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Which independent girls' school is the classiest in the UK?

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capstix · 05/03/2022 18:27

This is just a hypothetical question. Both my kids are now at university. But purely out of interest, I would love to know which girls' school or schools people think are the poshest, classiest, most revered, most elite in the country. Please also let me know why you think so.

This is just a 'for instance' and I hope it doesn't cause any offence!

Ones I can think of in the top echelons would be (in what I think is a possible order):

Cheltenham Ladies'
St Mary's Ascot
Downe House
St Paul's Girls
Wycombe Abbey
Benenden
Heathfield
Tudor Hall
Sherborne Girls
Roedean
Francis Holland SW1
St Mary's Calne
Francis Holland NW1
St George's Ascot
St Swithun's
City of London Girls
James Allen's Girls' School (Jags)
Queen Margaret's
Woldingham School
Godolphin
Godolphin & Latymer
The Lady Eleanor Holles School
Malvern St James

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limoncello23 · 03/02/2023 12:40

Fun game. Here's my version

Boarding schools: you can imagine royalty attending
Benenden [Princess Royal]
St George's Ascot [Princess Beatrice]
St Mary's Ascot [Lady Louise Windsor]
Tudor Hall [Lady Margarita Armstrong-Jones]
Roedean

Academic boarding schools (in approx order of academic prestige)
Wycombe Abbey
Cheltenham Ladies'
Downe House

London day schools: (in approx order of academic prestige)
St Paul's Girls
City of London Girls
Godolphin & Latymer
The Lady Eleanor Holles School
James Allen's Girls' School (Jags)
Francis Holland SW1
Francis Holland NW1

No idea how they're perceived
Heathfield
Sherborne Girls
St Mary's Calne
St Swithun's
Queen Margaret's
Woldingham School
Godolphin
Malvern St James

Mardyface · 03/02/2023 11:02

I've met quite few people from CLC and they are all, without exception, loons. Lovely people actually. But loons.

FenghuangHoyan · 03/02/2023 11:00

Just a point on this this, Queen Margaret's School is in a village just outside York. Its not in Edinburgh. As for it being classy, it certainly looks the part and the girls I've seen from it all seem to be polite and well behaved.

MNUser9876 · 14/03/2022 17:14

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Ericaequites · 13/03/2022 19:40

In New England, we say nice, as naice is a bit affected this side of the pond.

Roundlampshade · 13/03/2022 19:28

No preppie worth her salt would say classy or even posh. Things are nice or not nice.

Surely naice or not naice @Ericaequites Wink

CatkinToadflax · 13/03/2022 18:45

I used to work with someone who went to Lucie Clayton. She always used to joke about it because she was the least “finished” person you could imagine - utterly lovely, and not remotely posh or “classy” (what a bizarre word to use). Oh and she could usually be found at work having one of multiple daily fag breaks. I doubt Lucie Clayton would have approved! Grin

KindergartenKop · 13/03/2022 17:47

@MrsMoastyToasty I agree 100%, that place produces the best girls Grin

Ericaequites · 07/03/2022 20:13

Miss Porter’s in Connecticut is the nicest American girls’ school. No preppie worth her salt would say classy or even posh. Things are nice or not nice.

merrymouse · 07/03/2022 10:15

@3peassuit

I went to Lucie Clayton. They taught me how to get out of a car without showing my knickers. Invaluable.
But nowadays we have YouTube for that kind of thing!
Theredjellybean · 07/03/2022 10:06

@3peassuit

Me too... Very useful...

Empressofthemundane · 07/03/2022 09:57

A neighbor’s daughter went to Lucy Clayton. It’s now a secretarial school. She is a PA at a big American bank in the city.

Empressofthemundane · 07/03/2022 09:55

The word “classy” in America is anything but. Professional and upper middle class Americans would never use the word. It’s “cheesy.”

AngelicaElizaAndPeggy · 07/03/2022 09:44

Can't believe that:
A) you have the inclination to even think of this question
B) you have the time to write such an exhaustive list. Is it for a book character or something?

Fwiw, don't discount the international ones. My great aunt went to a finishing school in Switzerland and it was ridiculously posh and 'classy'.

3peassuit · 07/03/2022 09:41

I went to Lucie Clayton. They taught me how to get out of a car without showing my knickers. Invaluable.

Gonnagetgoing · 07/03/2022 09:39

The amount of inverted snobbery here is stupid.

Gonnagetgoing · 07/03/2022 09:38

@Theredjellybean

For the previous poster, finishing schools still exist, though most now have academic years followed by a cultural and skills type curriculum. My dd went to Surval Montreux for a term after sixth form. In London the last formal finishing school was called Lucie Clayton college.. I'm. Not sure when it closed but I was there in the 80's. Though a quick Google shows new ones have opened.. Maybe a resurgence?
@Theredjellybean - my DGM wanted to send me to Lucie Clayton - I'm sure it is still open.

I mean I went to a boring, normal private convent school but there was no way I wanted to be 'finished' at Lucie Clayton so I declined.

Gonnagetgoing · 07/03/2022 09:36

@KoalafiedAwesome

Well calling any girl a slag is a poor reflection on whoever is doing the name calling rather than the girl(s) involved IMO.
@KoalafiedAwesome - was never me who said it - was just other girls from private schools - in jest - one from Alleyns and the other from Streatham and Clapham Girls.
JTK392 · 07/03/2022 08:31

I suspect @JTK392, @GetOffTheTableMabel, @MissyB1, @merrymouse, @Onthetrain75, @cherryonthecakes and @Moobootoyoutoo have been watching too much American television. I agree that when Donald Trump says "Classiest" it does sound somewhat gauche.

@capstix
What does American television have to do with the use of the word “classiest?” I am baffled at your assertion. Perhaps someone else on your too-much-American-television hit list could enlighten me.

I haven’t seen Trump on television because I intentionally avoided the news and television for years.

Confused
MrsMoastyToasty · 07/03/2022 07:45

Red Maids school is the oldest girls school in England (founded 1634, when few females learned to read and write). It's selective and has impressive exam results.

Legoisthebest · 06/03/2022 23:30

When I was at secondary school my school played a hockey match again Tudor Hall. We were served stale cupcakes and very weak orange squash afterwards.
Their uniforms were a bit shabby (because apparently they had to look after themselves). I was at the dentist in town one day and one of the girls was there. Her uniform skirt had the hem hanging down with a load of loose threads.
This was about 35 years ago though so might be very different now obviously Grin

TrashyPanda · 06/03/2022 22:42

You missed out the Marcia Blaine School for Girls.

Everyone knows the girls are “the creme de la creme”.
Not “classy”, that is perfectly vulgar.

Delphigirl · 06/03/2022 22:26

My tongue in cheek annotation. I went to one of these and have never said ‘classy’ in my life.

Cheltenham Ladies' - academic, socially smart-ish. Quite tough.
St Mary's Ascot - academic. Very socially smart for Catholics.
Downe House - academic. Socially smart Berks/oxon. Probably biggest overlap in siblings with Eton, partly to do with geography
St Paul's Girls - very academic, very pressured, but a day school. Some elements of grandeur but mostly MC competitive.
Wycombe Abbey - very academic, pressured, socially not particularly smart- too many Americans and Russians. Elite international rich.
Benenden - moderately academic. Socially smart enough for Kent, but hardly anyone lives in Kent.
Heathfield - not very academic. Socially extremely smart.
Tudor Hall - traditionally where Earls sent their daughters if they educated them at all. middling academically but socially very pukka. Girls equivalent of Radley.
Sherborne Girls - quite academic, very army, but also a lot of less ostentatious aristocracy and foreign royalty. Stealth Smart for those in the know.
Roedean - not especially grand and hasn’t been for decades. Considered to be almost entirely Chinese now, and in the ‘wrong’ bit of England. Middling academic.
Francis Holland SW1 - very socially smart for Londoners, not the county set, and not super academic
St Mary's Calne - academic, small small small, smart amongst Wiltshire set who want girls close to home. Their brothers go to Marlborough. Agree Calne is a dump.
Francis Holland NW1 - nothing in nw1 is smart. a bit more academic
St George's Ascot - middling both ways but gained cachet from the not very bright York princesses
St Swithun's - more of a local MC school
City of London Girls - London academic, not smart at all
James Allen's Girls' School (Jags) - academic, social desert
Queen Margaret's - in Edinburgh? Nuff said
Woldingham School - never heard of it
Godolphin - salisbury MC, not smart at all
Godolphin & Latymer - Hammersmith. London so academic not smart
The Lady Eleanor Holles School - more academic social Siberia
Malvern St James - you have to be kidding

Theredjellybean · 06/03/2022 21:57

For the previous poster, finishing schools still exist, though most now have academic years followed by a cultural and skills type curriculum. My dd went to Surval Montreux for a term after sixth form.
In London the last formal finishing school was called Lucie Clayton college.. I'm. Not sure when it closed but I was there in the 80's.
Though a quick Google shows new ones have opened.. Maybe a resurgence?

JellybeansJelly · 06/03/2022 21:26

@Dancingdreamer

To the poster who asked where Kate Middleton went to school, she was at Downe Hose for a year, and apparently hated it. Then she transferred to Marlborough which is Co-Ed. She was reportedly very happy there. Princess Eugenia also went to Marlborough after St George’s. Not sure if this makes Marlborough “classy” or not.
From what I know about the school, and from people who I know went there, I genuinely don’t think it falls into the category that OP is trying to get at.