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11 year old getting bus to school

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Chizem · 05/05/2022 23:48

Would you let your 11 year old get the bus to school? My child is starting secondary school in September and I want her to have a bit of independence however the bus she would need to get on is about a 5 minute walk from the house (including crossing a busy road, it does have traffic lights though) and then changes at the main bus station, it takes about 45 minutes and drops her off directly outside of the school. I just feel it’s a bit much for her, she’s beginning to become more independent, like going into the local shop for me whilst I wait in the car or staying at home for around half an hour whilst I pick the youngest up from nursery, but I feel she’s still too young to be travelling on public transport on her own. My 4 year old is due to start school this year and the two schools are no where near each other which makes it even harder as obviously I can’t be in two places at once and I can’t really afford breakfast clubs. Just wandered if anybody has any experience or advice on the matter?
Thanks

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PumpkinsandKittens · 06/05/2022 00:04

Most kids travel to secondary school alone, I know I did, on two buses, my mum would never have taken me in secondary and it would have been embarrassing anyway

AloyNoraWarrior · 06/05/2022 00:02

Don’t most 11 year olds either get a bus or walk to school alone? Mine started Y7 in September and gets the public bus to his school 10 miles away. Not had any issues and helped with independence. When I started Secondary School I had a 45 minute walk.

ZenNudist · 06/05/2022 00:01

My 11yo will be getting a school bus but he has to walk to the stop, remember his money each week, no one is waiting for him to get the bus either end.

I have friends who are doing public transport in y7, perfectly normal.

Schoolchoicesucks · 05/05/2022 23:57

My 11 year old gets the bus.

Will she be travelling alone or can you find her a bus buddy doing the same journey? Dc's school set up a system for local parents to contact each other to arrange for kids to buddy up or lift shares before they started school. Since that, they have found their own group of friends to travel with.

At 11 it's pretty normal to get yourself to and from school - as you say parents can't be on 2 places at once and many parents will have younger siblings to take to primary school.

Practice the journey a few times and see if you can find a travel buddy.

Travelwiththree · 05/05/2022 23:51

How else will she get to school? This is how I got to school at 11 (way before mobile phones!) And this is how my daughter gets to school. I didn't consider any other options. My daughter turned 11 in August and started taking the bus to school a few weeks later.