You may remember a previous post from me about dd in year 7 and the problems she is having with one particular girl in her year who has been sending nasty MSN and text messages. DD goes to a private school which SHE chose althpough her friends went to other schools.
The school have spoken to the girl and her little hench men and things seemed ok on the last day of term.
Nasty MSN messages continued into the holidays until it came to a head on Christmas eve when my dh sent this girl a text message saying that it had better stop or we would be showing them to her parents and the school.
5 hrs later dh gets an irrate call from nasty girl's father saying how dare he threaten his little darling and that he had evidence that it was a 50/50 thing and that all his dds friends would back her up. Of course she had had 5 hours to call all her friends and doctor MSN messages putting my dd in the wrong.(I know this because I was there at the time said MSN messages were sent and I know what my dd replied.)
We have had a terrible few weeks with dd tears, everyone hates me etc.
Problem is that being a private school there are not many girls to choose from in the way of friends and 2 of the girls dd likes are also friends of nasty.
We are going into the school next week to speak to head but not really sure if this prob can be resolved. We have just paid £3k for this terms fees and she is saying she's not sure if she wants to go back.
Not sure what to do and if she did move schools where she would go.
She has loads of other friends from dancing and from her old school who she sees all the time but no matter how good a school is (and her school IS VERY GOOD)is it worth persisting with if she is so unhappy. What would you wise guys do?