happen with them too.
It’s been noticeable in last couple of weeks that DC is lowering his own expectations….and looking to lower ours. When he came out of exams, he was very positive and talked about 8s and 9s. Now is talking about being pleased with 7s. I understand this lowering of expectations is normal for this period, as they try to prepare themselves for disappointment. It’s all done now and nothing else can be done to affect the results that will be received on 25th, so I just try to reiterate that whatever the results we will be proud, because we know he worked really hard and no-one can be asked to do more. He sets high expectations for himself and I think worries about letting us down a bit…..am keen to try and dispel that feeling. The reality is, that he has been on for 8/9 through courses, so if grades are very much below this, we will be disappointed…..but for him rather than us really. If this happens I really want to manage my disappointment in order to help him deal with his disappointment. There’s some kind of balance isn’t there between acknowledging what they had hoped to achieve hasn’t occurred….wrong to pretend those hopes were never there….but at the same time, focusing on the positives and open doors. I’m hoping that I can do that well and authentically and not be overly self-invested in it all. The fact we go away a couple of days later is a good thing I think…it will remove the focus of thinking from it too much.